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Sam Elliott....
Now it's getting very very warm in here... 
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OK..now it's getting warm in here..
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I'm just sitting here...sheeesh...I need a life..wait..I have one..
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Not in the real world anyway..
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I keep finding men who do NOT share that philosophy. It frustrates the hell out of me. Why date anyone if all you want to remain a bachelor for life? Is money that great if you aren't sharing it with other people? Is anything all that fun if you are alone? I recently did the Anthony Robbins "get the edge 2" thing, and in the relationships section he said "relationships are for enhancing the human experiance." or in other words: getting a relationship is to find someone whom compliments your life you you theirs. BUT you shouldnt have the mindset that you NEEEED a person to 'complete' you, as if there is this VOID in your life that only a relationship can fill. Its BULL****. Ask yourself this: WHY do I want a relationship? what is it about the relationship that I want? is it the closeness? the intimacy of it? or do you just want to happy? Is it TRUE that a relationship will bring you the happiness you strive for? Can you get this happiness from another source? Fact is you should never be in a place where you believe that you're happiness is dependant on the presence of someonELSE.  
Couldn't have said it better... 
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Dear Diary,
It has been an uneventful day, unproductive and I just loved every minute of it...being a sluggett,recharging my batteries.. by the way Gypsy, read your entry..(I know, diaries are suppose to be private, but I won't tell)..sorry to hear about your friend, but more sorry for the kid.. OK, going to go and do more of nothing..
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Gypsy...I need to take Evelyn Woods' course on reading faster..sometimes I miss some of the posts..(ok, ok, so I can be lazy and not read ALL of them..I'm fessin' up here)..
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I wonder where ya'll got the idea that I think people who like to be alone are nothing? This is the number one reason why I love forums... people are so easily offended and they always twist your words for a fight. I meant that love is worth more than money. I stand by it. I wouldn't trade my kids or my best friends for all the money or things in the world. Sorry but I just can't see how money makes people THAT happy and fulfilled. Soooooooooo ya I can go to the grocery store and mall and even to the gas station alone and Im ok with that!!! I can even go into a restaurant and eat by myself if I so choose and I think nothing....ppl have to eat.....so unless you have absolutely no self esteem or self worth then I guess you will "need" to have someone walk you to the bathroom and help you with that toilet paper!!
So True..I'm the same way..sometimes I prefer to do things alone..
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Gypsy..my bad..sorry....ok..
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I wonder where ya'll got the idea that I think people who like to be alone are nothing? This is the number one reason why I love forums... people are so easily offended and they always twist your words for a fight. I meant that love is worth more than money. I stand by it. I wouldn't trade my kids or my best friends for all the money or things in the world. Sorry but I just can't see how money makes people THAT happy and fulfilled. I hate being alone. One of the things I firmly believe in is family. It sucks when one is single and believes in family. I apologize if you misinterpreted what I said..that isn't my intent.. |
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I learned this the hard way -- I would rather be alone than be with the wrong person. Too many times, I found myself just as "alone" IN a relationship, as I was without one. Ditto...how come you take the words out of my mouth?..what's up with that?...sheeesh..
Hidden microphone in your kitchen You'd be surprised how far I would go to get ideas for posts.... Nope, I wouldn't be surprised, not much anyway..you just never ceast to amaze me...Soooo, thats what that was in my kitchen, thought I was going crazy..hey, shoulda made breakfast while you were planting the microphone... 
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I paid Lex to say that..
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I learned this the hard way -- I would rather be alone than be with the wrong person. Too many times, I found myself just as "alone" IN a relationship, as I was without one. Ditto...how come you take the words out of my mouth?..what's up with that?...sheeesh..
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I keep finding men who do NOT share that philosophy. It frustrates the hell out of me. Why date anyone if all you want to remain a bachelor for life? Is money that great if you aren't sharing it with other people? Is anything all that fun if you are alone? Guess it depends on how comfortable one is within their own skin, to have fun alone that is...I don't have a problem with it...if my friends aren't available (most are married) then I'll go to the movies alone, or a museum, or whatever..I guess it just depends on the individual..I have a friend that won't go ANYWHERE alone..the mall, the grocery store, sheesh, she'll call me to ask me to go grocery shopping with her...which I do, cuz she's a GREAT friend..the price one pays for friendship (ok, that was my attempt at humor)..
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Topic:
Looks or Love?
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Well, I for one don't know the TRUE meaning of Love...thought I experienced it, only to come to the full realization that it wasn't love, infatuation perhaps, I don't think I've ever truly LOVED anyone..except my immediate family...
Sooo, does that mean I'm all for Looks?..hmmm..methinks Not.
Can't judge a book by its cover...hell, can't judge period huh.
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Topic:
Is online dating for Losers
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getting to know someone online isn't any different than meeting someone in public and trying to get to know them because even if you meet someone at a social place,they can still being lieing to your face.the only difference is,you introduce yourself to more people at once online then you do a social places. yeh, what he said. I agree
I'm on here for friendships only..not looking for that "special" someone...there are alot of nice people on here. I have met more people on here than in the "real" world..(for lack of a better way of saying it)..
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Topic:
Things You Never See Anymore
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Do you remember playing "statues" and red light/green light? Oh yeah, and tying 2 cans together with a string and talk to one another?.. |
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Topic:
Things You Never See Anymore
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You never see families going out into the woods and actually camping in tents and roughing it anymore. Now everyone takes an rv, hooks up to a concrete slab with water and electric available and amillion moer slabs around you. A convenience store right on site for you to get what yuo need or want, with an arcade room. The most rustic they get is a communal toilet and shower. Now me, I would rather go into the woods, pitch a tent (this means set a tent up in the proper position lol, not throw it away). Find a creek or river bed to catch fish for dinner, and bathe in. Go hiking and watch the stars come out at night. have bonfires (well protected of course, and even with this setting I agree with having a fire extinguisher available). One campground I went to as a kid was called yogi bear national campground or soethinglike that. They had some campers but was primarily tents. They did have an arcade and general store, but they were also in the middle of the woods by a loke, and they ahd an outdoor "theatre". At least tehy tried to include nature and the great outdoors. Better yet, go with a few friends and set up a ring of tents in the woods like I described above. You can not imagine how fun AND RELAXING it is. Wow..Talk about going down memory road..yeppers those were the good ole days (sheesh, ya think I was old or somethin')..I really enjoy camping, in a REAL tent, surrounded by nature, with a creek, go fishing...have a bonfire, roast marshmellows.
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Topic:
Things You Never See Anymore
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How about kids playing ball on the neighborhood vacant lot,or in someone's backyard or Matinee movies that cost $2.50 or Teaberry gum. Yep..those were the good ole days..
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