Cause you breath, cause we can, just to mess wit your head, cause we are bored ....shall I go on?

Amusing thought - but I have always warned friends off internet dating. Seemed to me that all they ever got was someone several spanners short of a full tool kit. Worse still - they never seemed to listen to the advice - even after one bad experience after another.

Guess the key is indeed 'needy' here: (as one or two friends of mine genuinely are) This site is different to the average in so much as it offers talk boards like this. It also seems (although I am relatively new here) to be more about connections and friendship in the first instance - rather than just full on dating. The truth is that you really do need to be careful when it comes to the net. There are a lot of damaged individuals out there - some of whom will grab at any sign of friendship - like a drowning person grabs at drift-wood. Even being very clear with them regarding your motives - wants - wishes etc is unlikely to work; simply because being lonely can produce such an all consuming need.

Ever felt like, you make a connection with someone..not much but just talking and chatting, exchanging pictures and just being friendly.
You may even talk about possible how you like him or her..but nothing big and the other goes NUTS on you?

Getting flooded with messages and mails and whatnot..and you are interested but it's just too much and too quickly and the other one is playing an emotional game on you, like if you don't answer each mails he or she starts making conspiracy theories how you are pushing her away etc??

And eventually THIS what starts driving you away, with you hands up slowly making steps backward to increase the distance, but at the same time you still getting these emotional outbursts from the other and now you start actually feel guilty about the whole thing?

Hmm?

..from my mom,,


'Worry looks around, sorry looks back, Faith looks up."

Happiness keeps You Sweet,
Trials keep You Strong,
Sorrows keep You Human,
Failures keeps You Humble,
Success keeps You Glowing,
But Only
God keeps You Going


sweet dreams all,.,,

How do you deal with it?
I have been on my own for nearly 4 years now and the lonliness I feel sometimes is unbearable, I keep praying about it but it doesn't get any easier.
I recently met a man through a dating site and we have been chatting and getting really well but he lives 5000 miles away and the time difference makes it difficult to talk and I know it will be a while before we can meet and that kinda makes the lonliess worse...
I put a brave face but sometimes it feels my heart being being ripped out of me...
Does anyone else suffer like this?

If you fall in love with someone, how would you confess it to them?



I can send email with him, telling that I'm beginning to fall in love with him...

or


I can tell him, eye to eye contact, that I'm starting to fall... with my cute smile...

Yes or No

Why?

(pretty straight forward topic huh? )

I'd like to meet some guy who can actually ride a horse!!! LMAO!

rude or not....no answer is an answer....correct?

I TRY to answer all emails....but that is just me.

Answer: A common argument from atheists and skeptics is that if all things need a cause, then God must also need a cause. The conclusion is that if God needed a cause, then God is not God (and if God is not God, then of course there is no God). This is a slightly more sophisticated form of the basic question “Who made God?” Everyone knows that something does not come from nothing. So, if God is a “something,” then He must have a cause, right?

The question is tricky because it sneaks in the false assumption that God came from somewhere and then asks where that might be. The answer is that the question does not even make sense. It is like asking, “What does blue smell like?” Blue is not in the category of things that have a smell, so the question itself is flawed. In the same way, God is not in the category of things that are created or caused. God is uncaused and uncreated—He simply exists.

How do we know this? We know that from nothing, nothing comes. So, if there were ever a time when there was absolutely nothing in existence, then nothing would have ever come into existence. But things do exist. Therefore, since there could never have been absolutely nothing, something had to have always been in existence. That ever-existing thing is what we call God. God is the uncaused Being that caused everything else to come into existence. God is the uncreated Creator who created the universe and everything in it.

http://gotquestions.org/questweek.html

I thought this was interesting

I had one guy living with me (I take full credit for being stupid) that only worked on the mornings he wasn't hung over from the night before. Needless to say.....he rarely worked.

Anytime he got paid....later that night his money was "stolen" EVERYTIME!!

Then he stole my truck and tried to hide it from me. Then told me we are common law, so it's his too. I reminded him that the mother of his child claims his last name and they were together for 11 yrs. I asked him if he got divorced from her and if not then he was a bigamist

He ditched that logic quickly.....AND I repo'd my truck back. I got all kinds of hate calls from his family. I pay form the truck...he pays for nothing and I'm the bad guy?

Where are my Jerry beads?

I hate it when people judge you before even talking to you. I have gotten emails saying your ugly, your hideous, I would never date someone as ugly as you, pull your lip over your face and swallow and you might then be attractive. I have heard them all and it really hurts.

I have a lot to offer someone. I treat who ever im with like gold. But people are so hung up on looks, that all that matters. They would rather be with some hot guy who treat them like dirt then some ugly guy like me who would make them so happy and would think the world of them.

I always see that as a quandary too. It seems really rude not to reply, especially if someone has taken the time to write a long message and they're polite. But there's always the fear that by replying you're showing an interest which may not be there, thus leaving you with the dilemma of having to say 'no' at some point!

But if anyone is crude in any way in their introductory message I don't bother replying at all.

I realize people don't have to reply to my e-mail. Since this guy had nudged me a month ago, I assumed he might be interested, so I emailed him. Should I try to e-mail him again or just leave it alone. I can't decide which is the best? Or am I just a little dense?

Cute, putting us down and asking a question at the same time. Do you know what my job is? Didn't think so...