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honesty.... or more a persn that is like you? im not sure myself.. that is why i ask i so dig honesty rather i like to hear it or not! at least i know where im at! I would much rather hurt by your honesty, then pleased by lies. |
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Are internet people real
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Everything I need to know about sombody I learn from their eyes. Whether it is the twinkle that asks for a kiss or the furowed eyebrows that disagree with what you say, reguardless of the words that come out of somebody's mouth. The eyes tell the true story. Typed words are a very sterile form of communication. Gauging emotions is nearly impossible, words and commitments are easy to break, and personalities are easy to fake. Which leads to the question; Are the people you talk to on the internet real, or is it a liars paradise? There is no real answer to the question, because it is a combonation of real people trying to express who they are and how they really feel and people that use it as a way to preend to be somebody they are not. I just wonder where the majority lies. |
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typical question
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if the sun is out when i wake in the morning,should i stay in bed all day wasting my time on here or wait for a rainy day to waste reading and writing questions about nothing?
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I gotta ask...
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i kinda look at tatoos on women like i do clothes,there are some that look good on them but i would prefer they left them off.
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no respect for opp
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thats a heck of an assumption to make... |
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love my pepsi! 
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White people
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its 48 degrees out so i,m 75 percent of what you are looking for
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fear
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in a recent post the subject somehow got changed to a question of the authenticity of screen names.anyway several people mentioned that only a fool would put their real name on here,you,d have to be crazy to use your real name,or words to that effect.maybe i,m like a 2 year old getting ready to pet a lion but i just don,t get it.what am i supposed to be so scared of that i couldn,t put my name or even phone number on here.years ago i was a professional hitchhiker and after sevaral years of that i just don,t see the danger in this unless it would be identity theft which doesn,t really seem plausible.what should i fear? Name and phone number? Easy target, I'll bite. With your name and phone number I can figure out your address, with all three of those I can rack up your credit debt to unimaginable amounts of money. I can open an entirely different phone number under your name, in an entirely different state, and then...to take it further, I can go through your mail (well, because I already know where you live) and get bills, bank information, credit cards, etc. In the wrong hands, your name and phone number can amount to an awful lot of debt. In a perfect world, you could put all that information down online without concern...but, in case you haven't noticed, we obviously do not live in a perfect world. |
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fear
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in a recent post the subject somehow got changed to a question of the authenticity of screen names.anyway several people mentioned that only a fool would put their real name on here,you,d have to be crazy to use your real name,or words to that effect.maybe i,m like a 2 year old getting ready to pet a lion but i just don,t get it.what am i supposed to be so scared of that i couldn,t put my name or even phone number on here.years ago i was a professional hitchhiker and after sevaral years of that i just don,t see the danger in this unless it would be identity theft which doesn,t really seem plausible.what should i fear?
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He is too busy
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i,m not sure but if you feel somethings not right then you are probably correct.if i had to bet i would say that he is no longer interested in pursuing a relationship and not man enough to be honest with you,hope i,m wrong,good luck.
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dishonesty
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does telling lies ever benefit anybody?i guess what i mean is ,even if you don,t get caught in the lie,are you glad that you lied later.doesn,t every lie come back to haunt you,one way or another.it seems to me that there is a lot more talk about dishonesty on this internet site than in real life.does anyone else notice this.if so,do you think maybe its because people are more likely to admit their dishonesty on here or that maybe its got something to do with the group of people who frequent these sites? "Everyone Lies" ......in some shape form or fashion for example ... is your real name actually "bigojockey"? or are you lying? |
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dishonesty
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a name is not a screen name...they are two separate things. It would be a lie to agree with you. to not agree with me is to lie to yourself ...a screen name is a fake name it's being dishonest ...it's simply not your real name it's a lie....why does the rules about what a lie is change when one log onto The Internet |
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dishonesty
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When you come to a site and are asked for a codename it is not considered a lie because how many todd's or Jeff's or Seans are in the world. It's called business practicality not lying. Movies are based on fantasy mostly, except for the non-fiction ones, They are built on false pre-tenses yes,but a lie is when you say something intentionally to mislead someone at the risk of exposing your own shortcoming or downfall. |
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secret lovers
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i don,t know how anyone that cheats can look at themselves in the mirror.
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dishonesty
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does telling lies ever benefit anybody?i guess what i mean is ,even if you don,t get caught in the lie,are you glad that you lied later.doesn,t every lie come back to haunt you,one way or another.it seems to me that there is a lot more talk about dishonesty on this internet site than in real life.does anyone else notice this.if so,do you think maybe its because people are more likely to admit their dishonesty on here or that maybe its got something to do with the group of people who frequent these sites? "Everyone Lies" ......in some shape form or fashion for example ... is your real name actually "bigojockey"? or are you lying? |
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dishonesty
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does telling lies ever benefit anybody?i guess what i mean is ,even if you don,t get caught in the lie,are you glad that you lied later.doesn,t every lie come back to haunt you,one way or another.it seems to me that there is a lot more talk about dishonesty on this internet site than in real life.does anyone else notice this.if so,do you think maybe its because people are more likely to admit their dishonesty on here or that maybe its got something to do with the group of people who frequent these sites?
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first email
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i hope you were just trying to be funny in your reply.if you are really fearful of being attacked by someone that asks you out on the internet you should seek out help for your paranoia.does that seem rational to you that someone would ask you out and then harm you when you meet.wouldn,t they have a better chance of getting away with it if it was random unless you are some big tv star that have fans stalking you and can,t find you.i haven,t seen your show if thats the case. No, I was not trying to be funny. I am always being cautious. I have been on dates from the internet. But I got to know the guys that I date a bit before going out with them. And yes it is rational that someone would ask a female out just to do them harm. Do you not keep up with the news? Ever hear of the Craigs list killer? I think that person alone gives every woman that has a brain in her head to take extra precautions to be safe. And I do not know where you live, or how peacefull your life has been, but having a son who is a police officer, he tells me to be very cautious of the creeps that are out there. He has gone on calls where women have been hurt meeting strangers from the internet. No, I am not famous and I do not pretend to be. Extra caution is not paranoia. Mutual attraction is more than looks for me. Mutual attraction takes place when a couple's mind and heart connects. That can not take place after one email. Thanks for the question. And see above me, MikeAngel even brings up Jeffery Dahmer. They are out there. |
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first email
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i hope you were just trying to be funny in your reply.if you are really fearful of being attacked by someone that asks you out on the internet you should seek out help for your paranoia.does that seem rational to you that someone would ask you out and then harm you when you meet.wouldn,t they have a better chance of getting away with it if it was random unless you are some big tv star that have fans stalking you and can,t find you.i haven,t seen your show if thats the case.
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first email
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whats wrong with asking someone out on your first email.the way i see it ,if you see a pic and there is initial mutual attraction, then its time to meet and really get to communicate or at least speak on the phone.this typing back and forth seems to be for people to hide who they really are or at least to reveal themselves very slowly like its a game.it just seems like wasting a lot of time to me unless you have nothing better to do. As a woman, I do not have anything to hide. I just do not want to get stabbed in a parking lot. So I take the time to get to know a perspective date a bit in a few emails just to see if my instincts will start screaming, RUN! If they don't, then I am good to go. Plus, it depends on how you asked for that date. Did you place that date for future plans or did you ask for that date where it seemed like you were going to attack as soon as she gets out of her car. Desperation and verbal perviness will scare a woman real quick and send her running. JMO |
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first email
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whats wrong with asking someone out on your first email.the way i see it ,if you see a pic and there is initial mutual attraction, then its time to meet and really get to communicate or at least speak on the phone.this typing back and forth seems to be for people to hide who they really are or at least to reveal themselves very slowly like its a game.it just seems like wasting a lot of time to me unless you have nothing better to do.
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