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He would probably be sitting there looking down and thinking, "...wow look how they create all this mess then turn around and put the blame on me because I wont come and fix there mess up...If I came and fixed it up for them all the time, they would never learn from the mistakes they continue to make...Lucky for them I love unconditionally and I will always meet them at the gate..." You have great thoughts Woz... I'm thinkin' along the same lines as this! |
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just wondering ,
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Aye, wonderful thoughts to ponder.
Ihope more do as well... |
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Midnight Madness...
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Since You're Gone - Cars
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Romance addicts...
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Some people don't have a very realistic view about love or marriage...They aren't really prepared for a life of dirty socks and bills to pay and nights when their partner is dead-tired from a long and hard day at work...Life can still be pleasant even though there is stuff to do besides just sitting around and hugging and kissing and doing non-stop "baby talk."...I think it helps to have a realistic view about marriage versus expecting married life to be about love, love, love and more love (and romance galore) day and night...Don't you?
Well, yeah... I'd have to agree with that! I guess that the word love has so many different meanings that I over-looked what you were referring to. So thanks for taking the time to explain it further. In regard to marriages/relationships that "fail", I don't think it has so much to do with a loss love... it's more like a loss of friendship/respect. Love has endurance... imho... but some fall in love with aspects of another and don't take the time to see/know the whole person. How folks express love is their own business... sometimes two peoples' ways can conflict though... and if we don't keep our eyes open in the early days, things can pile up fast. |
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Are you ready to confess...
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Often times just outta boredom. But mainly because I'm N-AT... so I come here to read, watch and learn. To practice trying and failing, and trying again. very interesting answer... to practice trying and failing and trying again... but what is N-AT? A bunch psycho-babble that basically means I'm a bit different. |
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I think forgiveness helps the forgiver more than the forgiven... no sense hanging on to all that negative stuff anyway.
If someone make a decision that impacts me poorly, I go through natural tendencies of shock/hurt, anger/frustration, depression... etc., etc., then get to acceptance. And move on. Second chances depend the other person... and how willing they are at making amends or even bother to dialogue. But Nietzshe said 2 things about this that I like: "Love is blind... but friendship closes it's eyes." Conversely: "I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you." |
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Hold on to Your Hat - Stones
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Midnight Madness...
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Miracles - Jefferson Starship http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cj3W9rt3GTE Well ...OK ONE more ... hehehe Night ! Awesome song!! |
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Never Forget
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It was easy to bear with that...
Beautifully written. |
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Romance addicts...
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Some people don't have a very realistic view about love or marriage...They aren't really prepared for a life of dirty socks and bills to pay and nights when their partner is dead-tired from a long and hard day at work...Life can still be pleasant even though there is stuff to do besides just sitting around and hugging and kissing and doing non-stop "baby talk."...I think it helps to have a realistic view about marriage versus expecting married life to be about love, love, love and more love (and romance galore) day and night...Don't you?
Well, yeah... I'd have to agree with that! I guess that the word love has so many different meanings that I over-looked what you were referring to. So thanks for taking the time to explain it further. |
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Are you ready to confess...
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Often times just outta boredom.
But mainly because I'm N-AT... so I come here to read, watch and learn. To practice trying and failing, and trying again. |
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I missed this one...
Awesome! |
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Happy Valentines Day
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All good advice... and Welcome.
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Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde
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lol, I kinda' saw you as the novice.
Just much more eloquent. Which is why I read... others putting my pathos to pen. |
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Very nice Mig...
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Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde
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I feed off it, go ahead...Put me on center stage, I'm about to f* this s* up. But I'm a nihilist, I really do not belong...If a scale existed I would most definitely be nowhere near it. Of course, the point is that there is no scale and that I'm really no different than any of you. Alas though, that won't matter much either...I'll still ride the social coattail on a red carpet. That's fine too, I love it over here. and you think I do(belong)? haha, never gonna happen. nope... |
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ottis, the soul man
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TXmLjbTBcdU
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Do you get off on foreplay?
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Okay, Ted... you've finally stumped me... how did you get two adults groping in the dark bumpin uglies in a bar, from, "healthy, active sexual relationship between two loving partners"? I must have missed something in translation... But here's more sincere kudos for KiK... who let it all hang out... his spirit for play is infectious... Well, like I said... it's vague... to me anyway. Are you saying that two people bumpin' uglies and groping in the dark can't be a healthy, active sexual relationship? In your OP, you left it open to "...either strictly as friends, as lovers, as committed partnerships, or even as occasional hookups, just booty calls." Bastet put some limitations on it though... "it's a must in a healthy, active sexual relationship between two loving partners. period." Seems like a strong personal opinion, without qualifiers to me. But, it's her opinion... and you're right that I should've left it go. Apologies to both. |
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I'm not sure what you mean by Romance Addicts...?
Are talking about folks that dance from relationship to relationship? When the flames die down a bit... they go find something new? Or folks that love Love and all the beautiful emotions and actions often associated with an intimate relationship? Then go to great lengths to keep that spirit alive in a monogomous affair with their life-long partner? Either way... to each their own. |
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