We’ve been hanging around the boards for months, reading and posting, deciding who we like, and accepting there’s some we just have nothing in common with. And of course, we’ve already put everybody in various categories such as, he’s handsome, she’s pretty, they’re intelligent, they’re sweet, they’re ornery, they’re quiet, they’re loud…

We’ve even allowed ourselves to admit there are sexy people too, you know the ones, that every time we see their profile picture next to their post, even if it’s not of their face, or we see their names as a post starter and we click on them just to see what they have to say, to see how they will stir up our excitement in that way only they can.

It’s a magnetism we just can’t help, because it comes from a deep primal attraction and an urge to just say “the heck with all our obvious differences” I’ve just got to taste that, even if it’s only by way of a feeling we get in that moment, like an adrenaline rush. And how much more intense does this infatuated feeling become when the subject of our fascination actually notices us?

Do we take this opportunity to put our cards on the table right then, fearing it may be quit some time before they come around to speak to us again?

Or do we play it cool, keeping our cards close to our vests, and wait to see if they come around again, which of course could indicate they have some interest in us, right?

Thanks Ted you are a good guy i think
And a credit to the threads and forums
Because you always read and remark
I APPRECIATE YOU !


Warren

KiK

HELL YES !
I am a sexual creature and a Libra on top of that !
Foreplay in ALL forms is the build up to great sex together !
And to put it totally honest the reason why i AM a great lover
{No brag...just fact}
I am a PLEASER !
I want the lady i am with to climb the wall literally
From the deep satisfaction of sexual interaction with me !
{Gee it sure isn't because i am hung like a stallion}
But i can LICK my eyebrows down....
{snicker}
...THAT and i have ROMAN hands and RUSSIAN fingers




KiK

that's cool, Ted... but I don't know what internet peeps are...

I'm actually trying to coax you into showing me yours, since I showed you mine first.. one day, you promised...

Teditis:

I wear my uniform so that men know ahead of time I am a military gal. Most men turn and run when they find out I am military; so may as well be up front about it. I also don't expect respect for my uniform as I find a lot of men don't even respect me as a woman so I doubt my uniform will make them feel differently. I am not demanding respect because of my uniform as I think everyone deserves to be respected as a person. Maybe you could do it; but I would not dare address a Police officer, or judge, or my boss in a familiar way but to each his own. This is just my opinion but as I said there are times to me that it is inappropriate to address a person in a familiar way. Some people will accept it but others will be offended and this is what the Op was talking abou.T I just happen to agree with her but as I said we will all have our own opinions.

that's okay Ted, we know how you like to analyze things... until you get totally confused... or we do... hehehe what you said sounds good to me... depending on the depth of your greed, the pleasure you give to receive could be all that's needed before a restful sleep...

Of course retaliation is a first, primal instinct
but often the wrong choice in the long run.

Mingle2 takes a higher road.

And they have already suffered consequences if
YOU no longer post there :-)

We're on the internet...There's something wrong with all of us.

I assume we’re all on Mingle to search for and meet people we can form bonds with, either strictly as friends, as lovers, as committed partnerships, or even as occasional hookups, just booty calls.

For those of us who enjoy an active sex life, or look forward too, once we connect with the one we want to share the experience with, do you think foreplay is a vital ingredient needed or desired to spice up the imminent physical bonding?

If so, various forms of foreplay could be:

1) Intellectual activity via creative efforts to stimulate the psyche.
2) Material proffering to also stimulate the psyche via hands on gifts.
3) Physical contact of any variety, and at anytime prior to actual interaction.

I ask this thinking that it will be helpful to learn what people enjoy, and/or expect, so we’ll be better prepared to make our efforts toward pleasing another more effective and worth the time we take to seduce each other. After all, this is what dating really boils down too, isn’t it?