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Fri 01/28/11 12:19 PM
I got here last night around 9:30 pm. Haven't checked out the area yet!

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Thu 01/27/11 03:19 AM
Because this post has 225 replies!! Gives me something to read on a cold winters morning!!!:tongue: rofl

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Tue 01/25/11 06:28 PM
My childhood nick was Monkey because you could always find me climbing trees. One friend always called me ramrod because of my maiden name Ramsey.

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Tue 01/25/11 01:49 PM
It's in bug reports but it won't open the topic when you click on it.

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Tue 01/25/11 01:47 PM
Edited by Tessa02 on Tue 01/25/11 01:47 PM
I was going to go back & read it myself & all I got was the title & post reply button!! Must be another bug!!rofl

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Tue 01/25/11 01:45 PM
So, what you're saying is if I choked the living crap out of someone I wouldn't get stressed?:tongue: Heck, yeah!!!!!devil

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Tue 01/25/11 12:55 PM
It's been a little slow for me as well. I usually just hit the X & then click the link again. I also think I need to clean the dust bunnies out of my tower too!!!rofl

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Tue 01/25/11 11:38 AM
I think growing up in an abusive home is why I'm so F'd up as an adult & ended up with two abusers. Always trying to trust & love the wrong people!!

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Tue 01/25/11 11:11 AM

Tessa, I'm doing just that with my own situation. That's how confident I am. A lot of people wouldn't agree with me - would criticize me - but the woman I am with asks nothing of me but love. Because I have known her for several months, and talked with her about almost every important topic I can think of, I am certain she is the one....and it is a long distance relationship. Since someone has to move to make this all come together, I decided it would be me. I never imagined myself doing anything like this, and yet I am looking forward to it. In fact, I am flying to visit her for her birthday. Before the end of the year, I will likely be moving to be with her.

So, if it feels right, follow your heart and go with it. You know yourself best. The only person you have to answer to is yourself.


I wish you two the best!! I'd never thought I'd be doing this myself. I'd planned on relocating out of state this spring before we met. My rent will be paid up for 2-3 months in case things doesn't work out I'll still have my apt to come back home too. My kids are grown & I hardly see them anymore & figure it's time for me to take a chance on happiness. I've spent 7 months on the road 3 years ago & used to living place to place & out of bags in motels, etc. It's not the easiest life. But, with him I think it'll work out!! I'm way beyond the big house on the hill, 6 kids & a white picket fence with a big dog in the front yard! Keep it simple!!:smile:

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Mon 01/24/11 09:54 PM
I've been with a guy 4 months who makes his living traveling on the road. He's a surface miner who constructs the chutes, buildings, etc getting coal mines up to code. He's one of those guys who leaves at a moments notice to go from one state to another & one job to another to make a living. He makes more in a day than I make in a week. Yesterday I just quit my min wage job to go on the road with him. He went to IN a couple weeks ago to visit with his kids & I was a total basket case without him here. I know I'm taking a gigantic leap & risk to be with him but he's asked me to go on the road with him & I've decided I can't risk losing him & we go on the road this week headed for PA. I know I'm taking a major risk & hope things works out. But, the alternative of living without him is more than I can bear. Out of 21 years of marriage & numerous relationships no one has ever turned my head & captured my heart like he has. If you found the person you feel you have waited for all your life who makes living a blessing instead of a curse how far would you go? Would you take the risk & give up all your familiar with to be with that perrson?

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Mon 01/24/11 09:21 PM


If you are interested in someone...Do you tend to make the move to keep trying to know them more..or sit back and wait to see what they do?


I try to know more about that person.


I prefer to get to know them on the forums & let the guy make the firt move. Right now I'm with someone & am here for the friendships I've made along the way. The chatter & banter is what keeps me coming back!!

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Mon 01/24/11 09:06 PM
Youngest guy I have been with in the last year was 31 & I'm 43. I just didn't see the wow factor in a younger guy. He was very immature & a poor F'k!!rofl

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Mon 01/24/11 09:00 PM
Anyone from here? I looked in regional & there's no listing that I can find for PA. I'll be going there for a few weeks hopefully in the next week. Was suppossed to leave out tomorrow. What kind of attractions is there. I did look up bowling alleys & found one not far from where I'll be staying. thx

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Mon 01/24/11 08:43 PM
You know only an addict or alcoholic can understand your message. After alomost 2.5 years of being clean & sober I ended up relapsing on alcohol. I commend those who can stick to the program & recover. I guess I just lost the will to stay sober. Been through a lot the last few months & went back to what I know. Whatever you do don't go back!! It's not a good feeling! I'm hoping I'll regain the desire to go back into the program myself. Right now my life is still managable but none the less a mess!! After relapsing I tried to go back 2 days later & my ex abusive BF wouldn't let me go back to meetings. Here I am 6 months later still drinking. At least I've left the drugs alone except for a couple times on pot which I feel bad about. I don't want to drink but find myself drinking anyways. I don't want to be this way but haven't found my way back.sad2

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Mon 01/24/11 06:58 PM
rofl I'm just fine officer!!!!

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Mon 01/24/11 06:54 PM
I totally agree & have thought about posting something similar myself. I don't need any validation from anyone to know who & what I am. If I answer any of these post at all I usually have some snide remark like "It's ok but nothing exceptional" or something to that effect. Attention whores are just sickening!! JMHO

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Mon 01/24/11 06:31 PM
Edited by Tessa02 on Mon 01/24/11 06:31 PM

Yikes you guys.
I look at profiles all day with
no 'perverted' intentions.
If someone says something funny,
or clever, or deep, or incredibly
stupid I click on their profile
to check it out.
I check just as many gals as guys.

I do not take seriously anyone
looking at my profile either. I
guess I think they are looking for
the same reasons as mine.

I do not think I have ever 'window
shopped' the site, I look at
profiles to get a handle on
the poster. I do not care if they see
me looking, never used stealth, oh
and I also will post on 'date nights'
where others won't as I have heard
they do not wish to look lonely on
Friday and Saturday nights.

Pffffft.

You cannot see 'pervs' on your profile
from the same sex that you are NOT
looking for, only the opposite sex,
and what you ARE looking for.

In other words, men cannot see other men
looking at their profile and likewise
women cannot see other women looking
at their profile.

The caveat is, that is only true if
you are looking for the opposite sex.
If you are looking for the same sex,
then it would not show you looking
at the opposite sex. Only your own.
I hope this confuses everybody :-)


I look pretty much for the same reasons as sofie. Maybe they said something funny or according to their post they seem younger/older than actual age, or just to see where someone is from from something they said about their town, etc. Occassionally I look just because I can!:wink: :tongue:

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Mon 01/24/11 12:26 PM
Makes ya want to pick her up & drag her down the line doesn't it?rofl

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Mon 01/24/11 12:23 PM
I usually don't reply until I've gotten to know them in the forums. Most emails from people I don't know consist of "nice azz" or I'd really like to get to know you call me sometime with a #. It depends a lot on how an email is worded if I feel it's just someone trying to make friends.

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Mon 01/24/11 12:18 PM
No, I sell real cookies to fake friends. That way I get to eat them all!:wink:

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