Normally once the relationship is over so is the friendrship. I have stayed friends with a few & they tend to drift off as we both start seeing others. Ironically I've remained friends with 3 of my ex's mothers! One being my oldest sons grandmother til she passed away a few years ago. Another from back 30 years when I dated her son when I was 15 & most recent a year after mine & her sons split. Mama's wuv me better than their sons!!!
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How to say no!
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You should never be expected to do things you don't like & especially things you have a phobia over. If it's a deal breaker then maybe she isn't the right woman. I'd respect a man for telling me he's uncomfortable with doing something I like to do. I'd look into other things we both enjoyed. its not a deal breaker this is a example. its other things aswell obviously i will do things i dont like but i dont like letting people down i feel bad for like a week after. You know what? You need to just stop it!!! I'm serious. I was married for 21 years & I was the one who always went along with whatever he wanted. In the end I lost sight of who I really was. Now, I started tending to do this with my current BF because I'm so used to doing it & he get's onto me & tells me I need to be more outspoken & not always agree with everything. He realized right off the bat that I was too agreeable. You can't make yourself suffer to make everyone else happy. |
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How to say no!
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You should never be expected to do things you don't like & especially things you have a phobia over. If it's a deal breaker then maybe she isn't the right woman. I'd respect a man for telling me he's uncomfortable with doing something I like to do. I'd look into other things we both enjoyed.
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I'm addicted...
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I just started using Grooveshark a few days ago. Nothing to download or install.
http://listen.grooveshark.com/#/ |
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I should be ashamed but I love the blond jokes!!!
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I remember once going out to the bowling alley & being placed right next to a group of mentally challenged grown adults. My BF at the time was a little nervous on how I'd react. We bowled & got to talking to the group & high 5'ing each other. We litterally had a blast. Afterwards he said he should have known with my personality that I'd blend right in. I'm very accepting of others & things like that doesn't bother me. We've been back to the bowling alley many times & I still think that was the most fun I've had was that first night!! Just to watch them bowl & the excitement we shared was the best!!
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YOU can't see me.....
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When I was in the drug rehab program we did a poster of the many mask we wear. At the time I was the skeleton wearing mask for all to see so I could cover up the dead/empty feelings inside. Learned a lot about the mask wearing then. Nice write!
http://www.bookmice.net/darkchilde/spirit/masks.html |
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Screen resolution
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Pardon me if I mistype someting - I can barely read this size. I can make my laptop screen resolution absolutely HUGE but on Mingle it is so tiny - no other websites are, just Mingle. Anyone have a clue how to fix this?? If you're using Internet Explore, at the bottom you should see a magnifying glass in the right corner, click the triangle and set it to 100%. Also, at the top, click on view, text size, and set it to medium, larger, lager, whatever looks best to you. Also, what Fear said about the resolution. I'm using IE7 & I can use the magnifying glass on the bottom right. But, if I go to view & change it to largest then I can't bring up my profile or email. I switched back to medium & the page opens fine. thx |
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pictures
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I was wrong in my earlier reply. This site does have the private option for friends to view your pics. I didn't realize that! Sorry!!
http://mingle2.com/topic/show/294594 |
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C.N.A training help
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You can also check with job traning centers & colleges. They can help direct you to funding & grants, etc. If you have a workforce in your area they will sometimes help fund job training.
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first impressions
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I think it's one of the best I've seen in awhile. You're very photogenic & seem comfortable in front of the camera. A natural playful look. Think you have written in details of what you're looking for very well! Welcome to Mingle!!!
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pictures
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No, once you change the picture back to no picture all your post & emails will revert to the added photo (in this case no photo). I just changed my photo the other day & all past post show my new pic instead of the actual pic I had when posted. Some websites has the option of "friends only" viewing your pics but this site doesn't have that option. It's either all or nothing baby!
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we as a people
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Very well written! TY
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New pics of mine..
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Your interest are very vague & like the others have said get rid of the text!! Pics are nice tho!
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Only once here. Can't remember the thread but there was some online flirting. This gal who'd never met a guy here but liked him got so jealous she started harrassing me through emails & I had to block her emails because she wasn't worth my time. I mean come on...jealous over a guy you've never met? Sheesh!!!
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angry JRD 1-16-2011
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I'm sorry your angry
I'm sorry your mad Sounds like he lost the best girl he could have ever had! |
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We met on the NET
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I plan to go on the road myself
never knowing where I may end up next. Could be colorado, PA, or IN. Wherever I go to lay my head. I'll be somewhere you may end up & well have that cup of coffee & catch up!! Not much of a poem. I don't even rhyme. I've worked all day & have lost my mind! |
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We met on the NET
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You said you sometimes
come to my edge of town I told you to look me up the next time you were around. A lunch, a cup of coffee Two friends saying hello. Maybe someday will will tho!! |
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I've met one guy from here. It didn't go real well unfortunately. Did they "fall" into your "basement?" No they weren't how they portrayed themselves in their profile & talking to them on the phone. I'm just me everywhere I go. Being fake isn't what I'm about. |
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Keeping your secrets.
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No, I don't keep secrets. I really suck at lying!!
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