Feelings and emotions are two completely different things pizon. Most people show their feeling all the time by what they say. People who show their emotions normally keep the reserved for those closest to them.

Heres a feeling right now and I quote myself.

"My soon to be X-wife should be shot, run over by a Buick then hung from a tree."

Do I really mean it?

Well......ok you got me there.

Haveing to lie to my 9 and 6 year old daughters about why mommy left us for another man. That really sucked.

Hmmmm....

1/I have overcome sadness and moved on.
2/I have overcome hatered for one that I once loved.
3/I have overcome wanting to die
4/I have overcome my weight issue (52 pounds in 2 months)
5/I have overcome myself.

2 and counting....

Right on brother.....Don't drink...and my pants stay on...so I don't scare anyone in the area....not a good site that would be!!

Yea I know what not to look for anymore....someone that is coldhearted and materialistic. I hate that. What the hell was I thinking.

I am jumping into the conversation abit late here but let me say this.

I am just starting out on the "dateing" scene after being married for ten years, then being dumped for another man. I know how you feel when you say that you don't know what to expect...hell I have no idea what I am doing. I do know a few things though.

Most of my friends are morons when it comes to women, they just want one thing and I believe that goes with most men.

I cannot comment on women in general but all I can do is say that you guys like to keep secrets from us guys for some reason. Don't hate me for saying that.

My main point is this....something good always comes to those who wait. I went thru 10 years of insanity, but I got my two wonderful daughters out of it.

Mr. Right will find you or you will find him, either way you will be happy. Good people cannot be screwed over ALL their lives dammit!!!

Marriage sucks. nuff said. Yes im disgruntled.

:::twiddles his thumbs and whistles::: dumdee dummdee dumdee dummee

This is a good debate.

Keep it goin, lets hear more opinions.

Without evil there is no good and visa vera. I am netrul because I am human, as are we all. Nuff said.

Not close minded. If it is GOD you believe in, or the DEVIL or ENERGY or anything I believe it is a good thing. The ones that have absolutly nothing to believe in or have faith in are the ones that need worry.

Personally I like hearing other peoples views and talking about them. Makes for interesting conversation. Anyway, I have been to church several times but have never liked it, because I am not into the whole domination and serving thing. My family is Catholic. I am not. I have no problem with noteing other peoples views on ANY religon and respecting them. However, I get concerned when some people try to "push" thier views onto me or others. There is a fine line between those that "talk" about their religon and those that "recruit" their religon, therefore I do not believe in religon.

Faith or whatever you believe in is great and I support it 100%, but when someone begins to try and recruit me by "preaching" I draw the line and go my own way. I have never and will never "push" my views onto others. That is not me. I just like talking about different ideas from different kinds of people.

Besides I believe free speech and free will are still out here somewhere.

Hmmmm, this is why I do not attend church.....The quote was from the beggining of a song.

This is what happens when religious fanatics think that GOD is everything there is.

Simply put, I believe in haveing faith but not orginized religion. Is there a GOD? Are there many GODS? who knows for sure. But the way I see it is this. If you have something to believe in and have a strong faith about it, you don't need to preach about it or worship it. Just live life the best and as good as you can is all.

Oh and try not to kick the cat too much.

Trust me I thought of that but then my conscience kicked in....kinda

Why is it that GOD has admonished us to hate evil?? Well first of all GOD is evil....

Oh man I just tossed fuel onto the fire.

Enjoy!

Speaking of bannana people......I knew the Bannanannaman once....interesting fella....bounced around in a big yellow suit turning people into woodchips with his magical spoon....POOF! your a drow....long and strange story behind that tidbit.

Kelly is defently Irish...did't say I was pure whap. Just mostly sicilian...irish...german..polish..blackfoot indian.

And thanx all for the welcome...gunna be interesting round these parts....

I am from everywhere in the big O. Currently in New London.

Well here goes my story I guess, I will make it short and to the point.

I got married to my childhood girlfriend at the age of 19 in 1996. We had our first born daughter 2 years later, in 1998. At 22 I went into the Navy in 1999. Was stationed in Texas. After a year in Texas we got pregnet with our second daughter in 2000. I went on deployment and we decided that she would be better off back here in Ohio untill I returned from deployment because I was still new and made little money. I came back to Texas but she stayed in Ohio with my kids. I tried and begged to get her to come back to Texas but she would not. I gave her power of atterny for insurance because she was not working and needed it for my girls. Fast forward to the begining of 2003. I call her one day and she tells me she bought a $150,000 house, without even telling me....a month later a $32,000 truck then a month later a $22,000 car......all in my name.

Ok, I get out of the Navy in November of 2003 and get a real good job I tried to make things work but.....I noticed we never had any money....she still did not work. I told her either get a job or things will change. A year later I had enough....quit a $26.00 an hour job and got an $8.00 an hour job....she still would not help....needless to say we lost the house, truck and car. Year is 2005. She finally get a job for the first time and its a good one, $18.00 and hour. Now that she is makeing the most money I am no longer usefull and I begin to notice.

2006. Things get really bad. We go bankrupt in May because of the house,truck,and car. Clean slate. 2007 begins, March....she is already over $25,000 in debt.

We seperate in April to sort things out..did not expect this..In May she text messages me while I am at work and says she filed for divorce. Ok. So I begin to get suspisious...I gather info and finally figure out what has been going on ALL this time.

First part of June. I find out she had been cheating on me since she got the new job. Found out she had been on birth control because she was screwing someone else...heres the kicker...she has the Human Papalomav Virus (form of cervical cancer) and never told me.

Now we are in the middle of a divorce. She's friggin nutz and I just want out. Pretty screwed up huh?

Married ten years, two wonderful daughters, I supported her the entire time, and she leaves me for some guy she met at a bar.

YOU NEVER TRULY KNOW A PERSON UNTILL ALL THEIR SECRETS AND LIES COME OUT!!!

Oh man, you guys have no idea unless you have had these....Im Sicilian and love to cook so here goes.

Grab up some large fresh portobello mushrooms, as big as you can get em....make sure you wash em...left the dirt on once...not a pretty sight.

Anyway, yer gunna need freshly groung LEAN beef, sausage and turkey. Mix the three meats and set that aside. Next grab some of your favorite cheese....I like provalone, baby swiss and maybe abit of chedder to add sharpness and color. Mix and set aside.

Now for the sauce. You can use just about anything but I like to use alfredo and freshly diced tomatos mixed.(try not to use jared stuff if you can.)

Ok, here we go. Take the mixed meats and brown them in a large skillet, but not fully cooked, browned....just enough to get the most grease out. At the same time start your sauce (without the tomatos) on medium until that simmers. When the sauce begins to simmer toss in the maters so they dont get too soggy, then set the temp to low on the sauce. Take your 3 quater cooked meat off the flame, drain as much grease as you can, then stuff your shrooms. Grab a cookie sheet(NO NON-STIC, it kills the flavor) and cover it with foil. Place your now stuffed shrooms on the sheet(its ok to overcrowd)and stick them in the oven on 350 for about 15 to 20 minutes. Just check the meat on one shroom to make sure they are done.

Yank the shrooms out(and you have to do the rest kinda quickly)place one shroom on one plate, toss the cheese mix all over the meal mixture while it is pipeing hot(cheese before sauce so it has time to melt), wait a few seconds then smother all the shrooms on each plate with the sauce......and yer done.

This dish is great for a meal or a simple bite. Goes great with a white wine or even beer, your choice. Toss in some garlic laced flat bread and its that much better.

Im tellin ya folks you will burst in yer jeans once you have had my shroom.....um no pun intended.

Hello all,

As you guessed I am new to the site. I am pretty new to the whole "dateing" scene since I just got divorced after a ten year marriage. I was burned pretty bad but oh well life goes on I assume. I am not really sure what I am supposed to be doing so I will just say hello to everyone and smile.

Laterz all,
Kelly