if you went out on a first date....and everything went great
he said he had a great time....even gave me a goodnight kiss...
then nothing....no calls nada.....i know i havent dated in a long time but how long do most of you guys go before calling after a first date?

i think that there is no a specific time to call a gorl after the first date.
it depends on how intense was the first date.
meaning how strong was the connection

its was ok he seemed more connected lol....i am not sad about it just tryin to remember the rules lol

if he doesn't call you after your first date. even though everything went well. just keep in mind,'HE WAS NOT INTO YOU'

that was what i learn about guys. on a t.v. show. don't hold your breath.. 'HE WAS NOT INTO YOU" AND move on to the next until a angel sends the right one. when he will be INTO YOU...

If he was really interested he would have called the next day.

Hell If it was me.I would be calling the next day if I new the date I was on was interested in me. I don't play this lets wait game stuff that some of this guys that think it's the way to go,lets see how interested she is in me because eithere she will or she wont. Not hard to figure out lol

dunno bout that life happens guys dont wanna come off as stalkerish either i usually give like three days a week.

I guess it depends on the guy and person all in all. I mean if you have his number if he give you his number then call him in a few days and be nice at first and if he starts making crap up, go on a normal woman tell off and hang up.

Maybe I'd shouldn't of said that but. You'll find the right guy when your least looking for it.

I'm not a guy...but...I have 3 older brothers and know a lot of men...


And there is an unspoken rule on this...

It's called the 72 hour rule...no calling before 24 hours, because that makes you seem desperate...But...within that 48-72 hours is ok...

But after 72 hours makes you seem like you forgot about her...so you don't bother after that either....

I will always call back thenext day (assuming I have your number lol). Even if the date wasnt that great, i will call back tot hank the lady for sharing her evening with me. And if it WAS greatand we both enjoyed it, you canbet your butt that I am gonna call back as soon as reasonable (and maybe a few minutes before reasonable lol) to set up to see you again!

As Shadow stated, I dont play the "hard to get" game. I dont like the game as it makes things too confusing and I prefer honost and open communication, over trying to figure out if someone likes me or not.

So, after our date this saturday, I promise you can expect a call on sunday from me

angel after the guy kissed you goodnight , did he say that he will call you back ? A guy doesn't have to call you back If that was never mentioned . But If he did say that he will call you back , but never did, then move on to the next .Because angel If I went out on a date and kissed a person goodnight I would not get back. The only way I would get back is If we had discussed when to call her .

yes he said he would call....i have been out of the dating scene for like 5 years so i dont know what to expect really lol

I agree with the finger...lol. I think the 72 hours is stretching it. Then it is truly giving the finger.

Well comone people if you met them off this site and you been talkingfor a little while OM HELLO but that is if only it was off a site lol

angel If he did say that he was going to call , and he never got back . Then angel move on If he was really interested then he would have gotten back. And angel this happens sometimes sometimes certain guys feel the person he was with was no good because she didn't put off for SEX . Angel I am 1000% sure If you had put out for SEX he would have gotten back . Angel let guys like that go , 1 guy like that is not worth the time .

well ty terry and too all ty

<------------will never understand men LOL

<---- has never, and will never try to understand women, lol....

<---- has never, and will never try to understand women, lol....

lmao we arent that hard to figure out....