Well here goes my story I guess, I will make it short and to the point.

I got married to my childhood girlfriend at the age of 19 in 1996. We had our first born daughter 2 years later, in 1998. At 22 I went into the Navy in 1999. Was stationed in Texas. After a year in Texas we got pregnet with our second daughter in 2000. I went on deployment and we decided that she would be better off back here in Ohio untill I returned from deployment because I was still new and made little money. I came back to Texas but she stayed in Ohio with my kids. I tried and begged to get her to come back to Texas but she would not. I gave her power of atterny for insurance because she was not working and needed it for my girls. Fast forward to the begining of 2003. I call her one day and she tells me she bought a $150,000 house, without even telling me....a month later a $32,000 truck then a month later a $22,000 car......all in my name.

Ok, I get out of the Navy in November of 2003 and get a real good job I tried to make things work but.....I noticed we never had any money....she still did not work. I told her either get a job or things will change. A year later I had enough....quit a $26.00 an hour job and got an $8.00 an hour job....she still would not help....needless to say we lost the house, truck and car. Year is 2005. She finally get a job for the first time and its a good one, $18.00 and hour. Now that she is makeing the most money I am no longer usefull and I begin to notice.

2006. Things get really bad. We go bankrupt in May because of the house,truck,and car. Clean slate. 2007 begins, March....she is already over $25,000 in debt.

We seperate in April to sort things out..did not expect this..In May she text messages me while I am at work and says she filed for divorce. Ok. So I begin to get suspisious...I gather info and finally figure out what has been going on ALL this time.

First part of June. I find out she had been cheating on me since she got the new job. Found out she had been on birth control because she was screwing someone else...heres the kicker...she has the Human Papalomav Virus (form of cervical cancer) and never told me.

Now we are in the middle of a divorce. She's friggin nutz and I just want out. Pretty screwed up huh?

Married ten years, two wonderful daughters, I supported her the entire time, and she leaves me for some guy she met at a bar.

YOU NEVER TRULY KNOW A PERSON UNTILL ALL THEIR SECRETS AND LIES COME OUT!!!

Wow......all too many times Ive heard similar stories. Mine were never as good as yours though...I could go on and on about mine but I just leave when the **** hits the fan. Anyways, welcome to jsh......have fun!

Damn, that bites. And here I thought my drag queen ex was bad, at least he helped me build my wardrobe...

Yeah I'll say. I wouldn't even sleep with my x-hubby when I knew he was cheating on me.

kill the bit@h and take the kids

Trust me I thought of that but then my conscience kicked in....kinda

Have heard similar stories. Sadly, majority of the men that it happened to are in the military.

Sorry it happended to you. On a positive note...at least you are still young. You found out early before she could bring home a deadly disease to you. There are good women out there, promise.

secrets and lies...can ONLY lead to HURT

I'm sorry that you had to go through all of that. For your sake, I hope that you get to see your daughters, they need their father in their lives. They should be your main concern right now. I'm glad your doing better....now