Thank you Congrats on making yours work!!

Ok just posted on LDR post.

I need advice from you wise ones you know who you are.....

I just meet guy on other site. But he is over 100 miles away. He says
he like to get off ranch on weekends. (His job) I own my farm not moving anytime soon. I told him too far. We have lots in common but I don't want a LDR. He says give him a chance to at least get to know him. etc.
vice versa. Is it too soon to give phone number out? Should I shut it down right away because of distance? The pickens are slim to none where I live. It seems all the guys I find interesting are far far far away.
Any advice?

OMG I just meet this guy on other site we have a ton of things in common. He is over a 100 miles away is that considered LDR? I told him he was too far away. He says he like to get away from ranch on weekends.(His job) I'm not moving no way I own my farm. Is it wrong of me to think this is too far. To shut it down right away? He says to at least give him a chance to get to know me as friends first. I'm not looking for LDR. Pickens are slim to none where I live advice anyone?

I KNEW IT I KNEW IT YOUR FREAKY !! JK

A man who can clean up after himself, help cook, fix broken things.
I find it sexxy to watch a man work on anything a truck or tractor or
the kitchen drawer. Seriously

OH & A BRAIN!!! duh

Wow you were adorable in this picture.

I like my eggs unfertilized

OMG I kill me.... Sorry I tell lousy jokes...

Unless there are not pg13

WTH... Are you asking for it or what. There is no dress code. Be happy
and proud if she is going home with you.....


I think your baiting women everywhere with this one. Besides
tell the truth you get lazy and pull on sweat pants when your
comfortable in a relationship be honest ....LOL :


P.S. I didn't know an outfit could talk availability???

You need a girlfriend LOL

Me being honest I don't wear makeup as often to not draw
extra attention....

Oh where to begin where to begin is there enough space for my issues..LOL

I too was abandoned by my mother like her mother & her mother before.
Starting to see a pattern yet. Had a doting father just unable to raise
two young daughters himself. So great grandmother stepping in, more
by obligation than choice. She was a perfectionist. Which all this has
caused multiple issues for me more like obstacles to overcome.

STILL A WORK IN PROGRESS....

The abandonment has caused me to have trust issues, and I find
still sometimes hard to open up. At first. Compounded with two
yes two failed marriages. Hard to swallow & admit defeat.

Then there is the stubborn need to be an over achiever. In career
family, & school. Even at top of my profession I still feel as
though I am unaccomplished. I hauled everything from cattle to
oversized loads. I was once told women belong barefoot and pregnant
in the kitchen. So as a joke. I enrolled in Cosmetology school.
More as a joke. Then the competition was on. Graduated in top
three. That is 473 days I'll never get back... For a tomboy it was
a wild ride. I look back and realize while I like a good challenge
I have to comfortable in my own skin. I have to love myself and
be happy with myself before I can offer any type of commitment to
or in a relationship. I don't need or have to be the best. I
have found hobbies have helped. No competition in gardening, If
there is DON'T tell me.........

Still have some issues with that fact I'm a 6 ft tall Amazonian
girl. But I have decided to heck with it. My mom was 6'1 uncles
6'4 & 6'7 their dad was 7'4. It's just GREAT genetics LOL


That is does not translate into LOW self esteem I'm not conceited
just confident. AWKWARD but confident.

Oh kinda skipped over quick tempered WORKING ON THAT!!
**Next man will have to have patience of a SAINT LOL**

We all have past issues from relationships, but what's important
is to chalk them up to learning experiences and move forward.

Not to let them get in the way. Or leave you feeling unworthy or
lower your self esteem. Put if off to the side, & get back up on
that pony. Ride hard. You only get one go round. Don't just
sit in the stands.

I'm not trying to be judgmental here but if I see a red flag. I
run for the hills as fast as I can. Life is short I want
to spend it being happy & positive. There are certain things to
consider even though we all have some past scar's from relationships
that we factor in our choices.

I think finding someone we are compatible with is hard enough let
alone trying to deal with crazy to. So I kick the crazy in the bar
ditch a move along.

I feel omission is betrayal.

Well just be glad you know you are not the one for them and keep
looking.It's not likely they will find what they are looking for
anyway it's a jungle out there good luck. AVOID the crazy's if you
Can!!

That's not a conversation starter to begin with. I think it's in poor
tasted to discuss finances on dates anyway. If you are weeding out the
"GOLD DIGGERS" Be grateful. A true love won't care if you ride the bus
or drive a Lexus. Be yourself. Either she will be into you or not!

But don't tell someone your not rich. That's a bad idea in any
dating or introduction situation. Remember first impressions
are lasting. Put your yourself out there in a positive light!!

Good luck

No didn't expect to find him and have him jump in my lap.
But no 1 got pretty close with his response. Still hopeful
though. Nothing worth having ever comes easy in this life.

I wake up with a smile everyday. You never know when....
Might not be on the internet,could be someone right in front of
my nose all along. Or a complete stranger. But this is not what
I expected....

I looked out mu window and one of my lambs born yesterday was nursing
her mother and her tail just goes crazy like a helicopter blade. She is
the only one that does that. It's great the circle of life.....

I agree with Ms R but I did not know about several photos full length

OMG is everyone totally missing the point here. It's not about comparison here. I hear you loud and clear.

It's about the good stuff. I have met someone with that instant
attraction, and chemistry. Things in common. A decent conversation
someone I could talk to for hours. Great person great job. I had
known him briefly years ago. But there is none of the good stuff
so I found myself pulling away, I guess maybe deep down. I'm not
either that interested or giving it the time necessary. I don't
even compare him to X in any way shape or form they are polar
opposites.

But I'm looking for the GOOD STUFF it's just not there!!!!!

I like both green eyes & waterloo's responses while funny
not practical.

It's call a crush that's why they hurt so BAD...

Believe me when you finally meet the one you were meant to
be with your gonna be like who was that. OMG what was I
thinking.

Good luck on your journey

I don't understand the issue here tell them you are flattered and
move on, unless it truly bothers you.

Some women are into older men. Some are not. But if you are
honest with them about your age and it bothers them move on.

But if you are active in seeking younger woman repost in profile
your age. Some girls are flirty some girls use it to their advantage
be cautious of those girls.

Each to his own, I say whatever floats your boat. Be happy with
every compliment you get. Not all folks age as well.. LOL

YES unfortunately. I am a workaholic. I'm having trouble with this.
I need to learn to delegate my time better. Making me time is hard.
I'm starting to wonder if I can even fit dating in lately.....
Decisions decisions....

All work & No play

I spend too much time on work & farm. I don't know what No1 is having
but I'll have that (When Harry Met Sally) LOl.

I am a one man woman in a relationship.

However that being said, dating is just that dating. Not long term
or a relationship they are totally different things. It's not like your tied down married or engaged. You can date different people at the same
time. You are getting to know them. Finding out if you want to pursue
things further. On a different level.

But I am new to this whole dating thing some terms still confuse
me as well casual dating now a days sounds like casual sex on different
sites. Your either casual hooking up or casual dating. I am unclear
on all the lingo. Times have changed. If you are upfront and clear your
are not exclusive. You should keep your options open. There is no
stringing along. It's dating unless no strings attached LOl Just kidding

In my opinion unless you have decided to take relationship to next level
there is no fence. Date enjoy. Ms. Right might appear.

Communication is they KEY