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Shh! There are people trying to sleep here. Who you saying that to Don? |
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funny đ
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I need a boyfriend  
Whatâs so funny about that? Unless youâre looking for a boyfriend with a sense of humor. |
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Everyone has a personality. What kind are you looking for?
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I also would like to say that rushing women into marriage and having kids is wrong cause no man would like a woman rushing him into such things. A real man should never rush a woman into anything, marriage especially cause this would only lead to divorce . It takes time to know each other. Also a real man should never rush a woman into sex either.
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world is different now
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we should go on a chaperone date were we can be relaxed and ourselves!!! Adults Usually do not need any chaperone on a Date. Agreed  .
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Lotsa good advice, Julie. But some shltty advice was slipped in. I like and respect you, that's why it pains me to have to point this out - but I think it's important to point this out... - While I agree it's "cool" for a woman to be a virgin I don't necessarily think they should try to stay virgins. They should be finding a husband and partner to do life with, make babies and stay immortal. I think that's really important to stress, which brings me to my second point - I don't think you should compromise virtues or values either... but I think they should be realistic. You were saying something about Mr. Perfect, when Mr. Perfect doesn't exist. Hell, Mr.Perfect for her, doesn't exist. Nobody is perfect, and if one thinks that they have no faults of their own, or that a relationship doesn't have it's trials - they are delusional - Last one! I don't think there should be a carte blanche on "act on feelings" There should be a lot of logic used when making decisions. Feelings change by the hour or even hormone level with women. Logic never changes. Even though you made some okay points on the part of the being a virgin even though itâs old fashioned so is the woman finding a husband part too. For me I live off the true love waits philosophy and will only give up my virginity to my husband . Iâm not saying that all young women should do so itâs up to them to give their virginity to whoever they want but at the same time no one should put them down if they are one. True theyâre is no such person a perfect one and we all take the best and worst of us in a relationship and work through them in time until we can hopefully overcome them and find real maturity in them. |
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"Pride" not a bad word.
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Your ancestry....Didn't earn it - what exactly did you do? Your children..... You think taking credit for someone else's accomplishments is a good thing? Marsellus Wallace said it best "F*** pride. Pride only hurts, it never helps." I find the most prideful people are the most narcissistic Pride has its good and bad sides to it. As long as youâre modest about it then itâs good but if you constantly brag about it then itâs bad. I see no reason to bring people down if they feel they posted something theyâre proud about. If youâre not proud about anything well youâve let yourself down but drag the rest of us down with you. |
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world is different now
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Sorry to say I donât find having a third person with us on a date relaxing. With someone else watching and staring at you and listening in our conversation when such things should only be between us, Iâll pass. I don't think the chaperon will be in the midst of the date. Are they not somewhere off to the side at a table or walking close by? I would hope so. |
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"Pride" not a bad word.
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I take pride in my Ancestory, (English, Scottish on momâs side and Dutch on dadâs side), my family and friends. Iâm proud to be a woman and wouldnât change it for the world
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Oh and another piece of advice itâs totally cool to be a virgin like me
.Through people like you, it makes all of us accept that everything can be made possible in life n we can still move on with courage 
Stay blessed and cool, as always Julie đ„° Thank you AatHeera ! Another piece of advice to is life is unscripted and can be unpredictable so act on your feelings. Donât believe everything you see on TV or in movies where everything is scripted and predictable. Tune out anything that is negative or a bad influence and tune into anything positive that keeps you upbeat and uplifted .
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Fighting you for your love
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Good luck
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world is different now
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Sorry to say I donât find having a third person with us on a date relaxing. With someone else watching and staring at you and listening in our conversation when such things should only be between us, Iâll pass.
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Topic:
Fighting you for your love
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Nice short write
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Oh and another piece of advice itâs totally cool to be a virgin like me
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Thank you all and add Laska Paulâs words too. Another thing to add is you have every right to say NO if something doesnât feel right to you and donât let anyone tell you otherwise. Find true positive role models to look up to and they can be anyone from friends to family to famous people. Find inspiration everywhere and if someoneâs words inspire you write it down in a diary or notebook and note who said it so if you need inspiration youâll have it on hand and bring it everywhere with you. Remember thereâs only one you in this world and thereâll never be another like you so always love that about you.
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Julie ABush , Intelligent answer from you . I have a Question for you ? What advice would you give to all the young women's here on how to deal with the pressures they are facing today ? My advice would be donât give up and donât compromise your virtues and values. Set goals for yourself and achieve them. Have good friends around you and most importantly keep your family around you. Find joy in your faith and the world even when everything around you seems bad. If something depresses you step away from it and drown it out. Keep your heart and mind in check and donât let them get off balanced. Find comfort in faith over emptiness. Always find love and hope in everyday things and let it take you from there .
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My doctor explained to me that as long as I donât get hot flashes or the kind of sweat that interrupts my way of life then no need to worry but could take supplements if I wanted to and so on.
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Even if I die single Iâll rest in peace knowing Iâve touched other peoples lives in big and small ways and thatâs all that matters and after all God has told us helping others can bring joy and peace in your life and itâs helped me overcome my emptiness
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Great poem and so true about DT ! When heâs turned American citizens against each other we have reached an all time low.
I agree with your outlook, Julie, thanks for sharing it. At least youâre one of the few who agree on the subject of DT and that makes me feel better . I did my civic duty as a citizen and voted (good luck K !).
I voted for Kamala Harris and Tim Walz, and I invite our fellow American Minglers to join us. Right on dude ! Even though Iâm a Republican I refuse to vote for a man whoâs full of lies and hate .
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How many local men proposed to you in the past? Do you find anything wrong in yourself/your family, that keeps potential men away from getting engaged to you?
I have a bad previous experience with local men, and in general, Arab men are bad with me in relationships... because I was exposed to psychological harm, bullying, and disappointment from them, and that is because of their superficial, closed mind... They only care about a womanâs outward appearance and forget the important things in a woman: her mind, her personality, her thinking, her morals. ................â When an Eastern man chooses a woman who is ideal in her beauty and marries her after the first month or two, he divorces her... Why?! ...Because he discovers that this woman is not suitable for him and is not fit to be a wife and mother to his children after he satisfied his sexual need with her... **** them....they are stupid and think like bastard teenagers.... 
I agree with you that men ,not all of them, only look on the outside of women and find us physically attractive when they forget we have a heart, mind and soul just like them. When I see a well body man yes I get attracted to him but I also want to know his heart, mind and soul to be even more attracted to him cause physical beauty can fade and so can the physical attraction but as long as the other three donât fade I still find him attractive. I use to be like you in the crying part wondering if Iâll ever find my soulmate and was jealous of my married family and friends but it made me feel worse and so I stopped being that way and found joy and hope in everyday things and Iâve been continent ever since. Yes that special place in my heart feels empty but my faith overshadows it and it gives me comfort over emptiness. |
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