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Thu 05/11/17 01:56 PM
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Thank you Mikey, how thoughtful of you!

Well, I'm sorry, but he asked for honest opinion. If ironing and doing laundry is all what he has to offer, then his chances aren't very good.


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Thu 05/11/17 01:52 PM

I was recently asked if I was good at accepting compliments from a complete stranger. I responded with, "It depends on the compliment".

I'm referring to compliments from the opposite sex, as the complete stranger. A compliment is a compliment, but when it's someone you just met, some can make you uncomfortable, while others are more welcome.

If someone were to say, "You have such a touching and tender smile", would that be more welcomed than if they were to say, "You have such a touching and tender smile I have ever come across"? Or would neither be welcomed from someone you don't know? For me the first would be okay, but the "I have ever come across" is uncomfortable.

So, how good are you at accepting compliments from a stranger of the opposite sex? And how do you handle it when someone gives you a compliment?

And what kind of compliments do you feel are acceptable from a complete stranger?





I'm not good at taking compliments from strangers. Don't know why... They usually leave me indifferent, in worse cases make me feel awkward.

But I like get compliments from people who matter to me if they are sincere.

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Thu 05/11/17 01:46 PM
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My day was good, thank you!

Depends, Mikey... what are you going to send me? Is it ticking?

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Thu 05/11/17 01:37 PM
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Good evening Minglers!biggrin waving

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Thu 05/11/17 01:34 PM
I wonder why people go on first dates to expensive noisy restaurants, movies, theaters and such places. What's good about them?

Why not just go for a walk, to nature, to picnics, to the beach? And no worries about bills and who's paying.

But yes, if a man calls me on first date to an expensive restaurant, then he also pays the bill. When it comes to person with whom I'm already sharing my life, then I want to share expenses also.

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Thu 05/11/17 03:18 AM

do you read signs and purposely ignore it...then it surprisingly turned out ok? some dead ends are not really dead ends and are just used for another reason. now if you were told by another person that its best not to talk anymore although you both know you're enjoying each others company would you take the risk and continue or just follow the directive and wishes of another? do not enter is there for a reason. would you take caution to the wind and find out why?

thinkthinkthinkthink


Mostly when people say something, then they usually mean it. So, what makes you think that if someone says to you that it's better not to talk anymore, then it wasn't meant seriously? You know that you enjoy his company, but does he enjoy yours either? How do you know? Because if someone says that I really enjoy your company, but we should not to talk anymore, with no any explanation, then it sounds pretty ridiculous. In early stage of relationship, if you are just getting to know each-other, the reasons can be different. And digging in those reasons can bring to answers you are not ready to hear. So, if he is smart enough, he will keep his reasons to himself... maybe because he just wants to spare you...or wants you to remember what you two had in the best way.

Of course, there are always exceptions. Maybe he is just insecure about your relationship, has his own fears and hesitations. Or maybe he is just manipulative and wants to give you an impression that he doesn't care and now is looking for your reaction. Or if people have been together long enough, they can say out things based on current emotions, things they really don't mean and regret later. In those cases, it's the best to follow your intuition.

I know a couple who has lived together almost 20 for years by now. They "divorce" every time when husband comes home from poker-evening, a little bit drunk and in uplifting mood. Then his wife takes off the ring and promises to leave him... every time. But she stays, because rest of the time, they are happy together.

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Wed 05/10/17 04:10 PM
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Came to say good night to you Pisces!biggrin waving

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Wed 05/10/17 02:22 PM
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So, you are carpenter then?

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Wed 05/10/17 02:12 PM
Bliss - Wish You Were Here

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Wed 05/10/17 02:08 PM
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By the way, checked..beautiful house with beautiful garden. What are you actually doing there?

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Wed 05/10/17 02:03 PM
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drinks Yippee!

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Wed 05/10/17 02:00 PM
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Thank you Mikey! You gave me a very good evaluation in another thread.laugh
Crazy little sip and her crazy bike.

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Wed 05/10/17 01:21 PM
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Hi Rosie!biggrin waving

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Wed 05/10/17 12:26 PM
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Oh yeah, Friday eve bus-party!drinks

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Wed 05/10/17 12:12 PM
Edited by SipSik on Wed 05/10/17 12:12 PM
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Glad to hear Pisces. Maybe we will have a party then on Friday?drinks

Well, one god with certain shape and size is plenty enough for me. I'll leave the rest for others... the weather or not weather...

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Wed 05/10/17 11:54 AM
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Pisces, how was your day? Is it your day off?

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Wed 05/10/17 11:50 AM
Edited by SipSik on Wed 05/10/17 11:51 AM
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Oh, it was a weather god... And I thought it was just a regular guy...spock

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Wed 05/10/17 11:35 AM
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Hi Storm!waving Haven't seen you here for a while. Welcome back!drinks

Mikey, it snowed again today! This is endless winter.sad2

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Wed 05/10/17 11:21 AM
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Good evening beautiful creatures!biggrin waving

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Wed 05/10/17 10:00 AM

For many people;LOVE is powerful;LOVE move or change several aspects of our lives;LOVE is synonymous of happiness;LOVE is the only reason to exist;LOVE is everything....and more.

To find LOVE; are you ready to travel any distance and/or to relocate permanently even in other city or country?

I'm curious to read your comments

Have a nice day!


Yes, if I can see potential relationship and common future together.

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