For many people;LOVE is powerful;LOVE move or change several aspects of our lives;LOVE is synonymous of happiness;LOVE is the only reason to exist;LOVE is everything....and more.

To find LOVE; are you ready to travel any distance and/or to relocate permanently even in other city or country?

I'm curious to read your comments

Have a nice day!

i would have to be truly in love to travel to infinity and beyond. a free round trip ticket would also help. but seriously distance does not matter if two people are really committed to make the relationship work MHO

To "find" love, no! That would be like moving to try and find happiness, a geographical cure or quest to find something you are missing in life. It doesn't work that way and will only lead to a life of a constant search for what you are telling the Universe you are lacking. The only true place to "find" love is within yourself, so no need to travel to another city or country.

Now if love from another were to show up in my life and I knew in my heart that we are right for each other, then yes, I would be willing to travel and/or relocate.

You have a nice day too Jazz!

First; thanks for your comment; it's very appreciated. I wrote "to find love" not as synonymous of to look for or to discover love in another places; I meant;more than anything; to meet someone who has touched our heart;someone who is in a real love connection with the other person in the distance. I understand; it's not easy to be in love with someone else in the distance; but; to be optimistic; all is possible with a certain probability.

I understand your point very well

wonderful day to you

Oh, I misunderstood. Thanks for clarifying what you were looking for. Yes, I would if there was a real love connection. And giving it more thought, although I wouldn't travel to a place to "discover" love, I wouldn't rule out discovering if there is a connection with someone online, just because they lived in another place.

You have to be careful when they are living very far away. I once started to fall for someone living in another country and they turned out to be a scammer, we exchanged emails for a month before they requested money, it was all very depressing for me. In my opinion you need to keep things friendly but not too friendly, until you are absolutely convinced they are whom they say they are and that takes time to establish. I no longer look for a long distance relationship because it is not an easy option, but if I found someone I really liked online, then I would take the risk in travelling to meet them, probably as a holiday for myself so if it all went wrong I would at least enjoy the holiday. If it all went right, then I would not rule out relocating.

Same happened to me Duttoneer only it took longer for me to figure it out. For me, I wouldn't let that experience stop me from any future possibilities. It sucked and hurt, but was a lesson well learned and taught me to be more careful.

I have since introduced a new condition, if they live in another country, they have to send me money to prove they are real.

Good idea, I'll do the same...not really, lol. You made a lot of good points so thanks. It's sad when others take advantage of kind hearted and trusting people. But, it's life too and helps us be more mindful.

Yes, if I can see potential relationship and common future together.

Only if she's loaded, otherwise what's the point

There was a time you could trace the origin of an email received at your personal email address, so you could check it was from the country of the sender, sadly with the current email systems it is no longer possible. It is never easy to know if they are genuine, only by taking your time can you find out because most scammers want your money as quickly as possible.

I agree. But now, out of respect for jazzinc's thread, I think we should get back on topic.

I would go somewhere to visit to forward a relationship but only if I had a serious plan for seperate housing and funds to get home if I were to decide it was a bust.

Going to another country highly unlikely and definitely not where there would be a communication or political barriers.

Living in a country with so many people and as diverse as the cultures are in the USA is I really not motivated to go further.

One can never say never because one doesn't know what the future holds.
To make the choice for me to relicate means i give up everything in my lifestyle. For him to move means he gives up everything.
It's not an easy choice.
Then thete is a question of job opportunity.
Not all jobs offer the opprtunity to relocate or work from home.
If you relicate permanently, it msy mean adjusting to climate change.and road conditions.
Or change of circumstance. I live in a small town. I was in los Angeles a few weeks sgo. I don't think i could be happy in a place like that.
For me travel would be nice.
I'm not looking to change my whole lifestyle

OP ...I would say going to have to be a whole lot of trust ...
between us ... before moving anywhere with someone ...
but I have known people... they did just that ...
who knows if their happy or not ... behind closed doors...

and agree have to be careful ... if you can not talk in a sight
with someone before giving your no. or email out ... then they don't really care to get to know you at all ... but I wish them well... on their way ...

hello

i agree with you miss Piscesmoon02, your heart needs to be sure that is the right person for you before you make a bold step on relocating...