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Sat 05/20/17 03:21 AM
Feel so lucky for having so great people in my life... the ones who make my sunny days even more sunnier, bring smile on my face and make me feel needed and appreciated. Such a blessing.

Reminder to myself: never forget that how you feel right now. This is worth going through hard days.

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Sat 05/20/17 12:01 AM

Everyone has something to say now... it was more of an informative post for other people to see... most of them can't speak correct English I doubt they are reading the forum or even know it's here.

Enough with the face palm ****. I was trying to help some other folks out. No need for some smart *** replies with your hand gesture insinuations.

It's better to be aware than unaware.


Rules are rules and they are made by people who keep this site going for many years already... for free. No need to be rude.

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Fri 05/19/17 01:19 PM


I don't have a checklist. Based on my own experience, life is full of surprises... I'm full of surprises.

So, by your own words, you will date anyone?
I doubt that is true...

Life is FULL of the mundane. The surprises are the zest that makes life interesting. If life were full of surprises, we could never establish a routine. There would be no 'safe' place to recharge. We could never establish normality.

Being full of surprises means you are unpredictable. I feel it is our predictability that allows us to bond with others. We find comfort in the patterns we establish in the mundane.

I understand what you mean. You are stating that the mundane is something you feel is boring. There are many people that feel the same. You need excitement and you tend to mix things up so you keep the excitement.
Been there/Done that.
There does come a time when the excitement of surprises gets over-powering and you need to just recharge in the mundane. You may not realize it but you are not as surprising as you might think.


No, I wouldn't date just anyone. I even don't interact daily with just anyone. I choose people to my inner circle by their values, moral standards, interests, lifestyle and how we connect with each-other. But I do that with all people, not only with possible partner.

But I really don't have a list, like... he must be tall...check... blonde hair... check...blue eyes......check...reads books...check...talks 5 languages...check..check...check...

I had it about year ago and then something happened. Someone totally opposite to that list appeared into my life and turned it all upside down.

It's not about excitement or predictability. It's about how two people get along with each-other, how comfortable they feel with each-other, how they complement each-other, about trust and mutual understanding, ability to communicate with each-other in all kind of situations and etc. But this doesn't depend on one person, it depends on synergy of two. Doesn't matter if he is taller or shorter than you, does he likes sports or action movies, plays piano or violin, has a master degree or works on construction building. Because when you meet someone with whom you can establish all that... then the check-list goes to trash-can.

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Fri 05/19/17 06:50 AM

Your socks have to match each other, not one sock match the couch while the other match the rug. grumble


Why? I have a red sock which matches with couch and a grey sock which matches with my carpet. Looks very good.

And I have 2 pairs like these.

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Fri 05/19/17 04:05 AM
I don't have a checklist. Based on my own experience, life is full of surprises... I'm full of surprises.

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Thu 05/18/17 03:07 PM
856

Time to sleep.

Have a good evening!biggrin waving

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Thu 05/18/17 02:54 PM
Edited by SipSik on Thu 05/18/17 02:55 PM
854

Ahhaa... OK. Thank you for explaining!




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Thu 05/18/17 02:41 PM
I don't participate in mind-games, so no.. he won't be more desirable for me, he would be aloof and unattainable. I would give a second thought, would he be desirable for me at all then.

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Thu 05/18/17 02:12 PM
853

Would anyone explain me what is "carbon copy"?spock

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Thu 05/18/17 01:57 PM
Stand By Me - Ben E King

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Thu 05/18/17 01:42 PM
Edited by SipSik on Thu 05/18/17 01:42 PM
851

Hi 2em!waving

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Thu 05/18/17 01:40 PM
Placebo - Running Up That Hill

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Thu 05/18/17 01:34 PM
Edited by SipSik on Thu 05/18/17 01:36 PM
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Thu 05/18/17 01:18 PM

847 slow and steady cowgirl


848

That's interesting. I've heard an expression "Ready and steady".

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Thu 05/18/17 01:13 PM
Concerto De Aranjuez Adagio - Joaquin Rodrigo

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Thu 05/18/17 01:06 PM
847

Howdy cowboy!biggrin waving

How have you been?

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Thu 05/18/17 12:58 PM
Edited by SipSik on Thu 05/18/17 12:59 PM
846

Good!

I have also grandioso headache. Feels like it's going to explode.


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Thu 05/18/17 12:33 PM
Edited by SipSik on Thu 05/18/17 12:34 PM
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drinks


My day was grandioso.

And how was yours?

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Thu 05/18/17 12:27 PM
842

Hello beautiful creatures!biggrin waving

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Thu 05/18/17 12:16 PM
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