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Mon 10/19/09 12:18 AM
I was bought up to believe and trust people. Hasn't worked out that way obviously but I still believe all new aquaintances when they tell me something. Only after getting to know someone and what they're like do I start to doubt what they say.

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Sat 10/17/09 03:32 PM




Well if you get to take one- Then everyone gets to take one


Before you know it there's a pine cone shorted in the world !


Oh, God! How many times have I heard this one. My dad used the same logic on me when we lived in California and we wanted to pick the California wild poppy. If you take one then everyone will wanna take one, and then there will be no more California wild poppies. Boo-hoo. They didn't say that about cannabis, and there's still plenty to go around.

smokin rofl

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Sat 10/17/09 03:27 PM

I was attending a party and was asked to wear that cute little brown wig that I sometimes wear....

I didnt like it.

They asked you to cover up who you are? That's shocking! You have a gorgeous smile and that's the only part of the head that I ever look at.
You are who you are and you are pretty.flowerforyou

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Sat 10/17/09 03:22 PM
I think the whole thing was a hoax myself. Yes definately weak story, they've dragged it out in Auz too.

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Sat 10/17/09 03:15 PM
YAY!:banana:
Whenever I read the forums it seems to refer to america alot, glad I'm not the only Auzzie
:banana: :banana: :banana:

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Sat 10/17/09 01:31 AM
Or New Zealanders, I'm a kiwi living as a kangaroo :laughing:

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Sat 10/17/09 01:25 AM
Hellooooooo am I the only australian in here? I know there are lots of auzzies hooked up to this site but do you enter the forums?

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Fri 10/16/09 12:37 AM
That's the funniest thing I've read in a long time:laughing: Yeah bring on the chocolate:banana:

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Fri 10/16/09 12:34 AM

watching the new show fastforward! Question would u want to know what is going to happen to u in six months.noway

Not me,let me be surprised.

Definately not. I have enough problems with the presentrofl

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Fri 10/16/09 12:28 AM

So what do you do, when someone comes along, brighter, prettier, funnier, smarter than you?


What if you were in a quasi work/social setting....and had a position of management, and some new upstart appears.....cheeky, funny, playful....and instantly your previous 'fan base' disappears?


How do you manage that?

What about those people who just grate on your nerves? Whose opinions, and ways just irritate you?


Do you get them sacked?

Complain to the big boss about every minor misdemeanour?


Or do you rise above it.... and try harder to be funnier, smarter, brighter and win back your fan base?

Been there a few times but I find that if I strive not to change myself the people that liked me still do.
The people that grate on my nerves? Well that's a bit harder, got a new receptionist at work at the moment who is one of those people that is cheerful and flirty on the outside but you can tell she's just putting it on. I don't like her but all the guys do. (shrug) not much I can do.

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Fri 10/16/09 12:18 AM

Who wants a refill?? drinker

already got a full one but wait a few secs and I'll finish it off:laughing:

Most of the time my drink is half full

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Fri 10/16/09 12:11 AM

get suspicious of someone who says they "can't remember" alot. It seems when I am with a crowd of women and they are talking, like for example today, they were talking about delivering their babies, they could remember that they were before there due date or after, I dont' remember stuff like that, and it bothers me, I only remember I gave birth, I didnt' keep track , like I dont' even know when my mom died, like the year,,,is this abnormal or just stupid.

I have a TERRIBLE memory, it makes it very difficult at my work and in my social life sometimes. Now whenever someone says to me "do you remember.." I say "no" before they finish there sentence. I would LOVE to have a decent memory.grumble

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Fri 10/16/09 12:05 AM

this is a shout out to everyone else who is stuck at work! I be bored...lol

haha don't know when this started or what time it is in america at the moment but right now it's 5pm in Australia and I'm finished work for a lovely friday eveningdrinks

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Fri 10/16/09 12:00 AM
laughter. I laugh almost every single day and if I don't laugh then I'm obviously feeling like crap

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Thu 10/15/09 11:48 PM


Update:

Ok I've discovered that talking in here is easy (of course your not face to face with anyone haha). I can talk to woman, children and elderly easy.
Guess it's just the man thing, attractive and opposite sex typescared .
lol I know I can't be the only one there haha. I suppose it comes down to the usual brokenheart story and a bit scared to go there again.
Oh well, I'm happy and I know I'll get there. Thanks everyone for your posts I'm sure it's helping others and not just meflowers


I'm in the boat as you, but trying to do better. This is one woman who completely gets what you're going through.frustrated

Yeah, it's the trying to do better part that gets me. I've become a hybernater at the moment, I try and go out to bars and meet people but... I always tell myself I need a hobbie that involves meeting people but never really been enthused about any one thing. I'm a flitter, I jump from one hobbie to the next as fast as anything and never seem to stick to one thing.

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Thu 10/15/09 11:45 PM

people say shy yeah right haha natali you are not shy too me but iam ahha only wiht guy is super hot... oh yeah...i can flirt really good from far buy once guy coemsu p too me and starts talking i jsut freeze not sure whatoto say...

I know exactly what your saying. I freeze, look down, mumble something and by then he thinks I'm not interestedfrustrated

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Thu 10/15/09 03:50 AM



I do! I get more hungry when the weather is cold.
Does anyone else do that? Do we just need more fuel or what?

Yep definately eat more when it's cold. It's comforting and helps you warm up

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Thu 10/15/09 03:48 AM

for you to be truly happy? or make you think you were?


Define "truly happy". My version is generally happy most of the time and enjoy life. Things that help along those lines are good family support, good friends and a fulfilling job. I have that now. Of course there are always things to strive towards that's a part of being happy also - to have some sort of goal to work towards.

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Thu 10/15/09 03:40 AM

If you consider your life to be good or bad, do you contribute that to one lifechanging event? or a string of just bad stuff? or what?


My life now is good, it has been great and it has been crap (crap always seems to last a long time). I am who I am now because of all the experiences of the past.

Wouldn't change a thing about my life or my past because that would change who I am and I love myselfsmitten

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Mon 10/12/09 01:12 AM

What's more important?
The heart or the mind?
Can one do without the other?


I have known Large hearts with little brains and I thought they were happy and healthy and fun to be around.
I have known little hearts with large brains and they were nasty, sarcastic and I wanted to avoid them.

Both can function in society as long as they have friends that relate
but in a partner I prefer an even amount of both

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