Topic: One thing
Italy0219's photo
Thu 10/15/09 12:09 AM
If you consider your life to be good or bad, do you contribute that to one lifechanging event? or a string of just bad stuff? or what?

msharmony's photo
Thu 10/15/09 12:10 AM
Life is good because of Gods blessings, and the support of my loved ones. The rest of it,,good and bad in my life, stem from my own good or bad choices. i learn from them and move on...

ArtGurl's photo
Thu 10/15/09 12:14 AM
There is no good or bad ... just life in all the colours ... all the textures ... light and shadow ...

Some experiences I'd like more of ... for others, once is more than enough. But I never label it good or bad... it is just life.

flowerforyou

Jess642's photo
Thu 10/15/09 12:41 AM

There is no good or bad ... just life in all the colours ... all the textures ... light and shadow ...

Some experiences I'd like more of ... for others, once is more than enough. But I never label it good or bad... it is just life.

flowerforyou


flowers

Don't care if you want them or not, hugs are always good......


and my heart is hugging yours..

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 10/15/09 01:00 AM

If you consider your life to be good or bad, do you contribute that to one lifechanging event? or a string of just bad stuff? or what?


A number of different bad things, compared to the one or two good things...my life sucks.smokin

Shasta1's photo
Thu 10/15/09 01:50 AM
Life appears to be in cycles. Realized for me that I not paying attention that the same things kept happening in varying degrees until started changing the set up. BUt then the freak thing things would happen with out any antecedent and began to wonder...is there some sort madman running the show? Did I really have 'bad karma' as my ex kept saying? It dawned on me after years of refective pondering and meditating that it was lessons to learn and then when finally got the jist of it...things started to turn around. Yet my life is not over. Working with the homeless daily, seeing where they are made awareness and thankfulness much more awakened. Seeing good people lose everything- is it bad; in the long run will it be good?
What are they learning and when they look back- will they be different people? Saying is your life good or bad is all perspective-
depending on the mood, the day but the entire life? Surely when you lump it all together- if you have a home, food and enough money to be sitting at a computer- it's good. And to say thank you occasionally for those things puts a different spin on it. Depends on what you want in life is what makes people unhappy and to get down because they don't have them yet. Or maybe deeper issues prevent them from even getting to that point. One can always look at another and realize their life is good because simply anothers circumstances.

papersmile's photo
Thu 10/15/09 02:57 AM
overall, i've had a great life to date. i'm blessed to have a childhood that set up a solid foundation for adulthood.

however, i'm very quick in the self-blame department and probably feel responsible for a lot more than i should.

i'm not sure if that's been conditioning over a few bad years or if it's something inherent as i don't recall ever feeling the sense of self-accountability that i have of late.

rationally i can look at things and see them from the outside and realize a lot of what occurs isn't my fault, or even personally earned, but that much of it just boils down to chance.

Sandy9876's photo
Thu 10/15/09 03:40 AM

If you consider your life to be good or bad, do you contribute that to one lifechanging event? or a string of just bad stuff? or what?


My life now is good, it has been great and it has been crap (crap always seems to last a long time). I am who I am now because of all the experiences of the past.

Wouldn't change a thing about my life or my past because that would change who I am and I love myselfsmitten

ArtGurl's photo
Thu 10/15/09 08:43 AM


There is no good or bad ... just life in all the colours ... all the textures ... light and shadow ...

Some experiences I'd like more of ... for others, once is more than enough. But I never label it good or bad... it is just life.

flowerforyou


flowers

Don't care if you want them or not, hugs are always good......


and my heart is hugging yours..



Hugs are always wonderful! Thank you beautiful! My heart is hugging yours as well. :heart:

Quietman_2009's photo
Thu 10/15/09 08:44 AM
good

bad

life is just life

enjoy the good stuff and deal with the bad stuff

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 10/15/09 08:45 AM
Life is sooo good right now!!

Love of my family
My freinds
My man

I couldn't ask for anything else right now!:heart:

no photo
Thu 10/15/09 08:49 AM
I attribute it to several life-changing events, some were my fault, some weren't. I'm still trying to fix it, we'll see how it ends.

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 10/15/09 08:53 AM
They say life is what it is and it all depends on what we accept or what we try to correct then the way we deal with it once it has happened.......

There will always be bad things that will happen as well as good what determines it the most is how we learn to cope with what has been thrown our way..... We can give up and only see the bad or we can learn to deal with it and see the good in it as well.... It all depends on ones attitude towards Life.................:thumbsup:

Think positive and you shall see it think negative and that is all you will see......Go at life with a smile and the sun will shine in....bigsmile

catseyes1's photo
Thu 10/15/09 12:07 PM

If you consider your life to be good or bad, do you contribute that to one lifechanging event? or a string of just bad stuff? or what?


I consider my life to be good as each day goes by, I deal with the bad when necessary.

Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 10/15/09 12:25 PM
It's all a string of events...I don't believe in accidents so it all intertwines and leads us to this moment.

CatsLoveMe's photo
Thu 10/15/09 02:41 PM
It's all a string of events. We've all had or many of us have had a few "9/11s" in our lives. But we clean up the disaster and rebuild, and life is good again, for however long that is. The human spirit within us will always try to rebound and rebuild against whatever "9/11" life throws our way, and we grow stronger because of it.