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Sun 12/15/13 11:29 PM


Not replying is a reply. It means they don't want to talk to you.



I agree... silence means "NO" :smile: :smile: :smile:


a late welcome to mingle cha

hope you enjoy the forums

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Sun 12/15/13 11:25 PM


The reason a lot of people don't reply is because a polite "no thanks" seems to incite the other person. I have told several people "no thanks" and they keep messaging me trying another angle. They don't take no for an answer and seem to think if they are just persistent enough you will eventually buckle.

I almost always respond but I certainly understand why some don't.


This. Or they get angry when they're rejected and lash out. So it's easier to just ignore them.


bingo

We're not trying to be mean, we're trying not to be taken as mean.

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Sun 12/15/13 11:16 PM

Hey no disrespect to you. Honestly! Just making my point clear.


Understood, but keep in mind there is no such thing as telling minglers who or who can not respond to a post or thread. That's why we call this mingle. You might get some good input from the guys as well as the girls here.

It's no biggie just didn't want you to get jumped on by others cause they will no doubt not do the "guys keep out" thing. We're more of a collective family here.

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Sun 12/15/13 11:08 PM

In response to both of ya'lls post, I have received 3 messages. One, I admit, wasn't what I was looking for. The other two, right on point. My suggestion to you guys is to stay off of other male's post, they have gay websites for that, and put.an actual picture of yourself. I'm pretty sure the pentagram isn't helping...just saying.


Welcome to mingle, just haven fun. Yes, I will quit mingle right away and join the gay site. Thank you for your insight.

what was I thinking

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Sun 12/15/13 11:01 PM
Or we could pick up a hooker at the stripclub.

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Sun 12/15/13 10:58 PM
Get him a cheerleader barbie, football optional.

sorry, had to

Really though, the days of us being gender bending is over. I think in the past families have given birth to a lot of bigots instead of letting their kids grow up.

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Sun 12/15/13 10:47 PM
Kinda like "instant coffee right"

Isn't that called a strip club?

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Sun 12/15/13 10:42 PM

WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEha but this is fun.. gots meself a 32" widescreen/flat-screen monitor bigsmile

was wondering what to do with this TV.. now? I can watch ma TV online like I normally would at home :thumbsup:

weird typing on it though laugh

WOOOOHOOO.. but admittedly..blushing I'm a nerd.. disguised as a Librarian smokin


fergots a word.. frustrated or 3 ohwell


Life is on an interesting chapter, thanks for asking Zee. Always love coming here and seeing you guys, my fam.

Lion's covered the "P" and "F" now, I think we should down a few (I'll watch) and have him work his way through the rest of the letters, what do you say? Hmmm, thinking about it, I think we should have you (Lion) do a shot after every 3 letters and one hit off the ole doobie doo and see where we end up around "R". I have a feeling "R" might stand for rolling by that point. "N" might be, Not getting up tomorrow, so we should do this on a saturday.

I use a 32" screen as well, can't do those little screens any more, they make me feel locked in a closet by comparison. I have a friend that uses a 110" computer screen, trippy.

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Sun 12/15/13 10:09 PM
thanks for sharing

thoughts and prayers going out

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Sun 12/15/13 10:06 PM
Pretty cool to see a lot of newbies answering this.

welcome to mingle

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Sun 12/15/13 09:50 PM
Use fly strips.

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Sun 12/15/13 02:56 AM
Thought I heard someone say the "P" word.

hi gang

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Sun 12/15/13 02:43 AM
You never know!

Some people it may take a while and others it happens so fast their in-love before knowing ones last name.

I say lol, as if any one is listening, let it be what it is.

We're all back seat drivers when it comes to the hearts and thoughts of others.

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Fri 12/13/13 05:59 PM
Junior,

better get those sheep back in the pen, the mingle boys are on the loose again

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Fri 12/13/13 05:48 PM
Is that a dollar in change? I prefer a bill, but a check will do too.

I also except Joann fabric or Carl's Jr coupons in lu of money.

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Wed 12/11/13 01:58 PM
Man guys, now I have to go pee.

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Tue 12/10/13 11:03 PM
Hi Sweetheart

I hope you find tons of love, in whatever color!

It does seem a little harder these days to find that special person. The world moves at such a fast pace and people so many times have their eyes on the distractions rather than wonderful simplicity of love's overflow.

Personally though I think you should just let that love vibe that you and all of us have spill and watch it return. It doesn't always come back to us according to our list, but it is never far from our heart's eye.

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Thu 11/21/13 04:28 PM
Hi Sunshine

Sorry this happened (it's the internet).

A question or two for you.

Did you guys only talk by email or chat some how or did you have phone calls and Skype?

It's not that hard really to reach certain levels of transparency if you both agree to them and when things do reach those levels if the transparency is not put in place the red flags should fly.

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Wed 11/20/13 06:56 PM


Pony did say he would give out a few lists for favors in exchange.

Wonder what he meant?


Haven't a clue MG!what I'm a pay as you go type person myself; don't charge to credit cards, stay to a strict budget so frivolous expenditures are completely out of the question; and....I don't do bartering!!! rofl rofl rofl rofl


Well he did mention something about a certain Mrs R

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Wed 11/20/13 06:45 PM
Pony did say he would give out a few lists for favors in exchange.

Wonder what he meant?

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