Topic: nostalgic
cha7385's photo
Sat 12/14/13 06:45 AM
i don't know.. i just feel like sharing this.. a guy just made this for me. well after an exchnage of good conversation in less than a week i didn't realize i have influenced him so much.. or im just over reacting. here it goes..


"I just wanted to do something simple
to say I love you and to put that smile I love so much
back on your face. I want everyone to know how
much you mean to me. Ever since you have entered
my life, I've been flying on Cloud 9 and I have not
come down yet.... I'm just here thinking
about you, like I always do. I hope you're as happy as
me; Sunday is almost here again. The thought of you
in my arms right now sounds so good to me. I just
want you to know how much I love you..Before you came into my life, I had given up on ever
finding my soul mate; the one person who could set
my heart on fire with just one look. I thought that
was the stuff of silly,...."

teebee79's photo
Sat 12/14/13 07:09 AM
Edited by teebee79 on Sat 12/14/13 07:10 AM
I hate to sound like a cynic...but...after less than a week of discussion with you he feels like this? Have you guys met? Tread lightly here babe... If he isn't a scammer , he maybe a sociopath...and that's worse. They tend to fall in love quickly,but have ulterior motives. If this makes you feel good, cool :) enjoy it. But please tread lightly.
Best Wishesflowerforyou

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Sat 12/14/13 07:13 AM
posting emails or chats from other members is not permitted. I am not sure where this came from so I am just mentioning that as an FYI.

Good luck, sounds like a nice guy

BettyB's photo
Sat 12/14/13 07:17 AM

I hate to sound like a cynic...but...after less than a week of discussion with you he feels like this? Have you guys met? Tread lightly here babe... If he isn't a scammer , he maybe a sociopath...and that's worse. They tend to fall in love quickly,but have ulterior motives. If this makes you feel good, cool :) enjoy it. But please tread lightly.
Best Wishesflowerforyou

I agree with this . Its a technique they use to pull you in. Be careful!!!!!!!!!!!

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Sat 12/14/13 03:26 PM
I agree, being in love after less than a week of talking to someone is a little creepy. Proceed with caution.flowerforyou

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 12/14/13 03:55 PM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Sat 12/14/13 03:58 PM
If you have not seen this person in person I agree with the posts advising extream caution.

This is a very vunerable time of year and this is a very easy medium to be sooooooh charming and disarming in.

Will pray that this person is just happy and will take time to be both wise and responsible as you should. If he likes you like I see every reason he should it won't wither away if you take your time.

Make sure this person is not just saying "pretty words" but giving you nuts and bolts information that documents his good character and standing as a great catch.

Blessings of the season to you both. Good Luck. Best Wishes.

P.S. Will send you l lucky *star*. My late dear love told his best friend and XO that he had met the woman he was going to marry only minutes after we dance at a birthday party twice. So sometimes people do know when they have found the one. Good ones do take time to check it out.

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Sat 12/14/13 04:12 PM

i don't know.. i just feel like sharing this.. a guy just made this for me. well after an exchnage of good conversation in less than a week i didn't realize i have influenced him so much.. or im just over reacting. here it goes..


"I just wanted to do something simple
to say I love you and to put that smile I love so much
back on your face. I want everyone to know how
much you mean to me. Ever since you have entered
my life, I've been flying on Cloud 9 and I have not
come down yet.... I'm just here thinking
about you, like I always do. I hope you're as happy as
me; Sunday is almost here again. The thought of you
in my arms right now sounds so good to me. I just
want you to know how much I love you..Before you came into my life, I had given up on ever
finding my soul mate; the one person who could set
my heart on fire with just one look. I thought that
was the stuff of silly,...."


Silly Dreamers and Poetic hearts
...At least he wrote you a lovely letter

:laughing:


:thumbsup:

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Sat 12/14/13 04:27 PM
Be careful, nobody in their right mind falls in love that fast..either hes nuts or has something up his sleeve..just be careful.

I hope though, thats its not what we all fear.

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Sat 12/14/13 04:32 PM

Be careful, nobody in their right mind falls in love that fast..either hes nuts or has something up his sleeve..just be careful.

I hope though, thats its not what we all fear.


Pretty much this. He might be in massive like, but love takes a hell of a lot longer than a week...

Gossipmpm's photo
Sat 12/14/13 07:03 PM
oy vey........honey


sounds off the wall crazy.......:heart:

ridewytepony's photo
Sat 12/14/13 07:24 PM
Edited by ridewytepony on Sat 12/14/13 07:31 PM
Even if everything flows so naturally & a person was feeling really infactuated, who in their
right mind would just drop a bomb like that on a
person that you have a connection with to begin with.
Talk about taking a huge chance if thats true that he
hasn't made a connection like that for some time and almost gave up, as he says.(if he's sincere he's got head problems)
A normal person would dip their toes in and test
the water a little at a time. This guys just jumps into
the shark tank blindfolded. That means he's a shark or
he's going to get chewed up and spit out by ANY woman
it just can't ever be that one sided,he will always
have expectations for you to be a certain way.
Possessive behavior,many behavioral traits will stem off of this.(guilt trips, violence ect)

this doesn't make sense to me and for the
first reason given..its just WAY to big of a chance to
to take for a woman that hasn't come along in a long
time.noway
As they say south of the border "he done f*ed up"

More likely its just deception; I'm more certain he is saying this to multiple woman and keeping his options open, people that deal with multiple numbers, move fast
maybe you all live in the same country and
he plans on spending time there and he does want a
serious relationship(marriage) so then he can go spend
time with 3-5 maybe ten woman? just a cruel form of
picking a wife. Or perhaps he's not even
serious about a wife? but it sounds like thats
what he eventually wants as it sounds like he's
pushing the pace into an exclusive commitment.

We should bust him...

if what I think, is probable, when get one of your
pretty gf and check his profile.
I bet he will bite hook line and f*ing sinker
I don't think he's slick as snot on a roosters
lip.
I bet {{Bulldog}} would give you a double
guarantee on that...

Let me know what happens
Pony:wink:

{{Sweetest}} excellent point, good info
To be minful of
But this guy may be on another site also
he said he wants everyone to knowexplode well be carful what ya ask for eh!waving :wink:

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Sat 12/14/13 07:47 PM
I am not one to tell people how to feel and what should or should not make them happy, but seriously?

You've known the guy for less than a week, and he is calling you his soulmate and writing you poignant love latters? He skipped the flashing lights and the crossing guards, and put you directly on the train tracks. I am not saying there can't be something there, and you did not find a great guy or the like, but honestly, flash fires can burn the hottest, but usually the shortest.

Luck to you.

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Sun 12/15/13 02:43 AM
You never know!

Some people it may take a while and others it happens so fast their in-love before knowing ones last name.

I say lol, as if any one is listening, let it be what it is.

We're all back seat drivers when it comes to the hearts and thoughts of others.

cha7385's photo
Sun 12/15/13 06:25 AM
though his poetic side is admirable, it really creeps me out. i agree with all of you... how can someone develop a deep admiration to the person whom they haven't met nor exchange pictures with..He must have some agenda or what to lure woman to fall for his bait. its hard to tell if that person is sincere to what he is saying and its too good to be true. I'm am sometimes gullible to kindhearted people. Now, I'll be more cautious on what i say and how i deal/interact with people maybe I'm giving wrong impression which could result to this kind of act.

I really appreciate all the comments and advises. :smile: :smile: :smile: