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Dan42911 Joined Sun 12/15/13 Posts: 1	Sun 12/15/13 06:42 PM
Could everyone try and respond to there messages please? Even a short simple thanks but no thanks or not interested? It would make this online thing a bit better. Don't ya think?

Tribbles Joined Tue 11/17/09 Posts: 7349	Sun 12/15/13 06:45 PM
no, no i do not.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45401	Sun 12/15/13 07:22 PM
no, no i do not. Tribbles knows EVERYthing.

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Sun 12/15/13 07:28 PM


paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sun 12/15/13 07:31 PM
Not replying is a reply. It means they don't want to talk to you.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sun 12/15/13 07:31 PM
I do respond. Unless I don't.

DevilledAngel Joined Wed 07/24/13 Posts: 1	Sun 12/15/13 07:39 PM
The reason a lot of people don't reply is because a polite "no thanks" seems to incite the other person. I have told several people "no thanks" and they keep messaging me trying another angle. They don't take no for an answer and seem to think if they are just persistent enough you will eventually buckle. I almost always respond but I certainly understand why some don't.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sun 12/15/13 07:40 PM
The reason a lot of people don't reply is because a polite "no thanks" seems to incite the other person. I have told several people "no thanks" and they keep messaging me trying another angle. They don't take no for an answer and seem to think if they are just persistent enough you will eventually buckle. I almost always respond but I certainly understand why some don't. This. Or they get angry when they're rejected and lash out. So it's easier to just ignore them.

sparkyae5 Joined Thu 03/28/13 Posts: 1595	Sun 12/15/13 07:53 PM Edited by sparkyae5 on Sun 12/15/13 07:54 PM
ok dan, you got it straight from the woman--

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 12/15/13 08:28 PM
Could everyone try and respond to there messages please? Even a short simple thanks but no thanks or not interested? It would make this online thing a bit better. Don't ya think? lol good luck with that

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Sun 12/15/13 08:56 PM
Could everyone try and respond to there messages please? Even a short simple thanks but no thanks or not interested? It would make this online thing a bit better. Don't ya think? Nobody has a right to receive replies to unsolicited private messages. If someone doesn't respond to a PM that I sent, then I don't get upset or feel offended, because my ego isn't bruised.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Sun 12/15/13 08:59 PM
no, no i do not. Tribbles knows EVERYthing.

cha7385 Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 3782	Sun 12/15/13 09:08 PM
Not replying is a reply. It means they don't want to talk to you. I agree... silence means "NO"

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Sun 12/15/13 11:25 PM
The reason a lot of people don't reply is because a polite "no thanks" seems to incite the other person. I have told several people "no thanks" and they keep messaging me trying another angle. They don't take no for an answer and seem to think if they are just persistent enough you will eventually buckle. I almost always respond but I certainly understand why some don't. This. Or they get angry when they're rejected and lash out. So it's easier to just ignore them. bingo We're not trying to be mean, we're trying not to be taken as mean.

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Sun 12/15/13 11:29 PM
Not replying is a reply. It means they don't want to talk to you. I agree... silence means "NO" a late welcome to mingle cha hope you enjoy the forums

cha7385 Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 3782	Mon 12/16/13 12:42 AM Edited by cha7385 on Mon 12/16/13 12:44 AM
Not replying is a reply. It means they don't want to talk to you. I agree... silence means "NO" a late welcome to mingle cha hope you enjoy the forums Thank you. Well as what they say "Its better to be late than.never", right?