Yes of course I would love to get married again. We just learn the hard way by our first marriage and we become wiser threw our pain and sorrows.
Wisdon only comes threw pain. So now we see a lot clearer. He would have to be on the same transparentacy ( think i spelled that wrong) as I am on. great minds have to think alike

No because I did all that I could possible do. And stayed in the marriage until i realize i did not want my children growing up thinking this is what love was. When he got abusive it was time to go.

Not sure what you mean. I am self employed. I take care of myself. I like to dress nice but I shop cheap. Hell I only paid 10 bucks for the dress I have on in my picture. and I believe if two people are a couple in a relationship a serious relationship as in living together they should know the meaning of togetherness. Money should never be a problem. You live together your money is together. You both decide where it goes and if the man wants something he should have it. If there isn't enough for the woman to get what she wants I would be the woman who would say get it honey. I can wait till next time. But Im working and I do descent and if he is working and doing descent. There would be no money issues. And if your just dating a woman shouldn't expect you to pay for her personal life. Tell her get off her *** and get a job!!! Thats the problem with woman today they are not looking for love their looking for someone to take care of them.

What people don't realize is the change comes when you meet because their on their best behavior. Then eventually they slide into themselves again, Then you say "but you have changed. Myself I will be just me from the start.
You love your partner for who they are. Change should never be a part of it.

WOW!!! I can't believe all that Im reading. all the rival between man and woman. This is not at all not even close to what it should be like. All I can say is you all have never meet the right lady. For you should be her King and her your Queen. These ladies you all have been with make it almost impossible for a real mature woman who knows how to treat a man and have a man treat her the same in return.

I believe in God. God wants the best for all of us. The trick is you have to have a personal relationship with him. For any problem in life the bible has the answer. Im doing my best to still understand it. If we listen to him he will give us desires. He is in total control. we have to work for the things we want and where we want to go. They have to be for the right reason. Not shelfish. He knows who is right for us. Im still stuck on the one about finding the right one. He isn't letting me have it. So there is something im not getting that he wants me to. and until I get it what he wants me to do I ll have to wait

It was a lot easier to find when you met people out in everyday life. When it use to be fun to go out on the weekends. lol back in the day. Now everyone comes to the computer (or phone ) there are so many people and for the most of it we look for physical attraction. Where as meeting in everyday life and running into some regularly at your work, at their work, at a ball game, at the bar where ever. You get to know them who they are how they feel. You see them smile you look into their eyes. You know true intent. And then physical attraction ca begin to grow.
You don't have that on line. People can't stick to one thing they always think their is someone better a few clicks away. Never giving someone a chance. There are people who find each other on line. But the majority don.t

Hi Im single. Looking for someone who gets it. Who knows what love is believes in loves believes in happy ever after. My best friend my lover, my one and only. So we can now live life like we never have before. You gotta believe it before you can fall into it.

First you have to really know what true love is. The ones who have had it has to find someone else who had it. The odds are against us. But Im not giving up on it.

Chemistry!!!! He looked at me walking and said hay young lady how are you and I turned and looked at him. And the attraction was so strong. Our eyes sparkled for each other. We felt excitement and we just laughed together. When we were apart we couldn't wait to be together. We just clicked. I want that again!!!!!!!

Yes he does for me. Because if he is shorter then me most likely he is littler then me. Im 5 feet 7 inches tall 137 pounds. I want to be the smaller one so I like tall me 6 feet is perfect.

It takes to much effort.......All I can say the effort you put out is the same kind of effort you get back.

I agree NorCalSwe.

First of all that is your problem thinking all woman are the same. You take your past experiences with other woman and place them on other woman. That is messed up. When your seeking a relationship and the chemistry is there with both people its not about any of the crap your talking about. As far as im concern most of the things your talking about is high school crap. Its about being together loving each other making each other happy. Its about pleasing each other taking care of each other. Its not a game.

Very well said TMommy. Some woman are comfortable with casual sex. Some woman are happy with that. More power to them. Im not judging them.But you said it well

So what makes you think that if she gives you sex when she meets you that she won't be giving it to someone else if she meets them? How do you trust someone like that? You be at work and she be out meeting someone else having sex same day. I never knew a man would want a woman like that unless he is only after sex. Back in the day when I was dating before I got married a man is gonna take it if she gives it. But it wasn't the kind of woman he wanted to settle down with. he wanted a good woman to share hs life with. Makes good sense. So I don't get it.

yes it is a victory all in the right time.

I think this is such a turn off for a man to think this is approiate. What ever happened to Asking a lady out to dinner? I run into these men quite often. Then if you dare say something they say oh you don't like sex. I think it is an insult to do this to a good woman. No one wants to be used and it is such a dead give away that is all their after. For if they really wanted to get to know you they would show you some respect.

if she is amazing she won't be easy. If she is easy won't be amazing

Thank you for replying it is nice to meet nice people and good luck to all of you. I can' t stay long. I have to get things ready. My nephew was killed in a work accident such a wonderful boy and a piece of a crane fell on him and killed him. These next 3 days are going to be really hard.