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SharpShooter10
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Sun 03/23/08 01:51 PM
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So in January I started talking all serious to this guy. He lived in Canada. Long story short, he dumped me about a month after we started talking, and without a reason. Then a couple of hours later he was talking all serious to another woman in the forums. The day of Valentines Day, I started talking to another guy. He lived in Cali. He was amazing and I seriously thought there was a chance with this guy. WELL, there isnt one. He sent me a text tonight that said he just got laid by some chick. HELLLO? DID I HEAR YOU RIGHT? I turned down a date with a nice guy that lived here in IDAHO because of him. GUESS WHAT ITS BEEN ABOUT A MONTH AND A WEEK. And once again I'm gonna be in a I hate men mood again. I thought guys got more mature with age, but I guess there are A**holes at any age group Why cant I keep a guy longer than two freakin months? plus if i'm talking to someone online and we are not commited, and the gal across the street needs some lovin, ****, i'm over there. Now if you have both told each other, oh yes dear, your the only one for me and i want you and none other, might be a different story, but i cant get laid by someone 1500 miles away 
and i still think you should meet more than one person, especially online before you try to commit. there are exceptions in all cases, still got to go back to the car buying analogy, if you buy the first model you sit in and drive, you may know what you want and be happy, but you could very well be disappointed and stuck with what you dont want |
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Im sorry but you cant expect a guy in another state or country to be in a serious relationship with someone they have never met. Its just not realistic... try someone closer you can actually meet! well, yes you can.if he's a true man, and if he's got any sense of decency or respect for himself or others... it is possible for a man to be serious, and it is possible for a man to be in control of himself...if he wants to be. believe it or not, but guys really don't have to stick it in just because it woke up erect. they won't die, honest. 
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Everyone can be an asshole.. both men AND women
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Im sorry but you cant expect a guy in another state or country to be in a serious relationship with someone they have never met. Its just not realistic... try someone closer you can actually meet! well, yes you can.if he's a true man, and if he's got any sense of decency or respect for himself or others... it is possible for a man to be serious, and it is possible for a man to be in control of himself...if he wants to be. believe it or not, but guys really don't have to stick it in just because it woke up erect. they won't die, honest.
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Internet relationships are usually more fantasy than reality. It's very easy to get all caught up in the idea of someone and to believe their words of love or whatever. Personally, I've never found long distance relationships to turn out to be anything more than just words on a screen or on the phone. In my experience, they don't go anywhere. Notice I said "personally," so all those who have found their "great loves" out of state or whatever, don't jump down my throat. If you can't find anyone local on this site, maybe you should try another one, or the personal ads, or maybe real life? Just a tip. Good luck and glad you realize people are only trying to help, since you asked for it.
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thats right iam not asshole try living in michigan if think got prolems
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thats right iam not asshole try living in michigan if think got prolems
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Internet relationships suck plain and simple.
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Internet relationships suck plain and simple. In my experience, I have found that to be true. However, I have a friend who found her bf online, and they've been together 3 years. So it works for some. |
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Internet relationships suck plain and simple. In my experience, I have found that to be true. However, I have a friend who found her bf online, and they've been together 3 years. So it works for some. Absolutely, but for me they don't. I've had so many almost internet relationships that ended faster than they started. I almost met a girl off here total waste of time she was. |
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That's too bad. Oh well, there's always dating in real life...
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That's too bad. Oh well, there's always dating in real life... I fail at that too 
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Im sorry but you cant expect a guy in another state or country to be in a serious relationship with someone they have never met. Its just not realistic... try someone closer you can actually meet! The problem is that NO guy from my state talks to me.  Well execpt for the Captain but hes taken.
Dammit I wish I lived closer to Mirror
we all wish we lived closer to Mirror. |
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That's too bad. Oh well, there's always dating in real life... I fail at that too
Awwww.... |
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So in January I started talking all serious to this guy. He lived in Canada. Long story short, he dumped me about a month after we started talking, and without a reason. Then a couple of hours later he was talking all serious to another woman in the forums. The day of Valentines Day, I started talking to another guy. He lived in Cali. He was amazing and I seriously thought there was a chance with this guy. WELL, there isnt one. He sent me a text tonight that said he just got laid by some chick. HELLLO? DID I HEAR YOU RIGHT? I turned down a date with a nice guy that lived here in IDAHO because of him. GUESS WHAT ITS BEEN ABOUT A MONTH AND A WEEK. And once again I'm gonna be in a I hate men mood again. I thought guys got more mature with age, but I guess there are A**holes at any age group Why cant I keep a guy longer than two freakin months? plus if i'm talking to someone online and we are not commited, and the gal across the street needs some lovin, ****, i'm over there. Now if you have both told each other, oh yes dear, your the only one for me and i want you and none other, might be a different story, but i cant get laid by someone 1500 miles away
and i still think you should meet more than one person, especially online before you try to commit. there are exceptions in all cases, still got to go back to the car buying analogy, if you buy the first model you sit in and drive, you may know what you want and be happy, but you could very well be disappointed and stuck with what you dont want I wish I lived across the street from you. |
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well..hmm.. i don't really have to advise much on the posted topic, most everything has been said.
good luck Well my suggestion is to stop sleeping with them. That'll test who really wants to be with you. sex is an important part of any relationship. cut a male or female off, they might just go elsewhere. the good ones will talk about it, the really good ones will wait, but most people will say screw this and be done. sex is not a toy, communication is a much better method |
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Im sorry but you cant expect a guy in another state or country to be in a serious relationship with someone they have never met. Its just not realistic... try someone closer you can actually meet! well, yes you can.if he's a true man, and if he's got any sense of decency or respect for himself or others... it is possible for a man to be serious, and it is possible for a man to be in control of himself...if he wants to be. believe it or not, but guys really don't have to stick it in just because it woke up erect. they won't die, honest.
you get what you give...may you always have a baggie in pocket. |
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That's too bad. Oh well, there's always dating in real life... I fail at that too
Then again, you're only 19, you have lots and lots of time to find someone. You shouldn't be in a rush. |
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I'd say anyone can be an @$$hole Some girl ims me today, rudely leaves and then doesn't even answer my email which I politely just asked why she left. Talk about a *****
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