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Guys and Girls can both be assholes
Seen it too many times |
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romeo....focus
said 3 times before you (I'm the offical counter )
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Edited by
lonelyshorty
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Well, lets see, I dated a 23 year old for about a week, and then he disappeared. Now this guy is 30 and hes an a**hole. I think my biggest problem is that I wear my heart on my sleeves and I cant help it. I wonder if the guy I turned down still wants to go out.... I think that actually you quite enjoy being the victim, and blaming men for all your woes...it's easier than having to look at your own faults... Hm, Ok lets see..........hmmmm I know I am very indepentdent, stubborn, wear my heart on my sleeves, I dont wear make up, I have OCD about somethings, I love movies, I dont drink, I dont smoke, I am NOT clingy, or needy, I can survive on my own, um, what else? Shall I go on or do you want me to describe my lifes story? NOW TELL ME SOMETHING WHO THE FU** LIKES TO BE HURT WITH EVERY RELATIONSHIP THEY HAVE EVER BEEN IN? WHO THE FU** LIKES TO BE THE UM WHAT DID YOU CALL THE 'VICTIM'? HM TELL ME THAT btw this isnt to you yellowrose |
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Why is everyone an arsehole but me??????
Why is every man so mean to me?????
It can't be something I have done.... it must be them...
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Hm, Ok lets see..........hmmmm I know I am very indepentdent, stubborn, wear my heart on my sleeves, I dont wear make up, I have OCD about somethings, I love movies, I dont drink, I dont smoke, I am NOT clingy, or needy, I can survive on my own, um, what else? Shall I go on or do you want me to describe my lifes story? NOW TELL ME SOMETHING WHO THE FU** LIKES TO BE HURT WITH EVERY RELATIONSHIP THEY HAVE EVER BEEN IN? WHO THE FU** LIKES TO BE THE UM WHAT DID YOU CALL THE 'VICTIM'? HM TELL ME THAT btw this isnt to you yellowrose Please note the words 'EVERY'.... I rest my case...... 
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the answer is within yourself, grasshopper
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YOU KNOW I CAME ON HERE TO GET ADVICE AND NOT TO BE ACCUSED OF ME LIKING TO BE THE FU*KING VICTIM. NOR TO GET MADE FUN OF.
I CAME ON HERE TO GET ADVICE AND SYMPATHY. I HAVE GOTTEN IT FROM EVERYONE BUT YOU. YOU KNOW WHAT I HOPE YOU HAVE A NICE NIGHT AND A PLESANT EASTER JESS. |
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romeo....focus
said 3 times before you (I'm the offical counter )
Oh  ... my bad
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Well, lets see, I dated a 23 year old for about a week, and then he disappeared. Now this guy is 30 and hes an a**hole. I think my biggest problem is that I wear my heart on my sleeves and I cant help it. I wonder if the guy I turned down still wants to go out.... I think that actually you quite enjoy being the victim, and blaming men for all your woes...it's easier than having to look at your own faults... Hm, Ok lets see..........hmmmm I know I am very indepentdent, stubborn, wear my heart on my sleeves, I dont wear make up, I have OCD about somethings, I love movies, I dont drink, I dont smoke, I am NOT clingy, or needy, I can survive on my own, um, what else? Shall I go on or do you want me to describe my lifes story? NOW TELL ME SOMETHING WHO THE FU** LIKES TO BE HURT WITH EVERY RELATIONSHIP THEY HAVE EVER BEEN IN? WHO THE FU** LIKES TO BE THE UM WHAT DID YOU CALL THE 'VICTIM'? HM TELL ME THAT btw this isnt to you yellowrose No one likes it but I think the point is not trying to change it. Everyone has gone through this...it's human nature. But you have to figure out what rut you are in and get out of it. Don't concentrate on who you are in this...try to figure out who the guys you date are and then maybe things will change because you will know what to look for |
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Ummmm anger issues???
 
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romeo....focus
said 3 times before you (I'm the offical counter )
Oh ... my bad
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Well, lets see, I dated a 23 year old for about a week, and then he disappeared. Now this guy is 30 and hes an a**hole. I think my biggest problem is that I wear my heart on my sleeves and I cant help it. I wonder if the guy I turned down still wants to go out.... I think that actually you quite enjoy being the victim, and blaming men for all your woes...it's easier than having to look at your own faults... Hm, Ok lets see..........hmmmm I know I am very indepentdent, stubborn, wear my heart on my sleeves, I dont wear make up, I have OCD about somethings, I love movies, I dont drink, I dont smoke, I am NOT clingy, or needy, I can survive on my own, um, what else? Shall I go on or do you want me to describe my lifes story? NOW TELL ME SOMETHING WHO THE FU** LIKES TO BE HURT WITH EVERY RELATIONSHIP THEY HAVE EVER BEEN IN? WHO THE FU** LIKES TO BE THE UM WHAT DID YOU CALL THE 'VICTIM'? HM TELL ME THAT btw this isnt to you yellowrose |
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No i just dont like getting fu*king made fun of when I'm pissed
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YOU KNOW I CAME ON HERE TO GET ADVICE AND NOT TO BE ACCUSED OF ME LIKING TO BE THE FU*KING VICTIM. NOR TO GET MADE FUN OF. I CAME ON HERE TO GET ADVICE AND SYMPATHY. I HAVE GOTTEN IT FROM EVERYONE BUT YOU. YOU KNOW WHAT I HOPE YOU HAVE A NICE NIGHT AND A PLESANT EASTER JESS. ... and she wonders why her relationships don't work out... Ever consider anger management classes? 
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who is making fun of you??? I have seen people give their opinions and advice and tell you how it looks to us. It's to help you
Maybe that is another thing you should look at...instead of thinking everyone is against you...take it for what i just said Maybe?? |
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YOU KNOW I CAME ON HERE TO GET ADVICE AND NOT TO BE ACCUSED OF ME LIKING TO BE THE FU*KING VICTIM. NOR TO GET MADE FUN OF. I CAME ON HERE TO GET ADVICE AND SYMPATHY. I HAVE GOTTEN IT FROM EVERYONE BUT YOU. YOU KNOW WHAT I HOPE YOU HAVE A NICE NIGHT AND A PLESANT EASTER JESS. You're looking for sympathy for making poor decisions....?? Just like Jess said, that's "playing the victim". She could not have been more clear (and right) on that. Maybe not what you wanted to hear, but it is the truth. The truth hurts doesn't it.... 
Dig it...? 
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Edited by
Jess642
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Sun 03/23/08 02:17 AM
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Thankyou Yellowrose... oh and Brian...
and I don't do the 'there, there, poor thing' with anyone, nor expect it.... but it is suprising when faced with a bluntness, a suggestion.... it strikes a chord, and creates a violent reaction..... hhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....velly velly interlesting...
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Thankyou Yellowrose... oh and Brian...
and I don't do the 'there, there, poor thing' with anyone, nor expect it.... but it is suprising when faced with a bluntness, a suggestion.... it strikes a chord, and creates a violent reaction..... hhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....velly velly interlesting...
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Alright for one I dont need anger management classes. I was already annoyed and I do admit it hurts to know the truth, but I am maturing as I get older. And I do admit I was coming on here for sympathy, but we all have to grow up someday.
Thank you all for the advice and I will try to figure out what I did wrong. 
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beep.
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