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 Aw, tell Jeff I love him and if he is a part of your life then he is a special man.
Kitt, please stay strong and let nothing stand in your way okay. Jeff will stand by your side
Every relationship has problems and just because someone doesn't have their head together does not mean it is bringing chaos into the relationship. Madam, Jeff is a wonderful man and you are a marvelous woman so you continue what you are doing and as I have stated before, Jeff and you will prevail because if he isn't a wonderful, caring, compassionate man you would not have allowed him into your life. He isn't going to run anywhere and you two will be fine. I love you and this is JMO
jeff just read that he says you are a very kind woman and a good friend. he agrees fully with what you said. 
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Aw, tell Jeff I love him and if he is a part of your life then he is a special man.
Kitt, please stay strong and let nothing stand in your way okay. Jeff will stand by your side
Every relationship has problems and just because someone doesn't have their head together does not mean it is bringing chaos into the relationship. Madam, Jeff is a wonderful man and you are a marvelous woman so you continue what you are doing and as I have stated before, Jeff and you will prevail because if he isn't a wonderful, caring, compassionate man you would not have allowed him into your life. He isn't going to run anywhere and you two will be fine. I love you and this is JMO
jeff just read that he says you are a very kind woman and a good friend. he agrees fully with what you said.
 from us both babe
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Life is simple. People make it complicated.
Have a nice day yourself. JB |
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Kitt,
That means a lot, it truly does. Hugs and Kisses to you both
Merle XOXO |
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i am so afraid of letting the walls down that this poor guy hasnt had a chance in hell from day one. he is putting his heart out on the table, trying to open up and i continue to shut him down. i dont mean to...im SCARED! im afraid that if i dont learn to let these walls down i will live a very lonely life. but i dont know how to do it.
you are a wonderful person,just remember that... and let them slowly crumble..you willbe ok.... (eiser to say than to do..)) |
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i am so afraid of letting the walls down that this poor guy hasnt had a chance in hell from day one. he is putting his heart out on the table, trying to open up and i continue to shut him down. i dont mean to...im SCARED! im afraid that if i dont learn to let these walls down i will live a very lonely life. but i dont know how to do it.
you are a wonderful person,just remember that... and let them slowly crumble..you willbe ok.... (eiser to say than to do..)) i know you understand izzy i love ya babe! you too are wonderful
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im bout to cry.. ima go smokeinstead.. lol i am so afraid of letting the walls down that this poor guy hasnt had a chance in hell from day one. he is putting his heart out on the table, trying to open up and i continue to shut him down. i dont mean to...im SCARED! im afraid that if i dont learn to let these walls down i will live a very lonely life. but i dont know how to do it.
you are a wonderful person,just remember that... and let them slowly crumble..you willbe ok.... (eiser to say than to do..)) i know you understand izzy i love ya babe! you too are wonderful
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funches, Impersonal and blatently upfront... calling it out on what stands out... Feed him information, and he will feed it back to you... To make you think... 
well "Creative Soul" as usual my post was unpopular and to keep people from hitting that pesty "report abuse button" is why I only repeated what madamk was saying to herself ..if someone truely wants someone they are not going to be doing things to push the person away unless they are playing games theirselves .. madamx placed the walls up for a reason and the reasons are clear...she just don't want the guy and thinks he's an ass and those facts runs rapid through her posts...that everyone is telling her to jump into this relationship is the reason she should be scared ..don't "believe" you want to be with someone "know" that you want to be with that someone and until you do know then keep it as "friends" or "friends with benefits" or move on or whateverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr ..but atleast to thine ownself be true What he said. I will add that you should get your head together before even considering any kind of relationship with anybody. Nobody wants chaos in a relationship. If I was him, I would run, not walk, run to the nearest exit and never return. JB  
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funches, Impersonal and blatently upfront... calling it out on what stands out... Feed him information, and he will feed it back to you... To make you think...
well "Creative Soul" as usual my post was unpopular and to keep people from hitting that pesty "report abuse button" is why I only repeated what madamk was saying to herself ..if someone truely wants someone they are not going to be doing things to push the person away unless they are playing games theirselves .. madamx placed the walls up for a reason and the reasons are clear...she just don't want the guy and thinks he's an ass and those facts runs rapid through her posts...that everyone is telling her to jump into this relationship is the reason she should be scared ..don't "believe" you want to be with someone "know" that you want to be with that someone and until you do know then keep it as "friends" or "friends with benefits" or move on or whateverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr ..but atleast to thine ownself be true What he said. I will add that you should get your head together before even considering any kind of relationship with anybody. Nobody wants chaos in a relationship. If I was him, I would run, not walk, run to the nearest exit and never return. JB
I don't understand why people have a need to be so mean when someone is obviously hurting. Oh well, What goes around comes around. |
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its just who they are nora...they cant help it. i have pity on them. as i said, i trusted and put my heart out there and my friends came thru as always and i love you all dearly. the petty and bitter statements are nothing to me...like a charlie brown cartoon...whaaa whaa wha whaaaa wha wha
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its just who they are nora...they cant help it. i have pity on them. as i said, i trusted and put my heart out there and my friends came thru as always and i love you all dearly. the petty and bitter statements are nothing to me...like a charlie brown cartoon...whaaa whaa wha whaaaa wha wha I guess I don't understand why they get involved at all. If someone is hurting, do you need to take the opportunity to jump in and give them a good kick? Does it make them feel better about themselves? OH, I had a good day, I saw someone was hurting and I made it worse. Yikes. How do they live with themselves? What you revealed took a lot of courage and honesty and for people to mock you just irritates me. But truly, karma is a beyotch. |
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yes hiker...i think it does get them off in some sick way. some people have nothing positive to say because positive doesnt exist in their minds
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yes hiker...i think it does get them off in some sick way. some people have nothing positive to say because positive doesnt exist in their minds so you called your boyfriend an ass but I'm the one that's sick because I reminded you that you called him an ass..hummm no good deed goes unpunish ...ok then madamx I'll play your game and like everyone else give you good reasons to justify your obvious second guessing about this relationship and besides if I say the same thing everyone else is saying no one can click that report abuse button since they would be rat finking on their ownself ... yes madamx you have one chance with love so do what President Reagan said to President Gorbachev ....Mr. Gorbachev tear down that wall ...so yes madamx tear down that mental wall and give Jeff a fighting chance because he's not really an ass you were just hallucinating when you called Jeff an ass ..so come on madamx just jump in blindly and give Jeff your heart and please no more of the silly second guessing stuff because as we all know common sense can be such a nuisance... is that what you wanted to hear? ...geez women |
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yes hiker...i think it does get them off in some sick way. some people have nothing positive to say because positive doesnt exist in their minds so you called your boyfriend an ass but I'm the one that's sick because I reminded you that you called him an ass..hummm no good deed goes unpunish ...ok then madamx I'll play your game and like everyone else give you good reasons to justify your obvious second guessing about this relationship and besides if I say the same thing everyone else is saying no one can click that report abuse button since they would be rat finking on their ownself ... yes madamx you have one chance with love so do what President Reagan said to President Gorbachev ....Mr. Gorbachev tear down that wall ...so yes madamx tear down that mental wall and give Jeff a fighting chance because he's not really an ass you were just hallucinating when you called Jeff an ass ..so come on madamx just jump in blindly and give Jeff your heart and please no more of the silly second guessing stuff because as we all know common sense can be such a nuisance... is that what you wanted to hear? ...geez women you just don't get it ..calling him an ass was part of the wall - I do the same thing. Anybody gets too close I start finding things wrong.. a lot of people do it - because we are scared to death of opening up and getting hurt. It's a very painful state to be in and NOBODY wants to be like this. Believe me. I don't. Just be happy that you are not like this and things are easier and more obvious for you. Don't criticize things you don't understand.
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yes hiker...i think it does get them off in some sick way. some people have nothing positive to say because positive doesnt exist in their minds so you called your boyfriend an ass but I'm the one that's sick because I reminded you that you called him an ass..hummm no good deed goes unpunish ...ok then madamx I'll play your game and like everyone else give you good reasons to justify your obvious second guessing about this relationship and besides if I say the same thing everyone else is saying no one can click that report abuse button since they would be rat finking on their ownself ... yes madamx you have one chance with love so do what President Reagan said to President Gorbachev ....Mr. Gorbachev tear down that wall ...so yes madamx tear down that mental wall and give Jeff a fighting chance because he's not really an ass you were just hallucinating when you called Jeff an ass ..so come on madamx just jump in blindly and give Jeff your heart and please no more of the silly second guessing stuff because as we all know common sense can be such a nuisance... is that what you wanted to hear? ...geez women first of all...if you would have read the posts....i thanked you for your comments and observations. my complaint was to the young lady who decided to go above and beyond the call of duty to point out to me that i dont deserve to be in any relationship with anyone. my annoyance was not with you. you said exactly what was on your mind about the subject at hand. there is nothing wrong wth that and i appreciate your honest opinion regarding my situation. you may be correct, i do not know. are there things that i think he could be an ass about...of course, but then again, so am i. who is to say what is right or wrong? no one is perfect. in your comments, not once did you degrade me or offend me...nor did you assume i do not deserve to be in a relationship of anykind. |
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yes hiker...i think it does get them off in some sick way. some people have nothing positive to say because positive doesnt exist in their minds so you called your boyfriend an ass but I'm the one that's sick because I reminded you that you called him an ass..hummm no good deed goes unpunish ...ok then madamx I'll play your game and like everyone else give you good reasons to justify your obvious second guessing about this relationship and besides if I say the same thing everyone else is saying no one can click that report abuse button since they would be rat finking on their ownself ... yes madamx you have one chance with love so do what President Reagan said to President Gorbachev ....Mr. Gorbachev tear down that wall ...so yes madamx tear down that mental wall and give Jeff a fighting chance because he's not really an ass you were just hallucinating when you called Jeff an ass ..so come on madamx just jump in blindly and give Jeff your heart and please no more of the silly second guessing stuff because as we all know common sense can be such a nuisance... is that what you wanted to hear? ...geez women you just don't get it ..calling him an ass was part of the wall - I do the same thing. Anybody gets too close I start finding things wrong.. a lot of people do it - because we are scared to death of opening up and getting hurt. It's a very painful state to be in and NOBODY wants to be like this. Believe me. I don't. Just be happy that you are not like this and things are easier and more obvious for you. Don't criticize things you don't understand.
exactly. i was on the hunt for reasons to not be with him in order to protect myself. i did not give him the fair shake that he deserved. he is a good person. he is STILL here and didnt run when believe me, i would have!!! someone gotta give him credit for that. he is a nice looking, well educated man with alot of good qualities, hes not desperate so thats not it...there must be something more and i intend to find out. |
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One must feel whole within themself, for themself, by themself in order to have the best chance at making the next meaningful relationship whole...
The empty voids are not of the next one, they are of the last one, and must be addressed as such, to avoid the carry-on baggage. The severity of which can determine the success or failure of the next, without just cause... There are two sides to every story, and then there is the truth... "What contribution did I have in the failure of the last relationship?" This would not be a negative contemplation, by any measure regarding one's readiness for a meaningful relationship. It shows consideration towards who and what is next for one to understand and be held self-accountable for what is so applicable in the last. It is called consideration, and accountability... No rights... no wrongs... just my opinion...
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you just don't get it ..calling him an ass was part of the wall - I do the same thing. Anybody gets too close I start finding things wrong.. a lot of people do it - because we are scared to death of opening up and getting hurt. so if you are "scare to open up and get hurt" then why do it? |
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in your comments, not once did you degrade me or offend me... what? ....how rude |
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One must feel whole within themself, for themself, by themself in order to have the best chance at making the next meaningful relationship whole... The empty voids are not of the next one, they are of the last one, and must be addressed as such, to avoid the carry-on baggage. The severity of which can determine the success or failure of the next, without just cause... There are two sides to every story, and then there is the truth... "What contribution did I have in the failure of the last relationship?" This would not be a negative contemplation, by any measure regarding one's readiness for a meaningful relationship. It shows consideration towards who and what is next for one to understand and be held self-accountable for what is so applicable in the last. It is called consideration, and accountability... No rights... no wrongs... just my opinion...
Nicely said darlin! |
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