Topic: Dilemas
EtherealEmbers's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:58 PM

i also feel bad bc he came all the from alabama...what do i do, send his ass packing?


YES!

Atlantean_Queen's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:58 PM
hmmm very good idea kenneth

winnie410's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:59 PM


Hello everyone
So I have a dilema...so i met my boyfriend on here and he just moved up here recently from alabama...i just got my computer back online and hes back on this dating site...i changed my status from dating to friendship and he has not and hes still talking to other girls....should i be concerned? :cry:



hun...leave the jacka$$.He anit worth it. Some men just dont get that they got a good thing when its in there arms. I know how it is because my last boyfirend did the SAME thing..when i found out i ditched the prat and decided i need someone with a bigger...heart:smile:


yours had a small.....heart too? lmao maybe i know him. huh

Totage's photo
Fri 02/22/08 09:00 PM

wow msteddybear i feel the exact same way but he is sooooo hard to talk to about this bc he just comes right out and says...DO U WANT ME TO LEAVE?...and of course i say no bc i love him ya know


That's a manipulative tactic. Let him leave.

Atlantean_Queen's photo
Fri 02/22/08 09:01 PM
haha his heart seems to be very small bc sometimes he can be a real ass

KennethP5206's photo
Fri 02/22/08 09:01 PM
This is a cheater that got caught, I think it is funny.

You will have to copy and paste in your browser.

http://www.andysavage.com/audioPop.asp?a=1347

hikerchick's photo
Fri 02/22/08 09:01 PM

i also feel bad bc he came all the from alabama...what do i do, send his ass packing?


TFB for him. He deserves nothing from you. I hate guys who take advantage of young women.

hikerchick's photo
Fri 02/22/08 09:02 PM


wow msteddybear i feel the exact same way but he is sooooo hard to talk to about this bc he just comes right out and says...DO U WANT ME TO LEAVE?...and of course i say no bc i love him ya know


That's a manipulative tactic. Let him leave.


Clearly! He is playing it well and she is nice so she is falling for it. He is counting on that.

EtherealEmbers's photo
Fri 02/22/08 09:03 PM
A lot of the problem these days is some people are SO used to being online and having "relationships" that way that once they meet someone in person they don't know how to function. If he's that far gone and came across the country or even the city to come be with you, he needs to be kicked to the curb or get some therapy. He's pretty much a lost cause if he hasn't or won't change his status and is still talking to girls constantly. See what happens if you cut off the internet. He'll probably leave on his own.

Atlantean_Queen's photo
Fri 02/22/08 09:04 PM
you know what hiker chick that is so true...i believe anything he says when he puts on this nice act

winnie410's photo
Fri 02/22/08 09:05 PM

This is a cheater that got caught, I think it is funny.

You will have to copy and paste in your browser.

http://www.andysavage.com/audioPop.asp?a=1347


i LOVED it! that was great. i have heard other idiots get caught on our local station here too.

hikerchick's photo
Fri 02/22/08 09:05 PM

you know what hiker chick that is so true...i believe anything he says when he puts on this nice act


I married one of them..ulitmately he was abusive. It starts with manipulation and control. It took me years to learn to recognize it and I see it on here all the time.

1socialbutterfly's photo
Fri 02/22/08 09:05 PM


Hello everyone
So I have a dilema...so i met my boyfriend on here and he just moved up here recently from alabama...i just got my computer back online and hes back on this dating site...i changed my status from dating to friendship and he has not and hes still talking to other girls....should i be concerned? :cry:


Start a new profile and post another picture of another girl and see if he flirts with you


Send me his info and I'll do the dirty work and send you the emails as proof.

Mac60's photo
Fri 02/22/08 09:05 PM
You've got to face the fact that you made a big mistake. And the sooner you correct it the better.


Atlantean_Queen's photo
Fri 02/22/08 09:06 PM
thats a really good idea embers...i was also going to see what he says if i ask him to delete his profile bc i would delete mine too...but most likely he would make another one

KennethP5206's photo
Fri 02/22/08 09:08 PM



Hello everyone
So I have a dilema...so i met my boyfriend on here and he just moved up here recently from alabama...i just got my computer back online and hes back on this dating site...i changed my status from dating to friendship and he has not and hes still talking to other girls....should i be concerned? :cry:


Start a new profile and post another picture of another girl and see if he flirts with you


Send me his info and I'll do the dirty work and send you the emails as proof.




There you go....That is too funny...You go girl..laugh laugh
This guy is in some serious do do now. laugh laugh

Atlantean_Queen's photo
Fri 02/22/08 09:09 PM
mynd24 is his screen name social butterfly

EtherealEmbers's photo
Fri 02/22/08 09:09 PM

thats a really good idea embers...i was also going to see what he says if i ask him to delete his profile bc i would delete mine too...but most likely he would make another one


He'd just make another one. He'll also find other ways to cheat if he can't do that. If you make a fake profile and hit on him, he'll definitely flirt back if you say the right things, but what will that prove? I think you already know in your heart that he's a jerk and let me tell you... it is WAY BETTER to be alone than to be with a jerk. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself and have some self esteem. Ultimately it will be worth it.flowerforyou

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Fri 02/22/08 09:09 PM
Edited by Pjinkysmom63 on Fri 02/22/08 09:10 PM
Been there once upon a time...my ex went crazy when the internet came available....he didn't bother to tell me he had girlfriends online. I found out the hard way. We had been married 18 yrs...what a JERK...explode

EtherealEmbers's photo
Fri 02/22/08 09:11 PM
Good Lord, you can do better than that.. he looks like a horse! aaahahha