Topic: Dilemas
PATSFAN's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:50 PM
noway

no photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:50 PM

yes, i have learn't myself if they still continue on the site or another site they are just playing the game get him now while hes fresh than eat him alivebigsmile


Love it....chew him up into tiny little pieces

Totage's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:50 PM

Hello everyone
So I have a dilema...so i met my boyfriend on here and he just moved up here recently from alabama...i just got my computer back online and hes back on this dating site...i changed my status from dating to friendship and he has not and hes still talking to other girls....should i be concerned? :cry:


Red flag


i tried talking to him but then he pulls this hole...OH YOU DONT TRUST ME...then he makes me feel like im the bad guy


Another red flag

Leave him, and move on.flowerforyou

winnie410's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:50 PM

yeah we r living together


bad move. kick him out. or get rid of your internet access.

1socialbutterfly's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:51 PM
someone once told me "If you are pointing your finger at someone you have three pointed back at yourself."

Sorry girl but ditch him

roxanne76's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:51 PM
kick him out

hikerchick's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:51 PM

yeah we r living together


Yikes. I can't imagine doing that. Good luck to you.

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:52 PM

I feel like im being played...i feel like he moved here for a place to live


He is using you if he is living with you and doing that!
Living with you puts it in the- we are only seeing each other catagory. If he says you don't trust him- he is deffinately
being gaurded about it. Frankly if he moved there to be with you- you are who he should be talking too.

Atlantean_Queen's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:53 PM
thank you so much for your input...it hurts to trust someone so much then find out they r still talking to other girls...it makes me feel like im not good enough for him...i noticed that he changed where he lives but he couldnt change his status...im sorry but that seems very shady to me

1socialbutterfly's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:54 PM
Sweetie, he's the problem not you.

Atlantean_Queen's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:55 PM
wow msteddybear i feel the exact same way but he is sooooo hard to talk to about this bc he just comes right out and says...DO U WANT ME TO LEAVE?...and of course i say no bc i love him ya know

Atlantean_Queen's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:56 PM
awww thanks butterfly :cry:

hikerchick's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:56 PM

thank you so much for your input...it hurts to trust someone so much then find out they r still talking to other girls...it makes me feel like im not good enough for him...i noticed that he changed where he lives but he couldnt change his status...im sorry but that seems very shady to me


Honey he's not good enough for you.

EtherealEmbers's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:57 PM
Take out the trash, woman...

KennethP5206's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:57 PM

Hello everyone
So I have a dilema...so i met my boyfriend on here and he just moved up here recently from alabama...i just got my computer back online and hes back on this dating site...i changed my status from dating to friendship and he has not and hes still talking to other girls....should i be concerned? :cry:


Start a new profile and post another picture of another girl and see if he flirts with you

Atlantean_Queen's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:58 PM
i also feel bad bc he came all the from alabama...what do i do, send his ass packing?

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:58 PM
Keep an eye on him...
Deffinately shady if he hasnt changed his single status...
I wish you luck dear!
If they are just friends that would be ok- but that not changing his status thing is really a red flag...
flowerforyou

TayLynn's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:58 PM

Hello everyone
So I have a dilema...so i met my boyfriend on here and he just moved up here recently from alabama...i just got my computer back online and hes back on this dating site...i changed my status from dating to friendship and he has not and hes still talking to other girls....should i be concerned? :cry:



hun...leave the jacka$$.He anit worth it. Some men just dont get that they got a good thing when its in there arms. I know how it is because my last boyfirend did the SAME thing..when i found out i ditched the prat and decided i need someone with a bigger...heart:smile:

winnie410's photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:58 PM
dont feel bad. kick him out.

no photo
Fri 02/22/08 08:58 PM
Where do you live sweetie...we'll all come over and help him move out ASAP!!!