Yea so I meet this guy, great guy. Ive been hanging out with him for about a month, talking every day on the phone, text, IM. Weve been out till all hours of the morning. Hell he brought his daughter to meet me today, then took me to the Van Halen concert. Then tonight, like just now, he pops on me...by the way I should tell you Im married. Not like married and seperated, married she lives in the house with him and the kids and has no clue what hes doing when hes out. Why cant I manage to find ONE decent SINGLE guy?

nice decent guy here at ur service
but im sry to hear that kra.
thats really low

desent single guy right here lol never married for the record lol

Oh my...that really sucks. At least the wife didn't see you two together. I hope I don't run into that.

Blah,blah,blah........tell him you have herpes....

Im a good girl, independent, good job, take care of my 2 kids alone, educated, half way decent looking, fun, faithful...I dont get it. Its frusterating. If you arent happy, man up and leave, but dont make me your secret life.

How long is it going to be secret if he keeps taking his kids along on dates anyway?

Well I havent done anything with him. Im not like that. It has to be pretty serious before Ill go there...for good reason.

so if it bothers you that much then let his wife know what he's been up while he's out...


he wouldn't bother with ya again, thats for sure

lil scum sucker!!! I hate those idiots! I'm sorry to hear that. They don't seem to care about the consequences of hurting you, the kids, or the wife. I curse them with bad karma!!!

I know a guy, that knows a guy, that hurts people. Want his number?

might have been nice if wifey saw him... at least she would know she is married to a cheater.

sorry to hear about that, at least he told you before you slept with him... good luck for the future... guess that teaches us to ask before the date and hopefully they will be honest. And guys i;'m sure you all have the horror stories too...I dont mean to imply that only guys cheat

Oh and there should be a penalty for cheating on your spouse. I'm thinking death or dismemberment.

Just tell the wife....lol......love to be a fly on the wall when she confronts him

It wasnt a date, he takes his daughter for a walk along the river every saturday. I work on the river and was working today, so he invited me. But now Im furious...

everybody cheats, apparently.

Wow... that's horrible!

How was Van Halen? I hear their tour is going great cause Dave and Eddie have been touring in seperate buses...

lol, Im Italian I have family =)

Ya know, I had an anxiety attack and sat out on a bench in the hall the whole time...grrr. No biggie I didnt throw down $75 for it..he did.