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Topic: You think hes great, then he tells you hes married
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Mon 02/18/08 07:32 AM

flowerforyou I would tell his wife.flowerforyou He doesnt seem to be very responsible with his kid.flowerforyou

Sadly, if all the friends know, I'm sure she already knows on some level. Either that, or she is in denial and doesn't want to know. Most women are intuitive about these sorts of things, despite all their protestations otherwise. They usually can sense when something is amiss, even without all the details.

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Mon 02/18/08 07:42 AM


flowerforyou I would tell his wife.flowerforyou He doesnt seem to be very responsible with his kid.flowerforyou

Sadly, if all the friends know, I'm sure she already knows on some level. Either that, or she is in denial and doesn't want to know. Most women are intuitive about these sorts of things, despite all their protestations otherwise. They usually can sense when something is amiss, even without all the details.

I caught my xwife doin her VP at work. So I called his wife and told her. We both filed for divorce within 24 hours of each other. Was kinda funny. The two cheaters got mad at each other and broke up. Even funnier.:cry: laugh

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Mon 02/18/08 07:44 AM
i had a guy do that to me
i even went to his house met his mother and sister
no one ever mentioned he was married
then one day i call him and his wife answered the phone

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Mon 02/18/08 07:46 AM
SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THE CRAP,IT GIVES US GUYS THAT ARE SINGLE AND LOOKING A BAD NAME

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Mon 02/18/08 01:28 PM
It is the secrets and the deception that damages relationships, not the actual "infractions". The trust and respect must be maintained for any healthy relationship to survive.

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Mon 02/18/08 02:00 PM
Ouch, what a big bag of suck. I hate it when that happens. I do my best to do identity checks on those I meet, etc, but you never know.

Remember, there are nice REAL guys out there. Just takes a while to find one to stick.

Hugs, M

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Mon 02/18/08 05:27 PM

Yea so I meet this guy, great guy. Ive been hanging out with him for about a month, talking every day on the phone, text, IM. Weve been out till all hours of the morning. Hell he brought his daughter to meet me today, then took me to the Van Halen concert. Then tonight, like just now, he pops on me...by the way I should tell you Im married. Not like married and seperated, married she lives in the house with him and the kids and has no clue what hes doing when hes out. Why cant I manage to find ONE decent SINGLE guy?


perhaps you should contact his wife and let her know what her husband has been doing behind her back. anyone who will take part in activity that crass needs to be exposed for their misdeeds.

even worse is that the cad has even brought his own daughter in on the action. explode

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Thu 02/21/08 12:06 AM

anonomis phone call from a pay phone and ask why her brother(use his name) hasent picked you up,your going to be late for your doctors appointment and you really want him there when they give you the rezults:wink: :wink: laugh laugh laugh laugh devil devil yes I know I'm evillaugh laugh laugh laugh



lmao good one

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Thu 02/21/08 04:35 PM
I have wondered that very same thing. Here's a book you need. It's called Catch Him and Keep Him by Christian Carter. Fabulous working tool for women who face these kinds of situations and learning how to read the signals long before you get to this phase. You need this book as much as I did. It has changed the way I date and the way I perceive a potential partner. Jane

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