maybe try a woman .... j/k sorry just had to say it

If I had a dime for every "what is it with you guys ? " threads I have seen ...I'd be retired by now Good Luck tho !

Nah, nothing wrong with you.

Awww. That was sweet.

Here is another radical concept. How about doing this thing that I learned to do around age 2....it is called talking. Seriously, you would be amazed at what you can find out about someone if you talk to them.

Being upset that guys are into sex shouldn't make you criticle of them or yourself. Thats who we are, we are programmed that way - its how the almighty created us. I would think most guys(including myself) want relationships, but they also have the instinctive needs to full fill.

Men and women may be different but in the long run most of them want the same things. Women want sex in most cases just as much as men do but they want it a certain way. They want to feel it is the icing on the cake. They want it to be the celebration of a great, trusting, safe, secure relationship. Men would love to say they think that way too. Men just seem to settle for a bit less sometimes and unfortunately far too many men are willing to say things dishonestly to acquire sex. Strangely enough, many women lie just as often to get what they want in a relationship. It would be safe to say that MOST people of either gender desire to love and be loved. It is unfortunate that so very few have the emotional maturity or commitment levels to ever reach that point. It is a twisted world we live in but in my little corner I still believe in fairy tale romance, lasting love, and eternal hope. steve

the selection of men here in my area are very limited. I have standards that just don't seem to be able to be met here.

I think I'm in ...

Well sweet Jesus woman....you live in Michigan. No wonder you think us guys suck!

i think that is a cop out. i live in a town pop 26 if you count the neighbors dog twice

I hear you, I get men looking at my profile all the time and I have plenty of pics of me, but for some reason no one leaves me a message. The ones that do are just idiots cus they leave messages asking me to marry them or some other lame line! I don't know maybe it is just me or is there something wrong with my profile?? I am starting to feel like the men are intimitaded by me and I don't know why, I am sweet and nice and I love making people laugh....so whats wrong with this picture??

oh don't get me wrong i love to have sex, with the person i am dating. But when people make mistakes and the other can forgive and forget that makes it hard.

All men are seriously NOT alike. I have been talking to someone online for several weeks and I made a joke about sex..it was a joke, I meant nothing by it; but he took it to mean that I expected to have sex with him and it made him very uncomfortable. If I could take my words back , I would.

But guys vary in their sensitivities just like women do.

watch that hikerchick, she's a man eater

Awww...and now the dude is probably gay cause of what you did to him....you Meanie!

goof and brian --it was a joke!! I haven't eaten a man in some time!!

I just think this online thing is so funny, cuz reading poeples profiles all say how great they are and everything they want. They all seem the same, if that was really the case hey we all should have someone.

>burp<

fibber

well no one is gonna write "I'm an insensitive loser with nothing going for myself"...

well, maybe a wee one