Topic: Profile photos
OldCoot's photo
Thu 11/20/25 04:58 PM
Edited by OldCoot on Thu 11/20/25 05:05 PM
Am I the only one who notices that about 70% of the match profiles that say 56-70+ of age have photos of young ladies who can barely have reached the age of consent?
Either Mingle2 is randomly assigning ages that are in fact not accurate or they are all liars.

One woman I did have intercourse with (scrape your filth mind out of the gutter - it was social inter-course, as in exchanging messages) admitted in the 2nd exchange that since I was being honest she had to admit she was really 42, not the 62 on her profile.
She lied!
Not that I fell for it because I told her that if she was 62 I was 129 - that's when she fessed up.

So what is it with all these young chickadees claiming to be Silver Citizens?
Are they posting photos of themselves from 30 years ago or just straight up lying about their age for some weird reason?
Oh, and more than half of them have empty profiles, which seems a good way to sift the wheat from the "bot" chaff - empty profile = not a real person.

Ladies, if you want to be taken seriously, put something about yourself in the profile, or do you just want to play "Tinder Hookup" and swipe on hot hunk photos in your matches without anyone knowing anything about you?
I believe they have an app for that called ..... drum roll please .... TINDER !!

GravelRidgeBoy's photo
Thu 11/20/25 05:45 PM
I bet there are more women profiles who put their age way too low than the ones that go too high...lol If the age is off by decades then I figure it is just another scammer who put the wrong picture with the profile they made (it seems like they make about 20 at a time...lol)

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 11/21/25 02:34 AM
So to summarise it...
You're in your 70s and start talking to women who look 30 years younger.
Then you get to the forums to rant that women lie about their age?
And blame the other gender for you being an old man chasing after young looking gals?

At some point in life you gotta have an idea of which ponds are for you to fish in and which aren't.

Too many men around who think they're god's gift to women. (and then harass us with their attitude)
Better is to go from your own age & looks, and what you bring to the table. That will increase your chances of fishing in the right pond and actually finding someone.

Michael's photo
Fri 11/21/25 07:41 PM
Statistics collected on dating sites states that 3/4 of women lie and 2/3 of the men also lie. I always assume that any date I go on there will be revelations about their profile. I usually accept the corrections to their profile. Age and old pictures is a common issue.

If they have lied to you numerous times and demand that you never lie to them, then that is a problem.

If women do not fill out their profile, then that is big red flag for most men.

As for looks, my late wife looked like she was in her late 20's and she was in her 60's. A couple weeks ago I ran into a girl that I thought was in her late 30's. She was twice that age. Personally I try to find women closer to my age.

Concentrate on the important things that will create a happy life-long relationship.