Topic: Rate my profile
Rare Breed 's photo
Fri 10/18/24 05:52 PM
New to the dating scene, was in a 5yr relationship that ended a year ago. So I’m just curious on the females feed back.
I’m a grown man so be honest I can take it besides it’s just your perspective and everyone has a different one.
I also want to ask the ladies on their opinion, ladies if you came across a man that’s good looking, has a great job, can cook, he is clean and keeps his place clean, has goals and ambition and always sees through what he wants, is respectful, is extremely humble and intelligent, he depends on no one and never expects the female to pay for everything because he is able to financially take care of himself, is sweet and caring but also you know that he will go to war to keep you safe, he is good with his hands and can fix anything, is great in bed and everyday u see the self growth that he does because he wants to better himself.
Would you be interested in that man

Mortman's photo
Sun 11/03/24 07:10 PM
Yikes. Those photos are messed up and you get a bit too graphic in the blurb section, but otherwise, it's OK.

It's clear that you're intelligent and can write, and being a tattoo artist shows your creative side, which is cool. But the crazy Instagram filter on your selfies is super suspicious, and probably best to lose that last photo.

For better results, take a real picture (no filters), where you're in ample light, like outdoors on a nice day, and wearing something nice and looking into the lens of the camera. Smiling wouldn't hurt, and could make you seem more approachable. Maybe a nice photo where you're walking your dog? Also consider editing your blurb to be less explicit, unless you're purposely filtering women who don't have enough of a naughty side. You do you, I guess.

Anyway, this is my opinion, and I'm not super in touch with my feminine side, so it could work. If those artsy/stylized pics are what you look like, then you're probably good looking enough to do well, but for the profile, as is, despite the mostly good blurb, I'd have to rate it 3/10.

Good luck!

motowndowntown's photo
Sun 11/03/24 07:40 PM
Someone who claims to be humble but feels the need to put D--- picks in his profile and writes one long sentence about what a great person he is, is a huge red flag.

Mr Good Guy's photo
Mon 11/04/24 07:14 PM
They must define "nice body" and "9+ inches" in Wisconsin differently than the rest of the USA.

Rare Breed 's photo
Mon 11/11/24 04:01 PM
I truly appreciate the feed back. I didn’t expect to get it from guys but I respect what was said. As for the filter I see where you were coming from. As for the rest of the feed back I respect where you’re coming from.
I’m not making an excuse but I’d like to help understand why my profile is how it is.
1) like I’ve mentioned I’m freshly single. I was in a 5yrs relationship and we decided to go our own ways , I have nothing bad to say about my ex is was amazing, sexy and down to earth. So it’s been 6-7yrs since I tried to meet a female.

2)I’m not looking for a relationship to be honest at the moment, and I wanted that clear so that I don’t mislead someone.

3) I deal with trust issues and having to somewhat trust a pic on a profile really gets at me . Before I really did the account I looked what females had posted . And I see that I misread it.

4) I came at this site with the mindset in finding a FWB , and the more I step back and look and see what was said I over jumped it.

I’ll also admit that a few of the photos really shouldn’t have been posted. But I will say that not one is fake. It’s all me in every picture. I’ll have to fix a few if the rough edges on my profile. It’s hard for me to have my pic on a site that I’m not even sure there’s real women on here. I did get 60 likes on my profile and I’ve matched with 20 of them.

Guess I’m coming at these site the same way I would in person . Upfront , honest and no BS just straight to the point . I just didn’t want to have a bunch of nonsense in my profile taking about meeting the love of my life or stuff like that. I just wanted to make it Crystal clear what the female was walking into if they decided to reach out to me. I don’t mislead to get what I want.
In person I’m an extremely down-to-earth and intelligent male I was told that I take pictures. There are somewhat intimidating. lol I don’t try to. I’m extremely respectful and I mean what I say and say what I do. I work a lot and I’m not big on going to the bar to meet a female. But I will clean it up and come from a different angle while still getting what I’m looking for across.
Again thank you for the feed back

Rare Breed 's photo
Mon 11/11/24 04:10 PM
Can you elaborate more on that?
“Red flag”?
I’m actually an amazing guy, I see you stay in West Allis wi.. so do I … and a lot of people in west allis and Milwaukee from 70th national to 14th greenfield know that I stand on my word and I have no problem meeting females. I work a lot and make amazing money, I deal with trust issues and I don’t have patience for games or end up finding out instead of talking to a female it’s actually a guy or scam. See I already dealt with 4 so called female profiles on here and when I googled searched their pics they were from another account and fake. Like I said before I wasn’t expecting free back from males. Also I got 60 likes on my profile and I matched with 20 of them.
I’m told that am simple but complicated. I thought making it clear why I was on the site and who I was and what I was looking for was good enough. Again I appreciate the feed back

Rare Breed 's photo
Mon 11/11/24 04:27 PM
Mr good guy,
Help me sir understand with everything I said in my profile all you got out of it or that caught your eye was me saying “nice body and 9+in “ and you said to the rest of the US. Correct me if I’m wrong but 9inchs is the same 9inchs in every state. And nice body meaning I workout, I have no body fat, I bench 295lbs and I weigh 170lbs. I do sit-ups and my job and a very physical I cut trees down and work with concrete. I have a flat stomach, muscular arms , you know when vains pop out and the biceps is detailed and the shoulders are big. And my chest is solid.
I’m not trying to be rude. I just need better understanding with ALL that I said on my profile you got what you did out of it. See before this site I didn’t deal with social media. That’s why my name is rare breed because I am a rare breed. See I’m a 43yr old grown man that’s not a fan of using something that is usually 99% of the time another human BS on the other end. I figured how I set my profile up if I did get a response then I knew she was 99.9% on the same page with me. That’s why I brought up my body and the 9” . I’m not on here looking for a pen pal I’m on here looking for a female from my state who’s actually looking to meet a honest, respectful, good looking guy who’s just looking for adult fun at the moment and if me and a female vibe more then we can see where it takes us

Mortman's photo
Mon 11/11/24 09:59 PM
Hi Rare Breed. Thanks for the reply. It's gratifying to see that you took my critique the way you did. Many don't.

I'm also sorry that just guys responded, but that happens a lot, and it's why I comment, because it's a shame when nobody comments on a profile when solicited. For some reason, ladies often withhold their opinions on profiles, but when they do respond, I usually stay out of those threads.

Also, it's probably best to not mind "Mr Good Guy." He rarely takes any hint of homoeroticism kindly. He's commented to me "Get a room you two" after I posted that guys seemed like good-looking guys. I'm just trying to be objective & supportive. I guess he just has delicate sensibilities.

Lastly, make your profile how you want! You seem on top of what you're doing, so take what you want from our advice, and good luck!