Mr good guy,
Help me sir understand with everything I said in my profile all you got out of it or that caught your eye was me saying “nice body and 9+in “ and you said to the rest of the US. Correct me if I’m wrong but 9inchs is the same 9inchs in every state. And nice body meaning I workout, I have no body fat, I bench 295lbs and I weigh 170lbs. I do sit-ups and my job and a very physical I cut trees down and work with concrete. I have a flat stomach, muscular arms , you know when vains pop out and the biceps is detailed and the shoulders are big. And my chest is solid.
I’m not trying to be rude. I just need better understanding with ALL that I said on my profile you got what you did out of it. See before this site I didn’t deal with social media. That’s why my name is rare breed because I am a rare breed. See I’m a 43yr old grown man that’s not a fan of using something that is usually 99% of the time another human BS on the other end. I figured how I set my profile up if I did get a response then I knew she was 99.9% on the same page with me. That’s why I brought up my body and the 9” . I’m not on here looking for a pen pal I’m on here looking for a female from my state who’s actually looking to meet a honest, respectful, good looking guy who’s just looking for adult fun at the moment and if me and a female vibe more then we can see where it takes us

Can you elaborate more on that?
“Red flag”?
I’m actually an amazing guy, I see you stay in West Allis wi.. so do I … and a lot of people in west allis and Milwaukee from 70th national to 14th greenfield know that I stand on my word and I have no problem meeting females. I work a lot and make amazing money, I deal with trust issues and I don’t have patience for games or end up finding out instead of talking to a female it’s actually a guy or scam. See I already dealt with 4 so called female profiles on here and when I googled searched their pics they were from another account and fake. Like I said before I wasn’t expecting free back from males. Also I got 60 likes on my profile and I matched with 20 of them.
I’m told that am simple but complicated. I thought making it clear why I was on the site and who I was and what I was looking for was good enough. Again I appreciate the feed back

I truly appreciate the feed back. I didn’t expect to get it from guys but I respect what was said. As for the filter I see where you were coming from. As for the rest of the feed back I respect where you’re coming from.
I’m not making an excuse but I’d like to help understand why my profile is how it is.
1) like I’ve mentioned I’m freshly single. I was in a 5yrs relationship and we decided to go our own ways , I have nothing bad to say about my ex is was amazing, sexy and down to earth. So it’s been 6-7yrs since I tried to meet a female.

2)I’m not looking for a relationship to be honest at the moment, and I wanted that clear so that I don’t mislead someone.

3) I deal with trust issues and having to somewhat trust a pic on a profile really gets at me . Before I really did the account I looked what females had posted . And I see that I misread it.

4) I came at this site with the mindset in finding a FWB , and the more I step back and look and see what was said I over jumped it.

I’ll also admit that a few of the photos really shouldn’t have been posted. But I will say that not one is fake. It’s all me in every picture. I’ll have to fix a few if the rough edges on my profile. It’s hard for me to have my pic on a site that I’m not even sure there’s real women on here. I did get 60 likes on my profile and I’ve matched with 20 of them.

Guess I’m coming at these site the same way I would in person . Upfront , honest and no BS just straight to the point . I just didn’t want to have a bunch of nonsense in my profile taking about meeting the love of my life or stuff like that. I just wanted to make it Crystal clear what the female was walking into if they decided to reach out to me. I don’t mislead to get what I want.
In person I’m an extremely down-to-earth and intelligent male I was told that I take pictures. There are somewhat intimidating. lol I don’t try to. I’m extremely respectful and I mean what I say and say what I do. I work a lot and I’m not big on going to the bar to meet a female. But I will clean it up and come from a different angle while still getting what I’m looking for across.
Again thank you for the feed back

When you’re in tune with yourself and you are truly authentic, you have no problem meeting the real ones and I only say that because we are a mirror to others so if we come across a lot of people in our life that tend to be fake sometimes that leads to, and trying to hint that we are not real about ourselves I am very picky. I give energy because my energy is very valuable. I’m not saying that to be stuck up or conceited. I’m just being honest a lot of times we tend to waste our energy with people that don’t deserve it or we feel that maybe we can fix them let’s be honest we are not cars , we are humans so you cannot fix somebody . But you can support somebody or outgrow them.
If you’re going to set your standards high, you need to stand on them and not lower them for nobody because the second you lower your standards or what you are looking for you will never reach the goal you want. That’s why I am honest on here speaking on what I’m looking for. Because it would bother me to mislead somebody and have them believe that I’m looking for something I’m not just to get something I want instead I’d rather be honest and being honest and patience. Will then bless me with an individual that is on the same page. I am, but I’ll be honest. I’m extremely nervous And very protective because I’ve been with the same person for years and when we broke up, I still didn’t sleep around or go out looking for somebody because again I truly love them moment when I realized that there’s no longer us and I’m OK with that and so is she and I wish her the best in life but it’s time for me to move on That’s why I’m here looking for that mature adult female that’s on the same page. I am.

Just like I said in my bio on my profile, I’m not on here looking for a soulmate. I just got out of relationship but at the same time I am a grown man that does have needs not saying that sex is the only thing I’m looking for but at the same time, I’m not looking for a real relationship right now if things happen to click and I vibe with somebody, it may be a possibility, but I’m not betting on a website to find, my soulmate, if anything I can find a cool female with benefits . Through my lessons in life and past relationships and me learning about me through my journey, I’ve come to understand what sexual energy is all of us humans have sexual energy. There’s a lot of sexual energy. Let’s be honest guys 90% of us are quick to try to do it like a rabbit just to get our orgasm and that’s it. But then there’s guys like myself that see sexual encounter for something different and when I talk about sexual energy, there’s layers to it and the experience can go for an hour or multiple hours, not 5 to 15 minutes and then we both get dressed. I’ve tend to laugh at the alpha guys and I’ll be the first I’m not like that, I’m a sigma male.

I’m just now getting back into the dating scene, I got out of a 5yr relationship a year ago. This last year I was interested in running out to meet or hook up with someone. That’s for a few reasons one mostly because I loved the female I spent the last 5yrs with and for some reason it felt wrong speaking to another female. The other reason was I used this past year to better myself in a lot of ways.
Just speaking for myself and what I’ve learned in the relationship and being by myself for the past year is both individuals need to be authentic to themselves and both individuals need to respect each other for being authentic no both individuals will not always agree on hundred percent of everything or believe 100% of everything I’ve noticed and learned that trust is a huge thing in a relationship between two people and also loyalty. Seems like a lot of people are quick to look for the so-called attractive people and if you stop and think your building your foundation on only looks after a while then looks become boring and now what do you have?
For me, I’m looking for somebody that’s authentic. They don’t have to agree with 100% of everything I do or believe in and that’s vice versa.. Sometimes people just outgrow each other and that’s OK. What I’ve noticed in 2024 to the Internet and all these dating sites and apps and filters really people are approaching the situation not being 100% authentic because behind the screen you can be whatever you want but when it comes down to meeting that’s when the truth comes out and again I’m just speaking for myself. I’ve dealt with a lot of trust issues in my life and it’s hard for me to even be on these type of sites and take them seriously because like I’ve said people can be whatever they want behind the screen, but if you’re honest, it makes a lot of things simpler. It’s just my perspective and how I may see things but what you call a real person, male or female depends on different factors. I called myself a rare breed because from the second I meet somebody if it may be a potential partner or just a friend I am 100% honest from the jump and that’s only because through the lessons in life. I’ve learned that honesty is your number one tool and life because then you have nothing to worry about I’m a type of individual that respects peoples opinions but at the same time I don’t dictate my life over that opinion it’s just an opinion . Respectfully, I don’t apologize for me being me. I’ve had people in my life told me that sometimes I’m too real.

New to the dating scene, was in a 5yr relationship that ended a year ago. So I’m just curious on the females feed back.
I’m a grown man so be honest I can take it besides it’s just your perspective and everyone has a different one.
I also want to ask the ladies on their opinion, ladies if you came across a man that’s good looking, has a great job, can cook, he is clean and keeps his place clean, has goals and ambition and always sees through what he wants, is respectful, is extremely humble and intelligent, he depends on no one and never expects the female to pay for everything because he is able to financially take care of himself, is sweet and caring but also you know that he will go to war to keep you safe, he is good with his hands and can fix anything, is great in bed and everyday u see the self growth that he does because he wants to better himself.
Would you be interested in that man