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Topic: How was Your Last Date
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Sat 04/15/23 01:50 AM
My last was successful but ended up settling to be friends rather. she is too good a person to date ruin the chance of having an actual good Friendship. penny for your thought

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Sun 04/16/23 02:44 PM
My last date, going back a few years ago, was only ok. Nothing great and was not fun. You should have fun on a date.

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Mon 04/17/23 10:13 AM
she is too good a person to date ruin the chance of having an actual good Friendship

If 'dating' someone ruins your friendship...you're doing it wrong!

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Mon 04/17/23 10:42 AM
No idea what a date is anymore , but if I was on one , it could last forever ... yup !! I am always on my best behaviour and I expect the same from her ... at times !!!

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Mon 04/17/23 02:08 PM
Slim, you constantly talk about all the dates you go on.

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Mon 04/17/23 02:23 PM

Slim, you constantly talk about all the dates you go on.
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Seriously , is that what you think ??
I haven't been on a date in years ... and it's not for the lack of trying ... all the good ones are in far away places like Florida, Crystal Lake , New Zealand :flag_nz:, there's one in Idaho too ... besides Mikey , Poetry , , Bart etc are tough to compete against .... just saying !!!!!
Thanks for the assumption though!!!

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Mon 04/17/23 02:53 PM


Slim, you constantly talk about all the dates you go on.


Seriously , is that what you think ??
I haven't been on a date in years ... and it's not for the lack of trying ... all the good ones are in far away places like Florida, Crystal Lake , New Zealand :flag_nz:, there's one in Idaho too ... besides Mikey , Poetry , , Bart etc are tough to compete against .... just saying !!!!!
Thanks for the assumption though!!!

Same as Cat. You always talk about going on dates so I also figured you dated a lot.

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Mon 04/17/23 03:01 PM
I haven't dated in quite some time. I needed time to heal after my last relationship. Then just as I began to feel like dating again the pandemic hit and everything you normally go to on a date was closed.
After that I got busy with a lot of other things, some fun, some not so much but had to be dealt with.

I am however way more active on a dating site. Problem is finding someone that seems a good match. Someone interesting enough to even want to go on a date.
I don't date for the heck of it. I only go when I feel there could be something there, not to just have something to do or whatever.
And for some weird reason all the great ones always live up north or north-east which is too far away.

Currently trying to find another good dating site as the one I'm on was great but is ruined more and more by sex-seeking a-holes. That stuff always happens after a few years so you gotta find a new site every so often. Usually every 1-2 yrs.

Haven't found another good (free/affordable) one yet though. And I ain't paying without first knowing it's any good.

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Mon 04/17/23 03:25 PM
My last date was just before I moved from Washington to Tennessee so it was a goodbye date. Was actually very nice and very sweet. No hard feelings just a nice goodbye.

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Mon 04/17/23 03:26 PM



Slim, you constantly talk about all the dates you go on.


Seriously , is that what you think ??
I haven't been on a date in years ... and it's not for the lack of trying ... all the good ones are in far away places like Florida, Crystal Lake , New Zealand :flag_nz:, there's one in Idaho too ... besides Mikey , Poetry , , Bart etc are tough to compete against .... just saying !!!!!
Thanks for the assumption though!!!

Same as Cat. You always talk about going on dates so I also figured you dated a lot.


Dang !! Ladies !!! Just because I go on a date once in awhile and perhaps make a comment about it , in a topical thread or two , really does not mean anything .... and No ... I am not that date able... besides being an old guy who speaks sarcasm and with a poor dating record over the years...and looks ain't everything ... ask Mikey or PW !!!

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Mon 04/17/23 05:08 PM




Slim, you constantly talk about all the dates you go on.


Seriously , is that what you think ??
I haven't been on a date in years ... and it's not for the lack of trying ... all the good ones are in far away places like Florida, Crystal Lake , New Zealand :flag_nz:, there's one in Idaho too ... besides Mikey , Poetry , , Bart etc are tough to compete against .... just saying !!!!!
Thanks for the assumption though!!!

Same as Cat. You always talk about going on dates so I also figured you dated a lot.


Dang !! Ladies !!! Just because I go on a date once in awhile and perhaps make a comment about it , in a topical thread or two , really does not mean anything .... and No ... I am not that date able... besides being an old guy who speaks sarcasm and with a poor dating record over the years...and looks ain't everything ... ask Mikey or PW !!!


I know nothing! I see nothing! What's a date?

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Mon 04/17/23 10:00 PM
It was good. My man was here visiting me in Kazakhstan a couple weeks ago. The last date we did was to the Brazilian Restaurant. We enjoy that place!

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Tue 04/18/23 09:17 AM
It was lovely! An Argentinian restaurant called "ChΓ©" that had a live jazz band.
But, it was before lockdown and I have become incredibly antisocial since... :pensive:

Do online dates count or not? :expressionless::sunglasses:

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Tue 04/18/23 09:28 AM
not ....

but they should ... as it seems many are just doing that ..... now if I could get a chance , I will jump at it ..... saves time , money and heartfelt rejection!!

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Tue 04/18/23 09:35 AM
:smirk::thinking:

Well, that's depressing...! :pensive:

Who's rejecting you?

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Tue 04/18/23 09:38 AM

not ....

but they should ... as it seems many are just doing that ..... now if I could get a chance , I will jump at it ..... saves time , money and heartfelt rejection!!

Also the heartful wonder of being with a great person! No hugs, no kisses, no fleeting touches, no dining, cooking, sleeping together etc.
In essence it's not real although you can romanticise the idea to the extent of your own imagination of course :)

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Wed 04/19/23 04:16 AM
At this point I will take an online date, offline date, even blind dates. Slim you wanna start an online dating service? Sure to be a big hit!

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Wed 04/19/23 10:04 AM
Just wondering how that could be implemented on or in a thread , which can be started !!
Guessing the first thing will be asking , who would you like to have as a online dating partner .... several or at least three reasons to be given ... by both ... positive and negative..
eg: if PW wants Merry as an online fling ... he would give 3 reasons why and she would have to respond with 3 of her own , now if she does not want that ... she still has to give 3 reasons why not !!
Let's see if this could be tweaked to the satisfaction of all concerned!!
This may give me personally, a second chance of being rejected by Merry , Cat , Pumpi, Lola , etc etc
Over and out !!!

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Wed 04/19/23 10:40 AM

Just wondering how that could be implemented on or in a thread , which can be started !!
Guessing the first thing will be asking , who would you like to have as a online dating partner .... several or at least three reasons to be given ... by both ... positive and negative..
eg: if PW wants Merry as an online fling ... he would give 3 reasons why and she would have to respond with 3 of her own , now if she does not want that ... she still has to give 3 reasons why not !!
Let's see if this could be tweaked to the satisfaction of all concerned!!
This may give me personally, a second chance of being rejected by Merry , Cat , Pumpi, Lola , etc etc
Over and out !!!


You rejected? Say it ain't so! Yeah I would say the online dating would need a lot of tweaking to please the masses.

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Wed 04/19/23 12:14 PM
ha ha ... rejections left right and center... thats me ... thank goodness I have two not so secret admirers .... they are my life savers and I think we are having an online affair so to speak... minus the heartfelt touching , smelling , sleeping together as Crystal pointed out ... So its all goid .

yes , i also wonder if anyone else can tweak this suggestion thread ...
i'll wait!!

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