women also spend money on me..
but they don't make a noise like men

There's a point here? Right?

let's say the point is be happy..right?

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It depends on the pocket, whose pocket the money is getting cut....

yes true..no $ here bcoz we don't use $ in our everyday lives..we had peso it's really important we had it in our pocket not a $
and for me every little kindness it really counts..

yes..it's a matter of who comes out first

That's true... hey friends, i have an emergency appointments so you guys carry on i will leave, you all enjoy..

but do you spend money on men ???

I do..He's so lucky

u enjoy and take ur time

It's the sisterhood in action again. Sharing something, it's usually about guys or secrets.


Welcome to Mingle2 and good luck in your search.

Money follows Art , Money knows what it can buy .
But a real woman is not impressed by Money becoz she knows her Love is priceless . And remember while there's a talent for making Money , it also takes Real talent to know how to spend it .

thank so much for kind words❤

well said..thanks for sharing ur point of views..❤

Seems everyone but me gets what the OP is trying to say...
Is it that women -as in girlfriends I gather- buy her things and not fuss about that fact where men do? Or something else?

Thats very true that if u being with someone u feel love u will do things that makes they feel happy. it's not about for something else that in the end they play victims..

That is probably about expectations, which is often a combination of culture and personal interaction.

Western men (I don't know about Filipino much) are usually expected to pay for things on a date. Western women not welcoming a man's advances will not let him buy things for her .. certainly not beyond the current meal or whatever. This leads to men believing that a relationship is progressing if he is still being 'allowed' to be a walking wallet. So if you are letting men buy you things, then they will have some expectations. This is NOT to say they are buying you - it's not that crude - but you will be giving the signal that the relationship is deepening.

The solution is not to let a man buy you anything unless you are being clear about how you feel towards him and clear with him how you feel about a possible relationship with him.

So true.