It is all about your emotions.

Something I wish I could turn on & off like a light switch.

Feelings

Morris Albert, 1974

THEN YOU WOULD BE A MAN.....

That explains a lot.

Feelings:

1. a self-contained phenomenal experience. Feelings are subjective, evaluative, and independent of the sensations, thoughts, or images evoking them. They are inevitably evaluated as pleasant or unpleasant, but they can have more specific intrapsychic qualities, so that, for example, the affective tone of fear is experienced as different from that of anger. The core characteristic that differentiates feelings from cognitive, sensory, or perceptual intrapsychic experiences is the link of affect to appraisal. Feelings differ from emotions in being purely mental, whereas emotions are designed to engage with the world.

2. any experienced sensation, particularly a tactile or temperature sensation (e.g., pain, coldness).

- The APA Dictionary of Psychology

THERE ARE FOUR BASIC FEELINGS, MAD, SAD, GLAD, AND

SCARED..... EVERYONE HAS FAVORITE FEELINGS THEY

ARE PART OF WHO WE ARE......WOMAN HAVE PERMISSION

TO FEEL THERE FEELINGS..MEN ON THE OTHER HAND DO

NOT.....A WOMAN DOES NOT FEEL COMFORTABLE AROUND A

MAN WHO CAN NOT CONTROL HIS FEELINGS... WOMEN

AND THERE RELATIONSHIPS ARE FOREMOST IN THERE

LIVES FOR MEN ITS ACCOMPLISHMENTS.....WOMEN NEED

TO HEAR WHY WE LOVE THEM....MEN NEED TO FEEL

APPRECIATED....WE ARE SO DIFFERENT EMOTIONALLY AND

WE NEED TO RESPECT THOSE DIFFERENCES.....

Close, but I don't entirely agree with this.
I don't think anyone likes someone that cannot control their feelings. Not even among (female) friends.
Sure, everyone's entitled to the occasional outburst when something happened that justifies that. But someone who's always all over the place with feelings & emotions is usually not so appreciated by anyone.

Also, I need a man who is in touch with his feelings & emotions. I've been with what I call an 'Excel' file partner. Doesn't work at all! No show of feelings, no lovely hugging, kissing, touches etc. Horrible in capitals!
It all comes down to emotional maturity, for both genders, but more so for men as they were sort of reared with the impression they shouldn't cry, shouldn't have feelings etc.

I also don't need to just hear from a man why he loves me. I also need to feel it, and see it when he's with me and looks at me, touches me.
I always said: I as a woman need to be and feel cherished, then I will adore and respect you.

And sure, telling me the why is part of it. But I think that goes the other way round just the same, maybe in different ways.

It is possible to have too many feelings -and for your brain to get tired. My brain crashes when I have strong feelings at present -like it has to finish processing the other stuff.
Nothing wrong with just living while your brain catches up.

Something that shouldn't rule your life but probably does.

Some are based on intuition or life experience, when you have a bad or good feeling about something, it maybe called gut instinct, when you feel you know in advance just how something is going to turn out.

What is Feelings

Just likę when you are watching dreams with an open eyes of a sexy girl an smiling... an suddenly someone called wife comes an pinch you an asks, what are you thinking.... That's call feelings an then telling her the unaddressed feeling...

wrong topic. Very confusing as it's almost the same as the long running one

Feeling like I am being conned into believing that , having feelings , is critical for survival !!