Topic: looks or brains???
Jasmine's photo
Sat 11/13/21 06:42 AM
what makes you start a relationship ? and what makes you stay?

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Sat 11/13/21 07:02 AM
Personality....and matching my criteria (which no one ever has!)

Jasmine's photo
Sat 11/13/21 07:06 AM
Personality....and matching my criteria (which no one ever has!)

i get that . and you need to atleast have something in common

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Sat 11/13/21 07:31 AM
True.
Very difficult (or impossible) to find anyone for a serious relationship nowadays.

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Sat 11/13/21 07:39 AM
Nor look's nor brain
Relationship is not sums to be solved..
Just being youself with little sense of humour and smartness alongs feelings of understanding...

Thier are many, thing is we either are waiting, expecting or don't have the guts :thumbsup:

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Sat 11/13/21 08:05 AM
...or are just plain incompatible with modern life.

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Sat 11/13/21 08:10 AM
Modern lifestyle fine, but modern generation are fast an excitement, thinking is less attraction more instead of attention :slight_smile:

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Sat 11/13/21 08:16 AM
True - think I should just sign up as a monk then!

Jasmine's photo
Sat 11/13/21 08:19 AM
True - think I should just sign up as a monk then!

i hope you dont mind Dave . but i feel your expectations are a bit too high and unrealistic. this is base only on what o saw on your bio

Jasmine's photo
Sat 11/13/21 08:20 AM
i get that . and you need to atleast have something in common

well you need to start something. my question was what makes you start a relationship with a person . is it by just their looks or how they think and also daves reply personality.

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Sat 11/13/21 08:25 AM
I'm already in signed:grin::monkey_face::thumbsup:

Kevin's photo
Sat 11/13/21 09:06 AM
Welcome to M2

Jasmine's photo
Sat 11/13/21 09:15 AM
Welcome to M2

thanks

motowndowntown's photo
Sat 11/13/21 12:47 PM
I really don't want wake up next to, or have breakfast with, somebody who is "brain dead".

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 11/13/21 01:14 PM
Neither, it's their vibe & energy, their aura. And the way they carry themselves.
None of these have to do with looks nor brain but with personal development & empowerment.
I want someone with a light of joy and happiness in their eyes, that spark that shows he loves life and has things going for himself.

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Sat 11/13/21 02:58 PM
Attraction is multifactorial . I choose chemistry :wink:

Welcome to mingle jasmine waving

Muhammad Salman 's photo
Sat 11/13/21 03:21 PM
what makes you start a relationship ? and what makes you stay?

personality and how do i feel when I'm around them. and what makes me stay is the effort they put and the ability to communicate easily

Ava Adore's photo
Sat 11/13/21 08:04 PM
For me, intelligence, personality and mutual interests. Also, there needs to be a connection between us, a spark.

I'd say I'm a demisexual and sapiosexual when it comes to attraction.

Slim gym 's photo
Sat 11/13/21 08:19 PM
initial attraction is looks ... yep, I am a visual creature, then chemistry or a certain spark, then as time goes by it will all depend on character , personality etc etc !!

Sunny's photo
Sun 11/14/21 07:45 AM
Chemistry, it is. When one meets the right person, what words cannot describe brings them closer. It just happens !