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Topic: Differences
cleve's photo
Fri 04/09/21 03:04 PM


studies show that men need women to ''get to the point''

and women need ''details''

any suggestions...?????

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 04/09/21 06:12 PM
Yeah, I have a suggestion. Name the studies that you refer to and provide Internet links to them. That way we will know what you are talking about.

cleve's photo
Fri 04/09/21 06:40 PM

Yeah, I have a suggestion. Name the studies that you refer to and provide Internet links to them. That way we will know what you are talking about.


i would have to wake you up first....and then.....

Stu's photo
Fri 04/09/21 07:30 PM

Yeah, I have a suggestion. Name the studies that you refer to and provide Internet links to them. That way we will know what you are talking about.


I have to agree with this...

no photo
Fri 04/09/21 11:59 PM
I broke the ice and said "I fancy you".
Men seem to be unaware of someone crushing on them and have no clue that you fancy them.
It worked for me.
Yes, rejection can be imminent, but how would you know if you don't try? Rejection is cruel, but not trying is a life of regrets, not a path I am willing to tread.


no photo
Sat 04/10/21 12:01 AM



studies show that men need women to ''get to the point''

and women need ''details''

any suggestions...?????


Any suggestions? Grow up and communicate honestly.

cleve's photo
Sat 04/10/21 06:53 AM


that's a big problem on both sides of the fence....

no photo
Sat 04/10/21 08:11 AM



that's a big problem on both sides of the fence....


Meh.. I think it is about ego.
Just ask and if you are rejected, move on. Plenty of fish out there...

Slim gym 's photo
Sat 04/10/21 08:19 AM
some men fear rejection hence the hesitation... women know this . I like women who make the first move , sometimes ....off course , open and frank communication is a must !!!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 04/10/21 08:25 AM

some men fear rejection hence the hesitation... women know this . I like women who make the first move , sometimes ....off course , open and frank communication is a must !!!

Women also fear rejection. It's quite logical as in matters of love we feel more vulnerable because it's more important to us than anything else.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 04/10/21 08:26 AM


Yeah, I have a suggestion. Name the studies that you refer to and provide Internet links to them. That way we will know what you are talking about.


i would have to wake you up first....and then.....

laugh (I agree with you. Some aren't open to anything)

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 04/10/21 08:32 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Sat 04/10/21 08:32 AM
It's not so much a matter of communication, what should come before that is making an effort to understand the difference between how men and women are wired.
Communication will fall short without an understanding of that.
And what I see with many men on here is that they do not have that understanding, nor an interest in getting it.
All they do is ridicule woman, which shows their own lack of insight and possibly intelligence.
They expect us to be like them, not understanding that we are made to be different so we complement each other.
Thank goodness there are some guys who do get it.

Slim gym 's photo
Sat 04/10/21 08:32 AM
women are known to get a guy with a snap of their fingets... yet to see a guy replicate that move ...... vulnerable can be said for both sides .....

no photo
Sat 04/10/21 08:34 AM
studies show that men need women to ''get to the point''

and women need ''details''

any suggestions...?

Suggestions for what?
It's like you're asking "I read something. Any suggestions?"

Are you asking:
"Any suggestions on other studies that prove or refute this?"
"Any suggestions on what to read next? Maybe Clive Cussler?"
"Any suggestions on how to interpret this?"
"Any suggestions on how I personally can use this information in my life?"
"Any suggestions on how these are currently resolved in interpersonal relationships of any type, in general?"
"Any suggestions on how to change this?"
"Any suggestions on how much this is based on or influenced by culture, or how this influences or reinforces culture?"
"Any suggestions on the best blood type to use for an F ranked ritual summons to quaggoroth?"
"Any suggestions on why men/women are like this?"

Provide some details to get to the point of what you're asking?

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 04/10/21 08:34 AM

women are known to get a guy with a snap of their fingets... yet to see a guy replicate that move ...... vulnerable can be said for both sides .....

I don't know where you get that knowledge, it's total nonsense.
And I said "we" meaning both sides, you were the one to make believe it is only man.

Slim gym 's photo
Sat 04/10/21 08:38 AM


women are known to get a guy with a snap of their fingets... yet to see a guy replicate that move ...... vulnerable can be said for both sides .....







I don't know where you get that knowledge, it's total nonsense.
And I said "we" meaning both sides, you were the one to make believe it is only man.


i have no scientific knowledge or study to quote, sorry ... just plain experience ....

justaokguy's photo
Sat 04/10/21 10:09 AM
I have to agree with ciretom on this.

Rock's photo
Sat 04/10/21 10:31 AM
Thread needs popcorn.

Slim gym 's photo
Sat 04/10/21 10:32 AM
ah!!! thats what missing ... the ... popcorn!!
good thinking Rock !!

Duttoneer's photo
Sat 04/10/21 02:18 PM
I receive a fair few requests from ladies wanting my email or Whatsapp details.laugh

I just ignore them.

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