My wife refuses to have sex, kissing, touching, fondling, hugging for over 30 years.

Anyonne else in this rut?

I REALLY NEED LOVING AND SEX!

Who else has a sexless marriage?

Comments?

Now I have serious E.D.!!!

The ED is more likely due to your age. Your profile says you're 73 years old. A simple visit to the doctor for Viagra can help with that.

It's doubtful you'll find anyone who is interested in extramarital affairs here, least not in the forums. Perhaps try checking out sites that focus on casual hookups or ones looking for sugar daddies? Or you could find a prostitute. Though seeking marital counseling or getting a divorce would be the more mature and honorable thing to do, imo.

Anywho, welcome to Mingle2

What River says. E.D. tends to come with age, and these days happens when men are still a lot younger as well due to sitting too much. That causes the pelvic muscles to lose their strength.

Also women not wanting sex... either they never did or the way a man treats them makes them close down.
Plenty of men don't treat their woman with love and respect, and cherish what she offers him. They just want sex and forget to romance her, which is not just in bed but also OUTSIDE of the bedroom.
That's a very sure way to make a woman close down, which happens by itself.

Some other times, they just close down, no matter what you do... oh sorry, I tend to forget that it's always the man's fault!

Thank you for correcting me. Everything is always woman's fault, especially this. Men have perfect sex drives and erectile functions.

Could it be, that she found her
husband's profile on a dating site,
seeking an Intimate Encounter?


Just a guess...

Glad I could help, when you need a reminder just give me a shout... well no, forget it...

for over 30 years? there is patience and there is ignoring a serious issue...

Just, Just,

Lol, woman are the cause of men having ED, male baldness, their extra marital affairs, name it we are the cause. And as you can see by this man's post apparently she to blame for his wanting to cheat lol

Some men take longer to get with the times after women have been blamed for thousands of year.
We were even blamed -and severely punished- for not giving birth to boys while it is man that has to add the Y chromosome required.

Thank goodness some men are more empowered and don't feel threatened by women being truly equal. There's hope yet!

Are you sure you have not mistaken the wife for a fence post?

I never said it's always the woman's fault.
I'm just inviting you to consider that, occasionally, very occasionally, it could be the woman's fault. There is a big difference.
Is this acceptable?

In any case, what is so special about sex? why do we humans give so much impportance to it, and why don't we consider it an activity like sport for instance?
If your partner does not like to play tennis, why should he/she get angry if you play it with someone else?
I was also suggesting to play double but maybe it's a bit extreme...
Ok, it's not a suggestion, but why is it different? is it because of betrayal of trust? but if it was not establish that a relation must be exclusive, there wouldn't be any betrayal of trust, so why do we give it so much importance?
Any antropologist in here? :-)

Your wife was may have been getting it on the side before your last intimate moment with her. Her sex drive didn't just stop.

You're a few decades late on realizing there's an issue. You may as well just live with it at this point, what's another thirty years of where you're at? NOW you finally realize what's going on? What difference does it really make? Just go back to sleep.

Sorry to hear that. Human touch is so important to our well being. Hugs keep me a happy single person.
There is patience and then there is being a martyr, there had to have been reasons?

^^^ This.

I like pizza.