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I think it a decision for both of you to make.
if she wants you and you want her so what do you bother her age ? |
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Free Will is allowed
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I would like to marry china women
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Her adult children will probably view you as a scammer j/s
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if it is acceptable or not, people do it anyway, where are the rules to dating??
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Have always believed that age difference shouldn't be a barrier in a relationship. what matters most is the maturity and understanding of the person you're dealing with.
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Is it acceptable for a older guy over 50 to date a much younger women ( age limit 18 above )? Yikees!! |
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For me it’s okay though
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Age doesnt matter when it comes to love. We all in the same boat.
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Is it acceptable for a older guy over 50 to date a much younger women ( age limit 18 above )? So in other words; you're an over fifty horndog looking to get some young nookie????? |
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I have been at both ends of this question, when i was 17 years old i was living with a woman who had a daughter older than me, we all got on very well, till i decided i wanted children, we did not argue or fall out, we were still good friends till her death a few years ago. I also was living with and had twins with a 21 year old i was 48 years old at the time. and at no time did i feel out of place or intimidated by other peoples remarks. But it is up to the two people that are involved if it is right for you or not.
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hi there
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I live in New Zealand. My Codependent-narcissistic relationship broke up a mth ago. 3 yrs on and I found out he lost interest in me within a year and just played along saying he loved me, just for the money. sadly it was all a lie from him as I found out he was having unprotected sex with females..typical of bisexuals males at his age. Personally looking back now it wasn't healthy. Plenty of young ones over 18 who are looking for sugar Daddy's.
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OP..............do what you want you're going to anyway.
Moderators, it's taking every bit of self control I have to not say anything about pillow biters etc. Please remember this the next time you're thinking of putting me in Mingle jail................. |
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no big deal as long as they mutually respect each other
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My general rule of thumb is if they are closer to my son's age then mine then it's a no go.
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Edited by
I_love_bluegrass
on
Wed 09/16/20 10:53 AM
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Well Crystal my months in Europe were limited to the UK, France, Germany and the CR. I understand what you're saying and maybe my choice of the words "more accepted" was incorrect. All I'm saying is that I naturally met a lot of people and I met a much greater number of older men / younger women couples than I ever did in north America. Also try to consider that you have a woman's perspective and the old double standard still applies i.e. no I wouldn't say I met a larger amount of older woman / younger man couples there than here. One more factor thinking back most of the couples I'm speaking of would have been considered well-to-do or wealthy, more so than the average folks you'd meet on the street. So please excuse my previous wordage but I stand behind my (now) corrected statement, I know what I encountered. So, Ivegotthegirth..is there a double standard,,or is is just as "OK" for a woman of 50+ to date a boy young enough to be her on biological child? I think anyone who is really young and *wants* to date someone old enough to be their dad/ mom or grandfather/ grandmother has serious issues (daddy/ mommy issues)..but I also think people who want to date kids young enough to be their OWN biological kids/ grandkids have serious issues...it's just creepy to me.. I mean...it's *their* life...but, if people can rip on me for *my* preferences they don;t understand/ say I need to change...then i have an equal right to claim what *they* want is off-putting to me...eh? |
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It doesn't really matter as because the heart wants what it wants. Likewise, in Philippines we say, "Age does not matter to people loving each other. ".
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When I was 18, I was still in high school. Would I be dating a 51-year-old? No way!
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Well Crystal my months in Europe were limited to the UK, France, Germany and the CR. I understand what you're saying and maybe my choice of the words "more accepted" was incorrect. All I'm saying is that I naturally met a lot of people and I met a much greater number of older men / younger women couples than I ever did in north America. Also try to consider that you have a woman's perspective and the old double standard still applies i.e. no I wouldn't say I met a larger amount of older woman / younger man couples there than here. One more factor thinking back most of the couples I'm speaking of would have been considered well-to-do or wealthy, more so than the average folks you'd meet on the street. So please excuse my previous wordage but I stand behind my (now) corrected statement, I know what I encountered. So, Ivegotthegirth..is there a double standard,,or is is just as "OK" for a woman of 50+ to date a boy young enough to be her on biological child I think anyone who is really young and *wants* to date someone old enough to be their dad/ mom or grandfather/ grandmother has serious issues (daddy/ mommy issues)..but I also think people who want to date kids young enough to be their OWN biological kids/ grandkids have serious issues...it's just creepy to me.. I mean...it's *their* life...but, if people can rip on me for *my* preferences they don;t understand/ say I need to change...then i have an equal right to claim what *they* want is off-putting to me...eh? Yes I'd say there is a double standard, not mine but based on what I've seen,yes worldwide. As I recently stated here personally I'm not attracted to a lot younger than me and never have been. I agree with you on the "creepy" part. IMO if you're a woman in your late 50's / early 60's and you're doing a guy that's 35 it's fairly sleezy and if you're a guy that's 60 doing a 35 y/o woman same thing. Of course there's so many variables and we haven't even mentioned the performance aspect; when it comes down to just the physical sex act as a famous funny man once said if you're a man you have to perform if you're a woman you just have to be there................. |
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