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Well Crystal my months in Europe were limited to the UK, France, Germany and the CR. I understand what you're saying and maybe my choice of the words "more accepted" was incorrect. All I'm saying is that I naturally met a lot of people and I met a much greater number of older men / younger women couples than I ever did in north America. Also try to consider that you have a woman's perspective and the old double standard still applies i.e. no I wouldn't say I met a larger amount of older woman / younger man couples there than here. One more factor thinking back most of the couples I'm speaking of would have been considered well-to-do or wealthy, more so than the average folks you'd meet on the street. So please excuse my previous wordage but I stand behind my (now) corrected statement, I know what I encountered. So, Ivegotthegirth..is there a double standard,,or is is just as "OK" for a woman of 50+ to date a boy young enough to be her on biological child I think anyone who is really young and *wants* to date someone old enough to be their dad/ mom or grandfather/ grandmother has serious issues (daddy/ mommy issues)..but I also think people who want to date kids young enough to be their OWN biological kids/ grandkids have serious issues...it's just creepy to me.. I mean...it's *their* life...but, if people can rip on me for *my* preferences they don;t understand/ say I need to change...then i have an equal right to claim what *they* want is off-putting to me...eh? Yes I'd say there is a double standard, not mine but based on what I've seen,yes worldwide. As I recently stated here personally I'm not attracted to a lot younger than me and never have been. I agree with you on the "creepy" part. IMO if you're a woman in your late 50's / early 60's and you're doing a guy that's 35 it's fairly sleezy and if you're a guy that's 60 doing a 35 y/o woman same thing. Of course there's so many variables and we haven't even mentioned the performance aspect; when it comes down to just the physical sex act as a famous funny man once said if you're a man you have to perform if you're a woman you just have to be there................. 
Well, *I've* never just "been there" in my life.. If I don't want to have sex., or ain't feelin' in the mood..I don't do it.. The worst I've done is faked an orgasm (decades ago) to get it over with, as the guy was clueless, wasn't interested in changing, and so, **** it...I just want him to finish so i can go home.. |
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i agree with you
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Edited by
Devo1974
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Fri 09/18/20 10:46 PM
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Well Crystal my months in Europe were limited to the UK, France, Germany and the CR. I understand what you're saying and maybe my choice of the words "more accepted" was incorrect. All I'm saying is that I naturally met a lot of people and I met a much greater number of older men / younger women couples than I ever did in north America. Also try to consider that you have a woman's perspective and the old double standard still applies i.e. no I wouldn't say I met a larger amount of older woman / younger man couples there than here. One more factor thinking back most of the couples I'm speaking of would have been considered well-to-do or wealthy, more so than the average folks you'd meet on the street. So please excuse my previous wordage but I stand behind my (now) corrected statement, I know what I encountered. So, Ivegotthegirth..is there a double standard,,or is is just as "OK" for a woman of 50+ to date a boy young enough to be her on biological child I think anyone who is really young and *wants* to date someone old enough to be their dad/ mom or grandfather/ grandmother has serious issues (daddy/ mommy issues)..but I also think people who want to date kids young enough to be their OWN biological kids/ grandkids have serious issues...it's just creepy to me.. I mean...it's *their* life...but, if people can rip on me for *my* preferences they don;t understand/ say I need to change...then i have an equal right to claim what *they* want is off-putting to me...eh? Yes I'd say there is a double standard, not mine but based on what I've seen,yes worldwide. As I recently stated here personally I'm not attracted to a lot younger than me and never have been. I agree with you on the "creepy" part. IMO if you're a woman in your late 50's / early 60's and you're doing a guy that's 35 it's fairly sleezy and if you're a guy that's 60 doing a 35 y/o woman same thing. Of course there's so many variables and we haven't even mentioned the performance aspect; when it comes down to just the physical sex act as a famous funny man once said if you're a man you have to perform if you're a woman you just have to be there.................
It's all relative and a matter of opinion. If someone is 60 and dating a 35 yr old I find it sleazy on the 35 yr olds part. I look at them as golddiggers. If the person is in their 40's and dating someone in their 20's i look at it at sleazy on the person in their 40's like their taking advantage of someone young and naive. I'm probably wrong a lot in plenty of those situations but i do certainly assume some stereotypes as much as i wish I didn't. I know my parents got together when my mom was 26 with three kids and my dad was 18. My dad's family were beside themselves. 50 yrs later and they're still happy as can be. So who really knows what'll work and what won't. |
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Yes I love older men... and they're honestly better in bed too. I wish I had an older man right now!
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