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Topic: I have a really tought question i need help with
Katie1986's photo
Sat 12/22/07 10:03 PM
today a friend of mine asked me if in the state of new york if u have a child to a blood relative can ur child be taking away from u? and can u be put in jail? if anyone can help let me know.

itsmetina's photo
Sat 12/22/07 10:04 PM
dont think so

CaRisLOVE's photo
Sat 12/22/07 10:04 PM
incest movement??

azrae1l's photo
Sat 12/22/07 10:04 PM
like what incest? well i dunno about ny but here if the relationship continues then yeah they will.

MicheleNC's photo
Sat 12/22/07 10:05 PM
Okay, I'll ask the question...then google for answers. If no answer there, I know a lawyer in NY who might know.

How close a blood relative?
Father? Brother? First cousin? Second cousin?


CaRisLOVE's photo
Sat 12/22/07 10:05 PM
im confused
is this incest or wat?

CaRisLOVE's photo
Sat 12/22/07 10:06 PM

Okay, I'll ask the question...then google for answers. If no answer there, I know a lawyer in NY who might know.

How close a blood relative?
Father? Brother? First cousin? Second cousin?




ah yea dats all incest

no photo
Sat 12/22/07 10:06 PM
why is this happening to you?

Katie1986's photo
Sat 12/22/07 10:08 PM
well you see they are no longer together and he lives they live in different states. He is her half brother. They have the same father but different mothers and she is to embarressed to ask anyone but she is scared of losing the child.

no photo
Sat 12/22/07 10:08 PM
woa .....did they move up north?

no photo
Sat 12/22/07 10:10 PM
actually if the child is not going to have any health problems or deformities than i don't think there is too much to worry about, no one can really do anything if she doesn't tell them the child is a product of incest

azrae1l's photo
Sat 12/22/07 10:12 PM
i don't think they'll take the child away under those circumstances but she's probably looking at a very long time of social services visits and councling if the state finds out. not to mention other things. depending on her age and her age there could be molestation charges, child endangerment, probably a whole list of things. best bet would be to keep the guy out of it completely and just pretend she don't know who the father is. i know thats crappy to do to a guy especially if he wants to be involved but it might be best for everybody that way.

Katie1986's photo
Sat 12/22/07 10:12 PM
well she lives in new york and is getting help from social services so they already know and thats what she is worryed about

CaRisLOVE's photo
Sat 12/22/07 10:12 PM
so incest is legal now??
O_o


no photo
Sat 12/22/07 10:13 PM
did she tell anyone? because thats just asking for problems

azrae1l's photo
Sat 12/22/07 10:15 PM
nope incest is not legal. closest relative that is legal in any state is first cousin, and thats only in 1 or 2 states (southern no less) thats where the child endangerment and those kind of charges are going to come into play.

no photo
Sat 12/22/07 10:16 PM
no to be judgmental but how can you sleep with your brothernoway

azrae1l's photo
Sat 12/22/07 10:16 PM
social sevices probably wont take it away, but they'll push for counsiling and regular visits and such.

azrae1l's photo
Sat 12/22/07 10:17 PM

no to be judgmental but how can you sleep with your brothernoway


who knows, one of my ex's, her sister made out with guy, little more then make out (she blew him) and found out it was her cousin a week later at a family reunion. the sad part was he knew she was his cousin while she was doing it.

Katie1986's photo
Sat 12/22/07 10:18 PM
well she never knew him and she was in a vonable state of mind and he came on to her and thing happened

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