A great article which I feel describes what most people are looking for.
A few bits of it below. You gotta read the whole thing though, it's great, both for men & women.

You need someone to match the fire in your eyes with his own. Not only that, my little wild thing, but this warrior of yours is going to want to encourage the flames instead of trying to douse them with his own insecurities.

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This is the thing, free spirit, this warrior you seek….he’s seeking you too.

For he’s had failed relationships that have left him wondering if maybe he was meant to be alone for the rest of his journey—and you’re going to change all of that for him. You both have been travelling along on your separate journeys and have been doing an okay job at it, but that about to change too.

Full article: http://www.elephantjournal.com/2015/08/you-dont-need-a-man-you-need-a-goddamn-warrior/?fbclid=IwAR3yuhuGtuq8GQhlV3lpnbBPwc4H5NPBorbqqa-1C29jDchHdlmXyaUkMmY

Nice article Crystal... gives me a tad bit more hope as I have pretty much concluded that I'm destined to walk the rest of this journey alone. Perhaps not!

So do we have a timeline for this event? I'm getting closer to my expiration date

thanks for the read crystal

Never stop believing :)

No timeline, sorry. But you have control for sure: be(come) a match for such a man, correction, warrior
You can't attract what you're not a match to. (quite chitty ain't it, haha)

wait be(come)???
I thought the message was be yourself?

Haha, yeppers. But that doesn't mean you will attract a warrior.
A needy, co-dependent, clingy drama queen is also herself.
Same goes for the man of course :)

It is funny that they used Jason Momoa's photo to represent the warrior. He looks like one, but I have wondered about it. Could be cos I don't like Lisa Bonnet. She always comes across as a biotch to me, hihi.

If we can substitute the word 'warrior',
with the word 'a-hole', I just might have
a chance to find a goddess.

YOu could, if you're willing to substitute the "goddess" with a 'biotch' and be happy with that :)

Been there, done that, she stole the t-shirt.

Always difficult to fully bounce back from. I'm also still having difficulty with it, even though I know and see how I gave the T-shirt away myself and/or allowed him to take it.
Basically it's my own not wanting to see that's still bothering me. Fear of doing that again, in other words not trusting myself.

Meah. I'd rather go it alone. Way less grief and aggravation. Also known as- "If it ain't broke, don't fix it."

Refine your current situation. Build a better you by enjoying what is, what is easily worked on. Satisfaction comes from within. Others might think less of you, but if you like it- the hell with them.

think crystal just called me a needy co-dependent clingy drama queen

I get it, be yourself, if you're not attracting what you want then you should look at yourself and what you are projecting

I would never call you that!



And yes, you got it!

I had a recent unpleasant exchange with a guy on another site whose whole aim, apparently, was to tear me down, because he (being the Ascended Master I presume) spoke for all men and that my market value wasn't s**t, and when I reminded him I had had TWO long terms with great guys, and am now a widow..he said they were (and I quote) bottom feeders, because no one else would have you"..

Oh really?
Well, if my late husband and the guy before him were what YOU consider "bottom feeders, then send them *all* my way.
(my late husband and the guy before him both had Master degrees, had a wide range of interests, and did volunteer work..etc.)

And, if my alternative is dudes like YOU, then no thanks...I'd rather be alone..
I don't need someone to tear me down/ make me feel bad about myself.
I sure as h**l wouldn't do that to someone..no one deserves that.

making me laugh rock ... but it did make me question why the author chose the words warrior and goddess ... I get it is a motivational article but my question is ...

Everyone has the capacity to believe they are a warrior or goddess ., it is often referred to as delusions of grandeur , if that is all it takes to be an elevated celestial being then it should be relatively easy to find each other . .. .....it all sounds very familiar like the fairy stories i was told as a little girl .

To all the men ...you can be a warrior
And To all the women a goddess ...
Xena said ....You can even switch roles if you want too

It is a nice article crystal ., but I am a realist . I don't want to be loved as a goddess I want to be loved as me .. a warrior princess ..

Oh .. and for those seeking a warrior .. It might be helpful if the mingle men change into warrior costumes now please

And please brandish your swords

this club will have to do