Sorry crystal for taking your thread off track

back on topic in was a good read crystal

You are one of the wisest, most intelligent people,
that I have ever encountered online. And, I do agree
entirely, with the premise and presentation of your
topic.

And, yes, we do need to bounce back from past hurts,
and learn to trust ourselves again.

You know me, at least somewhat in the forums.
I gotta have a wee bit of fun, with titles and formalities.

...for delusional narcissistic women or naive teen girls that enjoy emotionally masturbating to clickbait "articles."

The entire thing reads like a woman writing to herself to stroke her own ego.

It can be picked apart easily.

Look at the title:
"You Don’t Need A Man, You Need a Goddamn Warrior."
But I thought women didn't "need" men anymore?


What does this mean?
Did I miss it in the Olympics when they're doing all that power lifting the camera would cut away to a cup of Turkish coffee (at sunrise) and all the judges would hold up a "10.0" sign?

Or a Lifetime movie of the week about the woman that was born in a brothel and grew up as a slave and fought her way to become supreme court justice running for president after curing cancer and solving all world emotional support crises and it turned out her biggest inspiration or well for strength was Turkish coffee at sunrise? Maybe after she realized she was brought down by the evil midafternoon Turkish coffee?


So women are incapable of changing anything about themselves.


So incapable of change, and shouldn't even try.
Also, just accept that you're irrational, irresponsible, unreasonable, and inconsistent.
How else do you define "chaotic?"
And find that "beautiful."

And that's just the first paragraph.

Otherwise, it's basically "It's not your fault. You need confidence in yourself and accept yourself no matter what you do. All your failed relationships? It's them, they weren't the 'right' one. But keep doing the same thing over and over and over and over again and accept it's just you being you. And someday the 'right' one will come along. Also, don't learn to appreciate what you have, feel the tug of the wind and sun and look for the BBD. We'll just use a lot of swear words and crappy metaphors and imagery to lend it gravitas or authority as though blowing smoke up your azz is some kind of hard truth."

TLDR: Specious article for narcissistic ego stroking.

Wait........ciretom


Could you please point out the negative!

does this mean you are not going to dress as a warrior for me tom

I agree this type of relationship is something a lot of people desire. But, the reality is we generally only find it in romance novels, or if you’re Lisa Bonet, married to both Jason Mamoa and Lenny Kravitz, obviously at different times. Lucky girl. This is nothing new, generations have been waiting for their knight in shining armor, or the queen to their king, now it’s goddess and warrior, the pop to my fizz. We can only wait for so long until the next pop phrase comes along...

Hiii

You're making me smile, which is what I needed in this early morning hour. Thank you.

And there's one of these odd paradigms... saying 'lucky girl'. Why not "lucky man"? Funny we never say that, isn't it?
If people would make that mindset shift more often things would likely change.