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"They think too much" What the hell does THAT mean? Wpould you ever ssay about a guy "he thinks too much"? If not, then what makes you think that is an appropriate comment towards a woman? See also: There are sites for guys like this...they sell life size, very realistic "real dolls"... Maybe he should check one of those sites out and order one... 
He's not saying it to 'a woman'. He is wondering about women, and why. And you know, he is right. Women are supposed to be in their heartspace, not their head. But because of how society is construed and where we are now, most have to be in their head in order to survive, make a living and fend for themselves. Bummer is that it also tends to wear a woman out as it is not natural, but most don't even know until you teach them how to shift and they feel the difference. It's like coming home to yourself. And yes, for a man it's different. They are left-hemisphere based, logical and so on. We are supposed to be right-hemisphere based. Life forces us to also be left hemisphere. Of course in a relationship that doesn't work. You then got two 'heads' coming together while you need a heart to heart connection. For men it's more difficult to get there as their natural state is to be more in the head. Some have become balanced enough to have their inner feminine back it up. Others need a woman to help them out with it. If you know how to do this... works a treat. It connects, shifts the energy between man and woman. That gets difficult when woman stays in her head too much, and most do. The peculiar thing is that often when man and woman meet the man listen to his instinct and will sense when something is off. He may not know what, but he'll feel it and then he's off. Woman on the other hand tends to get into her head and start thinking. "Does he live close enough so if we get involved..." "Is he really serious?" "What would my parents/friends think of him?" and so on. "Women are supposed to be in their heartspace, not their head."
I literally snortlaughed at this. Not to be disrespectful to you, but... Then you say: "But because of how society is construed and where we are now, most have to be in their head in order to survive, make a living and fend for themselves." So, you are essentially saying women's role is merely to be housekeeper and baby breeder? I have been tested when I worked at Vanderbilt University (all manner of research was available to us)..I am decidely left-brained. (like 68%) I have always been practical, logical, no bulls**t, all that since I was a kid... Never played with "baby" dolls (did have Barbies, but..they were cowgirls that rode the model horses I had). So, I'm pretty sure I was left-brained from birth...not after "society is construed and where we are now"... "teach them how to shift and they feel the difference. It's like coming home to yourself." How about we teach MEN to be more understanding and loving and compassionate..why is it always the woman who has to do the changimng...why is it always *she* who is at fault? "It's like coming home to yourself."
Now, the quickest way to make me feel tense and on edge and uncomfortable is for some guy to be all bossy and claim HE needs to be in charge. It's a *partnership*.. You don't hitch a wagon with one horse in *front* of the other.... You hitch them side by side...so they are a team, and pulling ~equally~ together in the same direction. I don't need a leader or a boss, or a daddy...I am a grown adult. I need a equal partner. Hmm... not even going to bother with this. If you are still at such a level of not knowing or understanding, and judgement, assumption and telling what I said even though I didn't... there's is no point. To each their own after all. Oh, I am quite evolved, well read, educated ("see...too much thinking...ruins the woman.."
My late husband, as well as the guy before him *were* equal partners...neither one had an dominance issue/ needed to assert some imaginary right to be in charge/ control things (you could talk to *this* one to verify what i say..he lives in NC) But, yeah....like tou say...to each their own.. *I* do not understand the women who are into the whole D/s thing..or have some deep-seated need to abdicate control over their life to someone...but..it's *their* life...not mine, and if that is what makes them happy/ fulfills them, I'm happy for them...no point in arguing about it.¯\_(ツ)_/¯ And I CERTAINLY wouldn't make a cheap shot about it, like you did you me (insulting my intellect and self-awareness) But I know what makes me happy and fulfills *me*, and I am not going to apologize for it. |
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"They think too much" What the hell does THAT mean? Wpould you ever ssay about a guy "he thinks too much"? If not, then what makes you think that is an appropriate comment towards a woman? See also: There are sites for guys like this...they sell life size, very realistic "real dolls"... Maybe he should check one of those sites out and order one...
He's not saying it to 'a woman'. He is wondering about women, and why. And you know, he is right. Women are supposed to be in their heartspace, not their head. But because of how society is construed and where we are now, most have to be in their head in order to survive, make a living and fend for themselves. Bummer is that it also tends to wear a woman out as it is not natural, but most don't even know until you teach them how to shift and they feel the difference. It's like coming home to yourself. And yes, for a man it's different. They are left-hemisphere based, logical and so on. We are supposed to be right-hemisphere based. Life forces us to also be left hemisphere. Of course in a relationship that doesn't work. You then got two 'heads' coming together while you need a heart to heart connection. For men it's more difficult to get there as their natural state is to be more in the head. Some have become balanced enough to have their inner feminine back it up. Others need a woman to help them out with it. If you know how to do this... works a treat. It connects, shifts the energy between man and woman. That gets difficult when woman stays in her head too much, and most do. The peculiar thing is that often when man and woman meet the man listen to his instinct and will sense when something is off. He may not know what, but he'll feel it and then he's off. Woman on the other hand tends to get into her head and start thinking. "Does he live close enough so if we get involved..." "Is he really serious?" "What would my parents/friends think of him?" and so on. This is all too much psychoanalysis and caveman for me. If more singles enjoyed their life and didn’t think they had to have someone to be happy and content they wouldn’t appear desperate and end up often settling for someone not right for them. We’re way beyond the days of generalizations, we have different plumbing, everything else is as unique as each of us are. Caveman? Hahahaha... sorry but this is all NEW, contemporary and 100% based on how the genders work, especially in this day and age. It is anything but obsolete. I find it quite caveman to NOT know about this, lol. I seriously cannot believe how many people know about this. Would make their lives a lot easier, especially in their love life. Sorry but I don’t give a crap about that stuff. You live life not spend your time seeing what “experts” say. I am my own expert no one knows me better than me. I find generalizations and putting things in pretty little compartments end up making people more afraid to approach others. I enjoy my outlook on life, it’s positive and kind and it works for me. |
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why ladies decided to live for themselves when they come to meetups, bars and other socials? They think too much, they feel too little. They are creating loneliness and "friend zone" which I despise it. 
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why ladies decided to live for themselves when they come to meetups, bars and other socials? They think too much, they feel too little. They are creating loneliness and "friend zone" which I despise it. ok |
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You will always meet women and some men that ignore you or think they are too good to be bothered with acknowledging your existence. This seems to have gotten much worse over time and may be just part of the current culture. It is who they are and you don't want to know them anyway. Just ignore them and treat them in the same manner. It is not worth our effort or stress to try and deal with them. There will always be a smaller subset of females who are open to acknowledging our existence and being friendly.
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You will always meet women and some men that ignore you or think they are too good to be bothered with acknowledging your existence. This seems to have gotten much worse over time and may be just part of the current culture. It is who they are and you don't want to know them anyway. Just ignore them and treat them in the same manner. It is not worth our effort or stress to try and deal with them. There will always be a smaller subset of females who are open to acknowledging our existence and being friendly. Watch out oldkid46...someone will say that THAT is all your fault...
I am continually amazed by people I am friendly, polite, engaging, and jovial with who act an a**. Oh well.....at least they deleted *themselves* from consideration. 
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What he really means is he wants to meet a woman who'll just stand there with a stupid smile on her face while he talks about how wonderful he is
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What he really means is he wants to meet a woman who'll just stand there with a stupid smile on her face while he talks about how wonderful he is |
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why ladies decided to live for themselves when they come to meetups, bars and other socials? They think too much, they feel too little. They are creating loneliness and "friend zone" which I despise it. They put AI in blow up dolls now? That complicates things for some people. |
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You will always meet women and some men that ignore you or think they are too good to be bothered with acknowledging your existence. This seems to have gotten much worse over time and may be just part of the current culture. It is who they are and you don't want to know them anyway. Just ignore them and treat them in the same manner. It is not worth our effort or stress to try and deal with them. There will always be a smaller subset of females who are open to acknowledging our existence and being friendly. Watch out oldkid46...someone will say that THAT is all your fault...
I am continually amazed by people I am friendly, polite, engaging, and jovial with who act an a**. Oh well.....at least they deleted *themselves* from consideration.
"I am continually amazed by people I am friendly, polite, engaging, and jovial with who act an a**." Don't be so amazed, they are everywhere! |
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why ladies decided to live for themselves when they come to meetups, bars and other socials? They think too much, they feel too little. They are creating loneliness and "friend zone" which I despise it. They put AI in blow up dolls now? That complicates things for some people. |
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I don't understand this. Explain. beautiful |
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I see you like to deflect a lot. ( there i go thinking too much again with my little feelings ) Lol good one
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why ladies decided to live for themselves when they come to meetups, bars and other socials? They think too much, they feel too little. They are creating loneliness and "friend zone" which I despise it. if i had money, that would not be a problem. you can Always find ambitious and proactive women for a market friendly price. they are only "cowards for free when no Gold is involved." |
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"They think too much" What the hell does THAT mean? Wpould you ever ssay about a guy "he thinks too much"? If not, then what makes you think that is an appropriate comment towards a woman? See also: There are sites for guys like this...they sell life size, very realistic "real dolls"... Maybe he should check one of those sites out and order one...
He's not saying it to 'a woman'. He is wondering about women, and why. And you know, he is right. Women are supposed to be in their heartspace, not their head. But because of how society is construed and where we are now, most have to be in their head in order to survive, make a living and fend for themselves. Bummer is that it also tends to wear a woman out as it is not natural, but most don't even know until you teach them how to shift and they feel the difference. It's like coming home to yourself. And yes, for a man it's different. They are left-hemisphere based, logical and so on. We are supposed to be right-hemisphere based. Life forces us to also be left hemisphere. Of course in a relationship that doesn't work. You then got two 'heads' coming together while you need a heart to heart connection. For men it's more difficult to get there as their natural state is to be more in the head. Some have become balanced enough to have their inner feminine back it up. Others need a woman to help them out with it. If you know how to do this... works a treat. It connects, shifts the energy between man and woman. That gets difficult when woman stays in her head too much, and most do. The peculiar thing is that often when man and woman meet the man listen to his instinct and will sense when something is off. He may not know what, but he'll feel it and then he's off. Woman on the other hand tends to get into her head and start thinking. "Does he live close enough so if we get involved..." "Is he really serious?" "What would my parents/friends think of him?" and so on. I've read this somewhere, oh snap Book of Rules |
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Hi
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Meeting someone online that doesn't meet you in person.
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why ladies decided to live for themselves when they come to meetups, bars and other socials? They think too much, they feel too little. They are creating loneliness and "friend zone" which I despise it. how serious can we take women who can "get used by all of the other ones but not make appointments for full body massage?" they already know how to Talk and how to make appointments. it is like guys saying; sorry chics, i have to "get serious with all of the other ones first." |
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Hi
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Hummm
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