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A woman is a mystery a man just can't understand Sometimes all it takes to please her is a touch of your hand And other times you've gotta take it slow and hold her all night long Heaven knows there's so many ways a man can go wrong Try listening to a song for the answer to your question. 
The only way for a man to go wrong is to make no effort at all 
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A woman is a mystery a man just can't understand Sometimes all it takes to please her is a touch of your hand And other times you've gotta take it slow and hold her all night long Heaven knows there's so many ways a man can go wrong Try listening to a song for the answer to your question.
The only way for a man to go wrong is to make no effort at all
Au contraire mon ami......sometimes all the effort a person can muster isn't enough to sustain a relationship. 
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A woman is a mystery a man just can't understand Sometimes all it takes to please her is a touch of your hand And other times you've gotta take it slow and hold her all night long Heaven knows there's so many ways a man can go wrong Try listening to a song for the answer to your question.
The only way for a man to go wrong is to make no effort at all
Au contraire mon ami......sometimes all the effort a person can muster isn't enough to sustain a relationship.
 Are you always so skeptical?
I prefer to believe that when we meet the right one for us, we will both enough for each other exactly as we are. Not being sustainable is more about not being with the right person, not how much or how little you do. |
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Edited by
SparklingCrystal 💖💎
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Wed 06/05/19 03:25 PM
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A generous guy with lots of money,holidays,hair do's, diamonds, a mini clubman, unlimited expense account You left out lots of shoes and purses. Hmmm... Maybe you guys need to read the thread "What do women really want" again... Crystal just posted the link before this post. Not many women in that thread mentions anything materialistic... it's more about quality time, being listened to, and being treated in a loving respectful way. Those are the things that will satisfy women fully, least for me it is... has nothing to do with material things. Diamonds, shoes, money, and all that other stuff isn't what will keep me warm at night. And being inanimate objects, they definitely can't satisfy me in that oh so wonderful kind of way, so keep the diamonds boys, I prefer a loving attentive man!
Exactly. And especially shoes and handbags. I couldn't care less. If a guy would give them to me I'd show him the door with "Exit" on it, and in bold underneath "This is the door that will never open again!!" 
D'oh! So that is what I am doing wrong. I need to change the bait in my woman trap. 
Yes, and make it bigger so you fit in it
Strawberries and champagne or sparkling cider might work better than shoes 
Much better idea, yes! The trap is hilarious though, haha. . . . |
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Edited by
SparklingCrystal 💖💎
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Wed 06/05/19 03:58 PM
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A woman is a mystery a man just can't understand Sometimes all it takes to please her is a touch of your hand And other times you've gotta take it slow and hold her all night long Heaven knows there's so many ways a man can go wrong Try listening to a song for the answer to your question.
The only way for a man to go wrong is to make no effort at all
Au contraire mon ami......sometimes all the effort a person can muster isn't enough to sustain a relationship.
Maybe it'd help you to let go of thoughts and beliefs that are based on old experiences. Women have the exact same problem with men, and most women at a certain age -let's say above 40- have had at least one relationship that went wrong. For every guy who's whinging about women there's a woman who's equally hurt by that man. The thing that matters is to get over it, heal, accept & let go AND learn from the relationship. Treasure the good you had, learn from the rest so you can have a better/good relationship in the future. That's what I see most women do, it's always men who keep whinging about how bad women are, how bad their ex is, blablabla. I don't mean this as a rant, it's just that by doing that you keep yourself stuck. I can also go on and on and on about my abusive ex, but what good will that do me? He's moved on, had 2 relationships after me, and then I'd still be sulking over it?? See my point? Women aren't difficult to understand, no more than men are difficult to understand for women. You think you are easy, so do we about us. That's just because you know how men are wired like women know how women are wired. All it takes it a bit of effort to understand the differences. They're not obstacles you know, they make us perfect complements for one another. All you have to do is shift out of your limiting beliefs and begin to understand that. Take some time to learn. |
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Edited by
darkowl1
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Wed 06/05/19 05:28 PM
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A strong, always fair person, that doesn't lie, cheat, cross the line at anytime for any reason or justification, especially for leverage, or expanded ego, that loves equally, and always enhances a relationship or friendship. A person that is innovative, creative, spontaneous at the right times, and reads body language, with empathy and respect..... and likes to have a great deal of fun when time permits...
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Edited by
Smartazzjohn
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Wed 06/05/19 07:00 PM
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WOW..... it seems I ruffled a few feathers.
The operative word in my last post was "sometimes".....and I stand by my original post, "sometimes all the effort a person can muster isn't enough to sustain a relationship".....and that applies for both men and women. I've known women who put a lot of effort into a relationship who get treated like crap and taken advantage of by a man. Ms River you're assuming I'm skeptical, however I am actually cautiously optimistic.....which takes into account the "old experiences" that Ms Crystal mentioned. As I've said before....I've learned from past, live for today and plan for the future. I don't LIVE in the past, but to forget or disregard the past, AKA "old experiences", is recipe to repeat bad experiences and to possibly miss future good experiences. Many people say they "keeping making the same mistake". A mistake is doing something, or making a decision, NOT KNOWING it's wrong or bad. Doing that same thing multiple times is not making mistakes, it's making bad decisions. I'm far from perfect, I've made MANY mistakes, I've done some of those thing again. But when I make a bad decision more than once I usually ask myself "Why the heck did you do that again dunbazz?".....with a few extra cuss words thrown in for effect!! OK I'm done being serious.
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D'oh! So that is what I am doing wrong. I need to change the bait in my woman trap.
Yes, and make it bigger so you fit in it
Strawberries and champagne or sparkling cider might work better than shoes
Alright, I have re-baited my trap and made it bigger. 
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What does it matter?
You either DO or DON'T satisfy her. If you don't, find one that you do. If you do, there is no question. |
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WOW..... it seems I ruffled a few feathers.
The operative word in my last post was "sometimes".....and I stand by my original post, "sometimes all the effort a person can muster isn't enough to sustain a relationship".....and that applies for both men and women. I've known women who put a lot of effort into a relationship who get treated like crap and taken advantage of by a man. Ms River you're assuming I'm skeptical, however I am actually cautiously optimistic.....which takes into account the "old experiences" that Ms Crystal mentioned. As I've said before....I've learned from past, live for today and plan for the future. I don't LIVE in the past, but to forget or disregard the past, AKA "old experiences", is recipe to repeat bad experiences and to possibly miss future good experiences. Many people say they "keeping making the same mistake". A mistake is doing something, or making a decision, NOT KNOWING it's wrong or bad. Doing that same thing multiple times is not making mistakes, it's making bad decisions. I'm far from perfect, I've made MANY mistakes, I've done some of those thing again. But when I make a bad decision more than once I usually ask myself "Why the heck did you do that again dunbazz?".....with a few extra cuss words thrown in for effect!! OK I'm done being serious.
I stand corrected! Perhaps arrogant or pompous would have been a better word? And yes, you do ruffle my feathers... it's quite annoying! 
Your logic and reason makes sense and is a valid point... although it could stand in the way of finding that special one, if that's your desire. Sometimes it needs to take a backseat... not to be ignored, just not be what's foremost in your mind. |
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The only thing I can add is that for a relationship to work both people have to want it to my boyfriend and I have been together for a while he still has a few iritating habits but his good far and away outweigh the bad and yes I very rarely turn down his romantic advances and no it's not a need to procreate as I have never seen a pregnant gay male
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What a girl want for fully satisfaction? An iTunes card.
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A woman is a mystery a man just can't understand Sometimes all it takes to please her is a touch of your hand And other times you've gotta take it slow and hold her all night long Heaven knows there's so many ways a man can go wrong Try listening to a song for the answer to your question.
The only way for a man to go wrong is to make no effort at all
Au contraire mon ami......sometimes all the effort a person can muster isn't enough to sustain a relationship.
Maybe it'd help you to let go of thoughts and beliefs that are based on old experiences. Women have the exact same problem with men, and most women at a certain age -let's say above 40- have had at least one relationship that went wrong. For every guy who's whinging about women there's a woman who's equally hurt by that man. The thing that matters is to get over it, heal, accept & let go AND learn from the relationship. Treasure the good you had, learn from the rest so you can have a better/good relationship in the future. That's what I see most women do, it's always men who keep whinging about how bad women are, how bad their ex is, blablabla. I don't mean this as a rant, it's just that by doing that you keep yourself stuck. I can also go on and on and on about my abusive ex, but what good will that do me? He's moved on, had 2 relationships after me, and then I'd still be sulking over it?? See my point? Women aren't difficult to understand, no more than men are difficult to understand for women. You think you are easy, so do we about us. That's just because you know how men are wired like women know how women are wired. All it takes it a bit of effort to understand the differences. They're not obstacles you know, they make us perfect complements for one another. All you have to do is shift out of your limiting beliefs and begin to understand that. Take some time to learn. YES YES YES! Men hang on and on to old hurt. I finally told my bf to get over it and move on. As if I want to hear about his exes......unfortunately I had to meet 2 of them. I handled it like a rock star. |
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But I...can't...get...no...sa-tis-fac-tion. Neither could Mick. Speaking of immortals... |
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Edited by
Duttoneer
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Thu 07/09/20 11:06 PM
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Mick sends his love. 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IjRk4y9a240 Stones in the Park. (Hyde Park, London 1969). Was it really 50 years ago? |
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Edited by
jugari007
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Sun 07/12/20 11:46 AM
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First few responses were correct, in real life ask yourself, would you date or fall in love with a homeless guy, who hasn't bathed in months and stinks? Or would you prefer guy with large house already paid who is successfull, confident, and owns a Ferrari?
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love with deep emotions
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What a girl want for fully satisfaction? Bacon |
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An unlimited bank account, and a man that can read her mind. (without her knowing that) "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus" - John Gray
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Yes I can Satisfy
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