Tu sais y'a les hommes comme çà au premier rendez vous ils faire l'amour c'est pour étudier la femme avec qui ils s'unir comme quand une femme me permet qu'on fasse l'amour le premier jour c'est pour savoir tout son comportement et après avoir fini je connais

you gotta understand, we men are very optimistic. it's nothing to do with how you come across, we just keep trying to get sex out of any woman. you can see that charming pickup line 2 posts up.

I have and do have sex on the first date but I believe there's a lot of confusion here.

I'LL TRY TO CUT THROUGH IT!

Back to the OP and OT: As I said I have and do have sex on the first date it will be in situations where we have communicated and we both know it will happen, It won't be a surprise to either of us. I'm not saying it doesn't happen but I don't EXPECT that coffee date or regular dinner date to become a sex date.

Expecting or demanding is not cool!

One big reason why I stopped dating was because men expected sex on first or second date.

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I expect nothing on the first date .... wishful thinking about chemistry maybe .

First dates are like the most romantic the day looks lovely. Everyone around seems to be happy.

Well truth is depending on your characters it can go either good or bad.

Sadly you will have to kiss a few ugly frogs to find the right one.

Anyway the first thing is don't ask for sex please.Oh my gosh!!
Only a very desperate person would say yes.
Look at interests what does this person do in their spare time.
Interests is the key.
Then find what you two have in common.

Trust me everyone has something in common.

Once you find that thing.It can be anything.. Such as cooking.
Then focus on that one thing.To strike a good conversation.

First Date Rules
1.Ask for interests.
2.Smile

When this man wanting you in his bed on the first date he just wanted sex don't feel bad about this you're not that kind of woman his plans changed because you won't give him what he want I'm telling you this from a man's point of view

Hello ladies here's some good advice if a man cannot spend time with you especially on your first date trying to stick his tongue down your throat trying to hump a grind you feel you up he's out for one thing sex you are wasting your time if you are looking for a long-term relationship

Thank you for all your advises opinions and suggestions...i dont want to be rude to be anyone...and i was trying to be nice as much as possible...if i ask someone to meet personally its because im interested to know him more deeply...i want to observe his manners ...how he talked and carry conversation...i can see from staring in his eyes his sincerity or if he has a good intention...and i can sense from his personality what kind of person he is...old school dating is to meet the person face to face....observe each other if you have common interest...but asking someone to have lunch or dinner or agree with someone to go out...doesnt mean that i give signal that its okey to have sex with that person....sorry but its really rude for me asking me for that....very disrespectful....im old, nothing special and not perfect but not all women are the same...be careful because i am being offended...hes gone for good....i dont care ....those kind of person dont care about someones feelings anyway....or maybe i just dont really understand what he really meant....sorry....maybe he is a nice person too ... not just im a best match for him...simple as that...

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well they always think about getting laid. lol

A good connection, failing that then I would have to say great sandwich..

I don't think most men are expecting sex on the first or second date. They are thinking of you in terms of if they would be sexually interested in you and when would you be receptive to their sexual advances. They are trying to figure you out! Don't confuse the two.

can i see you first?