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Topic: Finding the right one
RoxyMe0415's photo
Fri 11/09/18 05:02 AM
How will you know if he is the one? hmmm. :thinking:

MK2's photo
Fri 11/09/18 05:28 AM
You definitely will know
Have safe fun waving

Larsi666 😽's photo
Fri 11/09/18 05:41 AM
Someone who wants to lure you off this site straight away, asking to chat on Whatsapp etc, is the wrong one for sure.

no photo
Fri 11/09/18 06:51 AM

How will you know if he is the one? hmmm. :thinking:


You may not know he's the WRONG one until after marriage.

Date long enough to get to know his family for his, and their, mental
history. Or other strange patterns of behavior which you may not like.
Family abuse, controlling character traits, etc.

At your age, I say it may take 3-4 yrs to know him well enough for a good decision. flowerforyou




JustBeHonest's photo
Fri 11/09/18 06:56 AM
I agree with Galaxy.....

Take your TIME!!!!,

Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 11/09/18 07:07 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Fri 11/09/18 07:08 AM
I will have no problem knowing the right Man for me.

I don't use just One venue.


Hundreds of available men out there.

:smile:


JustBeHonest's photo
Fri 11/09/18 07:09 AM

I will have no problem knowing the right Man for me.

I don't use just One venue.


Hundreds of available men out there.

:smile:




Hundreds? drool

Up2youandme's photo
Fri 11/09/18 07:19 AM
Evidently the most reliable way is putting them on a line up for positive identification lol

MK2's photo
Fri 11/09/18 07:28 AM

I will have no problem knowing the right Man for me.

I don't use just One venue.


Hundreds of available men out there.

:smile:




Have you counted me too? :yum::stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

JustBeHonest's photo
Fri 11/09/18 07:40 AM

Evidently the most reliable way is putting them on a line up for positive identification lol


Are we allowed to do that?

laugh

Up2youandme's photo
Fri 11/09/18 08:49 AM
Isn't that what these forums are for?

Rock's photo
Fri 11/09/18 10:36 AM
When you find the one who treats you like
a priority, and not as an option...
You'll be on the right path.


no photo
Fri 11/09/18 10:44 AM
I'm probably not qualified to answer this since I'm a romantic.

no photo
Fri 11/09/18 10:53 AM
Well, HE will never be the one for me... that's for sure

no photo
Fri 11/09/18 10:59 AM
You'll know


https://youtu.be/m3-hY-hlhBg

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 11/09/18 11:05 AM
Who knows when one will find the right one but if one stands to the side and watches all the time they will never know..

I have seen those that date for 3-7 years get married and it falls apart within 5 years.. Then have known those that married someone within 3 months of meeting them and it lasted 10+ years. ( yea I was one of those)

So there is no time limit it is a feeling... I knew right when I meet my ex he was the one... Did it last no but hey no regrets..

One never knows if it is a forever till you take that step and try...


Duttoneer's photo
Fri 11/09/18 11:36 AM

How will you know if he is the one? hmmm. :thinking:


It is when you both feel that it is right. I agree with what others have said, it is far better not to rush in to marriage, but to enjoy the courtship and let the novelty wear off, so you both learn a lot more about each other when the butterflies have gone.

actionlynx's photo
Fri 11/09/18 12:23 PM
I don't try to rationalize it. If I love someone, I simply try to do the best I can to constantly show it. Sometimes I fail. That's on me. If she doesn't reciprocate, well....it still could be on me. So as long as I constantly make the effort, time will inevitably reveal the truth of things. That takes a bit of faith and trust. Once those get abused though, it's time to pull the plug.

no photo
Fri 11/09/18 02:40 PM

When you find the one who treats you like
a priority, and not as an option...
You'll be on the right path.




:thumbsup:

Up2youandme's photo
Fri 11/09/18 07:05 PM

I don't try to rationalize it. If I love someone, I simply try to do the best I can to constantly show it. Sometimes I fail. That's on me. If she doesn't reciprocate, well....it still could be on me. So as long as I constantly make the effort, time will inevitably reveal the truth of things. That takes a bit of faith and trust. Once those get abused though, it's time to pull the plug.


Once it gets abused? There's a price tag to your show ?

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