Topic: Love at first sight...
illuminaughty's photo
Wed 07/11/18 06:02 AM
What role does 'sex appeal' play in " love at first sight"

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Sat 07/28/18 09:58 PM
Normally it hash no place because it isn't love, when your pink pony gets excited.


illuminaughty's photo
Sun 07/29/18 06:51 AM

Normally it hash no place because it isn't love, when your pink pony gets excited.


sex appeal counts. Why can't we fall in love with some fatty or not so good looking ones. Its the sex appeal that stimulates a love bond.

Larsi666 😽's photo
Sun 07/29/18 07:09 AM
Physical attraction does not equal ending up in bed. JMO

Riana10's photo
Sun 07/29/18 02:11 PM
:joy:

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Sun 07/29/18 02:15 PM
Im sure not sure what you mean by sex appeal, because beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

What one person calls sexy or sex appeal can be revolting to others.

I don't believe in love at first sight, I do believe in a strong attraction or lust at first sight.

If you have a fantasy dream person in mind and they appear of course you are going to be attracted from the get go.

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Sun 07/29/18 03:02 PM

Normally it hash no place because it isn't love, when your pink pony gets excited.




We have horses here in the U.S.... ;)

illuminaughty's photo
Sun 07/29/18 03:25 PM


Normally it hash no place because it isn't love, when your pink pony gets excited.




We have horses here in the U.S.... ;)


rofl oops

Duttoneer's photo
Mon 07/30/18 01:07 AM

What role does 'sex appeal' play in " love at first sight"


Sex appeal is being attractive, seductive or desirable in a sexual way. It must form part of falling in love, however quickly that happened, because it's unlikely you would fall in love with someone you were not sexually attracted to, no matter how much you were attracted to their other personal qualities.

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Mon 07/30/18 05:32 PM
Edited by I_love_bluegrass on Mon 07/30/18 05:32 PM

Sex appeal is being attractive, seductive or desirable in a sexual way. It must form part of falling in love, however quickly that happened, because it's unlikely you would fall in love with someone you were not sexually attracted to, no matter how much you were attracted to their other personal qualities.



Unlikely, but no impossible..

I am reminded of those people that corresponded with soldiers during WW1 and WW2.....many of them shared things via letters, got very close, and got married when they returned home.

Also?

The man I was with before my late husband...we met through one of those personal ads newspapers used to have..
No pictures, of course, had no idea what each other looked like...
But we talked about a month before we met..about anything and everything.
We were together for 8 years...

I am not as concered with what someone looks like as I am are we compatible...do we share commonalities (interests, goals, social and political POV's)...

It's easy to find someone cute/ nice looking/ that makes your boner tingle(if you are a guy)...
But...and true meeting of the minds.....someone who is on the same page as you WRT core issues?
That's hard to find....

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Mon 07/30/18 07:14 PM

Sex appeal is being attractive, seductive or desirable in a sexual way. It must form part of falling in love, however quickly that happened, because it's unlikely you would fall in love with someone you were not sexually attracted to, no matter how much you were attracted to their other personal qualities.



Unlikely, but no impossible..

I am reminded of those people that corresponded with soldiers during WW1 and WW2.....many of them shared things via letters, got very close, and got married when they returned home.

Also?

The man I was with before my late husband...we met through one of those personal ads newspapers used to have..
No pictures, of course, had no idea what each other looked like...
But we talked about a month before we met..about anything and everything.
We were together for 8 years...

I am not as concered with what someone looks like as I am are we compatible...do we share commonalities (interests, goals, social and political POV's)...

It's easy to find someone cute/ nice looking/ that makes your boner tingle(if you are a guy)...
But...and true meeting of the minds.....someone who is on the same page as you WRT core issues?
That's hard to find....


True,Mental chemistry is a rare find!!

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Mon 07/30/18 07:27 PM
Those usually with discenment understands that mental chemistry the launching ground, along with sexual chemistry but if physical chemistry is there its a bonus.

But too many people start with the physical and then wonders why they get burned.

It reminds me of this guy I played hockey with during the winter, he is a nice guy but he longed after this woman, she was a beauty , he pursued, pursued, and pursued until she finally went out with him and she did warn him that she is a jealous person and all that to which he ignored.

Well 8 months later he was regretting his decision and their relation, it was so bad that tried breaking up with her for almost 3 months before she decided okay time to move on, he was two seconds away from getting a R.O.

moral of the story, if you base in on looks it could come back and bite you in the arse.

Rock's photo
Mon 07/30/18 08:34 PM
If there is no sex appeal,
there is no "love at first sight".
Or, any sight thereafter.


Aroundtheworld37's photo
Mon 07/30/18 08:35 PM

If there is no sex appeal,
there is no "love at first sight".
Or, any sight thereafter.



:joy::joy::joy::joy::joy::v:it’s true

illuminaughty's photo
Tue 07/31/18 04:55 AM

If there is no sex appeal,
there is no "love at first sight".
Or, any sight thereafter.




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