To Decide where to go on a date..?
I'm a alone in this feeling..?
Do any other men out there.. feel the same way.?.when it comes to picking a venue for your date night.. hmmmm..lol

.. first off hello you .
Secondly in most cases the man pays.. so it's not really fair to say who pays chooses..

Personally myself.. sometimes it's hard to find a venue to take a date on especially if you being everywhere ...done that being there so to speak.. a number of times...

Sometimes you find yourself having that conversation..ie )..sooo what you want to do?.
Her .. I don't know what you want to do..
Hmmmm... and then I feel like it's back on my shoulders to decide.... once again..

It's great!.. if i pick a fantastic venue ..Im the hero.. but if i come up short ..then Im a big zero

I find a lot of women do this ..wait for the man to make the decisions or come up with some venue to take them to... I can usually do a pretty good job of that....
But sometimes I secretly think in my own head... great !!!..I have no idea what to do with this person.. or where to take them..
I want to show them a good time but I can't seem to think of any place to go....
Then I feel... like some kind of loser... for not having some great venue to go to all the time... someplace to take them..her..

Then I think to myself ..hmmm..wait a minute !!..why is it just up to me..
Why can't she .. Rack her brains on where we should go for a change.. let her stress out about it...lol...

Very valid points mister :-)

I think you (men) should use the opportunity to enjoy
your last drive in the driver's seat.

Take her to all the places YOU like, as a sort of litmus
test during the getting-to-know-you stage.

You can later use this for ammunition, "But when we first
met, you said you loved camping."

So, no, it is a perk of dating for women, being offered
a menu of what-to-do as opposed to coming up with
something ourselves.

We are unlikely to give that up.
Telling you what to do will come soon enough :-)

If I find a hair in the "Happy Meal"...
I'll never take her to that McDonald's again.

Why not suggest to her that you guys take turns in deciding the place? This month could be your turn . The next can be hers , and keep alternating :)

I personally was very contented with simple dates like movies, dance parties, karaoke, icecream parlors, affordable restaurants , and a walk around the park when I was in a relationship. I loved my mate's company so he was usually the main feature attraction for me... not the place :D

By the way a morning date on a weekend might be a nice change eg going for a lovely breakfast together or even a picnic in the afternoon

once you crack the secret gurl code and learn to pay attention, she does pick more often.

how about this?
no
this?
no
wanna do that?
uh uh
ok how do you feel about this one?
naaa
alright look
I am only gonna turn around one more time
and go down this street
pick one would ya???

too late trish we are stopping here and you are gonna luv it.
they gots everything hotdogs and even the new tools on display

oh man it's Home Depot with the hotdog truck out front again

well next time make up yer mind before we get there

balance, its on the womans shoulders to bear children

ID say men got the lighter end of the deal ...

Humm have never had that issue I always suggest a few places if and when I go out to eat with anyone... Normally I'm the one that has to suggest cause the guy is like I don't care

.wow!!.. I can't believe you played that card..lol.. wait a minute !!Yes I can..
But what hospital are we going to.??..
We went to that other one last time...
You never take me anywhere new...lmao

Easy this one.

If a woman spent even half the time deciding where to go, as she does deciding what to wear, you'd get nowhere.

I could never keep up with you if I tried ...

I am just poking fun at the tradition of different expectations for men and women. There is a balance, in general, of what things they both are expected to do for the relationship to flow, but of course each couple then goes on to define their own more subjective and personal expectations of each other.

My ex husband couldn't make a decision to save his life.

Men's energy works in the same way - to decide, to act, to offer as women's energy is acceptance, appreciation, careness. It's by Nature, but seems nowadays people are far from the Nature :))

Yes, it's called women's liberation.

Did he die?
One foot on the train tracks, one foot off?