if you are waiting for perfect, you will be waiting your entire life. each person has flaws of one kind or another.

Sometimes ppl arent attractive to us at first.....and then their personality shines through and makes them beautiful.....

i think looks are important and personality, you need both

i need to be attracted to him

You're never shallow DEB.

thanks

i couldnt date someone i wasnt attracted to, so looks are important, but equally i couldnt date a man with a **** personality

I said what's up sweety? But I don't see that message, my cp's acting funny, I might have to extraordinarily Rendate it!

that was a different thread, i replied to you.

Yeah I know that's what I'm saying this thing is acting up, I might have to put that schooling to work real quick.......

ok

yo dude im not waiting for the right one but i am waiting for some one that is going to be there for the rest of my live and that dont want a pice of papper thats sayes we love each other kidds well i cant have any so thats not a problem with me but if they have some thats kool to but when they get out of hand and you say some thing its there not your kidds or you have no right to say anything and ***** you out if you say one word about it or the kidds hate you because your not there dad and they tell you to piss off or the mother dose because they think your not good enough so i dont know what to say dude but good luck its hell dating and even worst to find the right one good luck to us all it sucks being single

first of all, yeah, its a little shallow... but at the same time, there does have to be physical attraction. though thats not what any relationship should be based on. i dont do the mutual match thing because there is no basis for it other than age and opposite sex. but the girls you are denying based on looks alone are probably happy about that. you would be a waste of time if you didnt believe that the more you got to know someone the more beautiful they become. if you choose people you associate based on looks alone, you are going to have a long lonely road.


just my opinion.

It isn't always safe to dive right into the deep end. Sometimes your better off wading in through the shallow. Isn't the swim the most important part?

I'm not going to call you shallow, b/c all you have to go by on here is pictures and a quick blurb about a person. I tend to be alot more shallow on here than I am in real life. You do have to keep in mind that looks fade, but jerk is forever. Be careful about that...

And *****Y is not sexy!

i guess the only thing that really makes me any different then is that I not only want perfect, but that I refuse to settle, and maybe apearence us just the fastest simplest way to weed through some of them


Ummm ... NObody is perfect, not even Jessica Biel or Pamela Anderson Lee or Jennifer Aniston, or whoever is your ideal of "perfect". So that's your first mistake.

"Settle"? How old are you? If you're in your 20s, 30s, or even 40s you're a little young to be talking about "settling".

"Weed through some of them" -- no offense but, you don't look like Johnny Depp or George Clooney or Jack Black yourself, buddy, and when women use Mutual Match they may very well be "weeding through" your pic!

You just sound a bit immature. IMO!

'scuse the double post!

I just looked at your profile. You're 23, so you are WAY too young to be talking about "settling".

Second, you say you have personality and then you put nothing in your profile that would indicate one.

Can't ask for what you don't have to offer, mister. I find nothing more offensive than guys like you who say they want this, they want that, they want perfect, and yet what they have to OFFER is a big Zero.

Not saying all you have to offer is zero but from your profile, there ain't much to go on!

I like the double post, so maybe if it doesn't sink in the 'first time" there is hope for a second and SOMETIMES a third LOL

if they are weedng me out then good, I dont want to waste their time as I dont want them to waste mine. And egerone is jumpng to the conclusion thatssying that looks are all that's important, which I NEVER said, im saying when a relationship advances, and its time to be getting intimate, its important to have a physical atraction, whithout which the relationship will break down, and all I'm doing is kinda pre-screening, and clearly some ppl agree with me and some dont